I chatted with a girl

[Deleted member 10536]

And she said she couldn't stop laughing, and that she's going to regret everything tomorrow badly, because need to wake up early.
She's old though, but very pretty. Rejected my request for a date at first(I ask out within 2-8 sentences), but she enjoyed talking with me so much, she might go out now. She was very suspicious of my age. Gave me 24, but wondered if I'm even 18. She prefers shorter hair.
How is that non-nt? We both had fun chat and she and I loved it. She also doesn't seem like what you guys always suggest(kissing/fucking) on first date. Idk, yes, girls are like that, a lot of them are, but I never match those girls, my looks, my bio, attract these specific girls which aren't into this entire hookup thing, which is great, because that's what I'm looking for too.

 

[Deleted member 7465]

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Huh?
2 Trucels

 

[Deleted member 7465]

Huh?
2 Trucels

Pass the bumboclaaat weed

 

[Deleted member 10949]

woman dont want to fuck with you first date because you arent sexually appealing

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Pass the bumboclaaat weed

I don't do weed, sorry.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

woman dont want to fuck with you first date because you arent sexually appealing

I don't want to either. I seek to establish a long lasting relationship.

 

[Deleted member 10949]

I don't want to either. I seek to establish a long lasting relationship.

What i am trying to say is

if you are hot any girl is going to say yes if u ask them to fuck over text messages

 

[Deleted member 7465]

I don't do weed, sorry.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

What i am trying to say is

if you are hot any girl is going to say yes if u ask them to fuck over text messages

Then why they bother with me? Just seek to abuse me or what? Girls aren't hot in a traditional way. They cute or pretty. Plenty of ''hot'' girls, too, but they don't match me, so never relevant. I match the wholesome girls, but they all end up with a disaster anyway.

 

[Deleted member 8919]

Dude legit none gives a shit

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I got hi.

 

[Deleted member 8919]

Kys chad

 

[Deleted member 10949]

Then why they bother with me? Just seek to abuse me or what? Girls aren't hot in a traditional way. They cute or pretty. Plenty of ''hot'' girls, too, but they don't match me, so never relevant. I match the wholesome girls, but they all end up with a disaster anyway.

I think they do seem to like you

but not to the point they wanna fuck with you at first d8

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Dude legit none gives a shit

No one else to share with.

 

[Deleted member 8919]

No one else to share with.

Ok chad

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I think they do seem to like you

but not to the point they wanna fuck with you at first d8

Well, ye, but why they ghost me, always then? Not like I want/try to fuck them. Idc about slaying... I want feelings, love, empathy, warmth. Something real and substantial, something to look back and something to live for.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Ok chad

I'm not, why you say that? I'm 30... In this position, I'm anything, but chad.

 

[Deleted member 10949]

Well, ye, but why they ghost me, always then? Not like I want/try to fuck them. Idc about slaying... I want feelings, love, empathy, warmth. Something real and substantial, something to look back and something to live for.

u got a pic of urself?

also how tall are you and how much u weigh

 

[Deleted member 10536]

u got a pic of urself?

also how tall are you and how much u weigh

179, around 65, got fat a bit lately.

 

[Deleted member 10949]

179, around 65, got fat a bit lately.

Your height seems fine also try to get to 75kg

idk how ur face looks so yeah

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Your height seems fine also try to get to 75kg

idk how ur face looks so yeah

I'll never get to 75. I used to lift a bit and i got close to 70. But seems unsustainable and lifting isnt really for me.

 

[Deleted member 10949]

I'll never get to 75. I used to lift a bit and i got close to 70. But seems unsustainable and lifting isnt really for me.

wait nvm

 

[Deleted member 10536]

thats probably the issue

gain some weight and grow a beard

Cant really. Got to keep my integrity. Beard sucks on me and i dont have enough health to lift so much.

 

[Deleted member 10949]

Cant really. Got to keep my integrity. Beard sucks on me and i dont have enough health to lift so much.

Look at the reply i gave u on inbox

 

[Bewusst]

Well, ye, but why they ghost me, always then?

Because you're not making a move and they assume you either don't have the balls or aren't interested in sex, like they probably are. Another possibility: they don't find you attractive enough to keep in touch.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Because you're not making a move and they assume you either don't have the balls or aren't interested in sex, like they probably are. Another possibility: they don't find you attractive enough to keep in touch.

I'm just ugly, which is what I've always claimed.
It doesn't make sense to me to make a move in sexual terms, because that can't be a right thing to do. Even if it was, to just flat out act the way they do is more than just cruel.
As long as the girls are like the way they are, I'll never make a move, because they don't seem to be the sexual ones. They seem ltr oriented, preferring to take things slowly. Not till at least second date, not until I get these non-sexual girls. If they'd be sexual and show it some, then I would too. Inb4 they won't make first move... I can read and get subtle hints....

 

[Deleted member 7580]

65 kgs ? Lmao you’re a twink

perfect for trans maxxing

 

[Pietrosiek]

U match foids. That means alot. U get dates. That means alot. U are not ugly if that shit happeneds. I told u what u need to do.

I'll never get to 75. I used to lift a bit and i got close to 70. But seems unsustainable and lifting isnt really for me.

U need to do it if u want more sex apeal.

 

[Bewusst]

I'm just ugly, which is what I've always claimed.
It doesn't make sense to me to make a move in sexual terms, because that can't be a right thing to do. Even if it was, to just flat out act the way they do is more than just cruel.
As long as the girls are like the way they are, I'll never make a move, because they don't seem to be the sexual ones. They seem ltr oriented, preferring to take things slowly. Not till at least second date, not until I get these non-sexual girls. If they'd be sexual and show it some, then I would too. Inb4 they won't make first move... I can read and get subtle hints....

That's a possibility, however, I doubt that your dates would "go well" and that there would be any chemistry if they thought you were that ugly. They'd find an excuse to leave early or be cold and not talk much.

To them your probably a weird guy since all the other men they met were way more physical and would give them sexual validation which you don't seem to do. This might hurt their self-esteem.

Another thing is, the women you've met may not be interested in another platonic relationship in the first place. If you're looking for a romantic relationship, even if you want to take things slow, you need to let them know and there must be at least some kind of sexual tension/connection. Sitting there and talking soberly about external things won't achieve that. Women are emotional and pleasure-seeking, not logic-oriented like men are

 

[Pietrosiek]

That's a possibility, however, I doubt that your dates would "go well" and that there would be any chemistry if they thought you were that ugly. They'd find an excuse to leave early or be cold and not talk much.

To them your probably a weird guy since all the other men they met were way more physical and would give them sexual validation which you don't seem to do. This might hurt their self-esteem.

Another thing is, the women you've met may not be interested in another platonic relationship in the first place. If you're looking for a romantic relationship, even if you want to take things slow, you need to let them know and there must be at least some kind of sexual tension/connection. Sitting there and talking soberly about external things won't achieve that. Women are emotional and pleasure-seeking, not logic-oriented like men are

Indeed. Also op, u should try statusmax

 

[Deleted member 10536]

U match foids. That means alot. U get dates. That means alot. U are not ugly if that shit happeneds. I told u what u need to do.



U need to do it if u want more sex apeal.

You're over exaggerating. I get very few dates, like crumbs of breads over the years. And the matches are very few, too. Its just the end result is what really reveals the reality. Is what it seems to me.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

That's a possibility, however, I doubt that your dates would "go well" and that there would be any chemistry if they thought you were that ugly. They'd find an excuse to leave early or be cold and not talk much.

To them your probably a weird guy since all the other men they met were way more physical and would give them sexual validation which you don't seem to do. This might hurt their self-esteem.

Another thing is, the women you've met may not be interested in another platonic relationship in the first place. If you're looking for a romantic relationship, even if you want to take things slow, you need to let them know and there must be at least some kind of sexual tension/connection. Sitting there and talking soberly about external things won't achieve that. Women are emotional and pleasure-seeking, not logic-oriented like men are

They look for a guy I look for a girl. That was always said and established. If that's not obvious, then idk what is. Weren't they the "subtle" gender, and no, I'm not that subtle in the first place. Like, we explicitly talk about it, i.e. I'm looking for a gf/relationship. An important person.

 

[Chadeep]

What do you look like. Nerd Pheno?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

What do you look like. Nerd Pheno?

Not really? I don't think so. I think I sort of look like eva, but a male version. Or... Idk, can't really compare to anyone tbh. I seem to myself to be quite unique looking.
People have mentioned a bit like barett?

 

[Chadeep]

Not really? I don't think so. I think I sort of look like eva, but a male version. Or... Idk, can't really compare to anyone tbh. I seem to myself to be quite unique looking.

Ok Chad. You should try to hit on young girls tbh. They like Prettyboys.

 

[Pietrosiek]

Not really? I don't think so. I think I sort of look like eva, but a male version. Or... Idk, can't really compare to anyone tbh. I seem to myself to be quite unique looking.
People have mentioned a bit like barett?

Yes, u look like that. Very gl but not apealing. U could be a model

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Ok Chad. You should try to hit on young girls tbh. They like Prettyboys.

Am not a chad. And I don't discriminate girls, besides fatness.

 

[Chadeep]

Am not a chad. And I don't discriminate girls, besides fatness.

You're androgynous most old women prefer masc guys. That's why I said you should go for girls who like guys like you. Those are 18-20 year olds.

 

[Deleted member 5893]

lucky

 

[Deleted member 10536]

You're androgynous most old women prefer masc guys. That's why I said you should go for girls who like guys like you. Those are 18-20 year olds.

Its not like I have a choice. Beggars choosers, etc, etc. I take whatever is available.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

lucky

With what exactly? I'm still khh(v) at 30 yo...

 

[Bewusst]

They look for a guy I look for a girl. That was always said and established. If that's not obvious, then idk what is. Weren't they the "subtle" gender, and no, I'm not that subtle in the first place. Like, we explicitly talk about it, i.e. I'm looking for a gf/relationship. An important person.

Talking is good and all but your actions have to match your intentions. It's also much harder probably to establish a relationship these days than to have a rather meaningless ONS. You need to meet way more criteria for that

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Talking is good and all but your actions have to match your intentions. It's also much harder probably to establish a relationship these days than to have a rather meaningless ONS. You need to meet way more criteria for that

What kind of actions can one expect in 1-2hours walk in a park. I mean, seriously... No, I don't believe it.