I can’t talk to women

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I am so mad at myself why the fuck i can’t communicate with a woman. I can truly be NT in front of any male that i know or not. But as soon as i see a female who is not even attractive or is straight up ugly why the fuck i become ND. My humour my communication skills and even my NTness just gets destroyed and I start acting autistic ND and high inhibitor


Even when girls try to talk to me i never look at their face and avoid eye contact. Even when i know she is interested in me

Somebody help


@Daddy's Home @autistic_tendencies @Looks over NT @browncurrycel @NT Master
 
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Same
Waiting for answer
 
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Retardmaxx

Talk like the dumbest guy you know, and just larp low inhib
 
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same issue here lmk when u get the answer
 
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Just keep trying. when I was 13-14, I used to shiver when talking to girls and I got better over time
 
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It’s not that easy bro. How can i act like someone i am not:feelswah:
Honestly just takes practice, and hang out with girls you aren't interested in so you can get used to talking to them
 
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Also look at the nt people in ur life and steal catchy common phrases they say and apply it to ur lingo when ur not around them
 
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When i was in middle school I had insane inhib was addicted to porn and couldn't talk to girls for shit. Now im still addicted to porn but I can talk to girls just because ive made friends with some and over time got used to them
 
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Just keep trying. when I was 13-14, I used to shiver when talking to girls and I got better over time
The problem is even after knowing that a girl is interested in me i just avoid interaction. But i want to talk to them but my body is on default mode to procrastinate
 
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idk but tag me if someone gives u the answer
 
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over for these high inhib cells
 
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Also look at the nt people in ur life and steal catchy common phrases they say and apply it to ur lingo when ur not around them
I tried but I can’t say all those stuff because I don’t find them of any use
 
The problem is even after knowing that a girl is interested in me i just avoid interaction. But i want to talk to them but my body is on default mode to procrastinate
I also have problems cold starting a convo with girls, even if they're showing some interest. Another bonus of having girl friends is they will introduce you to chicks hopefully in a non awkward way
 
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I am so mad at myself why the fuck i can’t communicate with a woman. I can truly be NT in front of any male that i know or not. But as soon as i see a female who is not even attractive or is straight up ugly why the fuck i become ND. My humour my communication skills and even my NTness just gets destroyed and I start acting autistic ND and high inhibitor


Even when girls try to talk to me i never look at their face and avoid eye contact. Even when i know she is interested in me

Somebody help


@Daddy's Home @autistic_tendencies @Looks over NT @browncurrycel @NT Master
Same
Waiting for answer
It's so unbelievably easy to talk to women, you just act like their big brother

only works mtn+ tho
 
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Is there any solution :feelswhy:
bro im not even gonna lie i dont know i dont rlly remember any of the conversations with foids besides the ones with my nd gf :forcedsmile:
 
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I also have problems cold starting a convo with girls, even if they're showing some interest. Another bonus of having girl friends is they will introduce you to chicks hopefully in a non awkward way
The moment she introduce me to her friends they will know i am an incel who just doesn’t look like one. I am scared of them:feelswah:
 
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It's so unbelievably easy to talk to women, you just act like their big brother

only works mtn+ tho
The problem is loose all my saneness in front of a foid and go retard in front of them. I am asking how to stop it:feelsgood:
 
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bro im not even gonna lie i dont know i dont rlly remember any of the conversations with foids besides the ones with my nd gf :forcedsmile:
Where to find a ND woman:feelswah:
 
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I am so mad at myself why the fuck i can’t communicate with a woman. I can truly be NT in front of any male that i know or not. But as soon as i see a female who is not even attractive or is straight up ugly why the fuck i become ND. My humour my communication skills and even my NTness just gets destroyed and I start acting autistic ND and high inhibitor


Even when girls try to talk to me i never look at their face and avoid eye contact. Even when i know she is interested in me

Somebody help


@Daddy's Home @autistic_tendencies @Looks over NT @browncurrycel @NT Master
In my case it's a result of my past rejections, I wasn't awkward with women when I was in middle school but as time passed I became insecure. Fuck my looks, this wouldn't have happened if I were not ugly.
 
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How rare are they
depends, 75% of the girls that say they have bpd or any manic or personality disorder are lying. you kinda have to know what traits to look for, dont go for a autist girl.
 
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In my case it's a result of my past rejections, I wasn't awkward with women when I was in middle school but as time passed I became insecure.
Same bro i was also very social around women earlier but then in middle school a bitch straight up said to my face that i am ugly and i will never get any women:feelswah:
 
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I am so mad at myself why the fuck i can’t communicate with a woman. I can truly be NT in front of any male that i know or not. But as soon as i see a female who is not even attractive or is straight up ugly why the fuck i become ND. My humour my communication skills and even my NTness just gets destroyed and I start acting autistic ND and high inhibitor


Even when girls try to talk to me i never look at their face and avoid eye contact. Even when i know she is interested in me

Somebody help


@Daddy's Home @autistic_tendencies @Looks over NT @browncurrycel @NT Master
it literally fries my brain listening to a foid talk. i tune it out and talk over them usuaally.
 
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depends, 75% of the girls that say they have bpd or any manic or personality disorder are lying. you kinda have to know what traits to look for, dont go for a autist girl.
It is pure luck i guess:feelswah:
 
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Same bro i was also very social around women earlier but then in middle school a bitch straight up said to my face that i am ugly and i will never get any women:feelswah:
Real

Middle school was one big humiliation ritual for me, completely fucked my confidence
 
When i was in middle school I had insane inhib was addicted to porn and couldn't talk to girls for shit. Now im still addicted to porn but I can talk to girls just because ive made friends with some and over time got used to them
So how do you make friends with girls:feelswah: any ideas
 
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Nope not no even one
 
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Nope not no even one
Okay so first you gotta get guy friends, then from them you'll meet girls platonically

Or you just gotta bite the bullet and try to start up a convo with a girl
 
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Their is girl in my class which i like. She even showed interest in me but i can’t talk to her because of my anxiety is their any solution
Do you talk to her on any socials or snap her or anything?

What signs of interest did she show?
 
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Okay so first you gotta get guy friends, then from them you'll meet girls platonically

Or you just gotta bite the bullet and try to start up a convo with a girl
They tried introducing me to their female friends but i am high inhibitor due to which I completely ignore females from friend circle deep down dieing to talk to them:feelswah:
 
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How do you know i have higher IQ then them
because theyre all low iq as shit
idk man theyre not intimidating
afterall its all looks wherher they like u or not
dont be nervous
 
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They tried introducing me to their female friends but i am high inhibitor due to which I completely ignore females from friend circle deep down dieing to talk to them:feelswah:
Even if at first you just stand in a circle with them and ignore them it's fine, but with enough exposure you'll get used to them and start talking to them

Barbecue chicken from there
 
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