i cold approached by accident

[isis_Bleach]

i used to talk to girls at school basically cold approaching but i actually didn’t see it that way

i was just doing it because i was low inhib i just got the idea to talk to them somehow and did it right away jfl

i didn’t even wanna slay

over if u “cold approach” as soon as u call it that it becomes forced because it is forced ur a pussy who has to force it

so the lesson is if ur scared to approach don’t do it only do it if ur 0% scared in that case u won’t need to force it anyways

 

[Wallenberg]

Talking to women isn't cold approaching.

 

[isis_Bleach]

Talking to women isn't cold approaching.

well people here call it that
if u speak to someone out of the blue

 

[Gonthar]

Even when I had no idea about cold approaching and no sexual or romantic interest in girls, I noticed that if I approached them to talk about school, various projects or even ask for directions, the time, etc. - they would just stare awkwardly at me for a few seconds before responding and usually acted cold and aloof...

 

[Deleted member 17791]

Even when I had no idea about cold approaching and no sexual or romantic interest in girls, I noticed that if I approached them to talk about school, various projects or even ask for directions, the time, etc. - they would just stare awkwardly at me for a few seconds before responding and usually acted cold and aloof...

I asked a girl the time and she immediately responded saying "what did you say?", "oh, it's 12:12"

 

[isis_Bleach]

Even when I had no idea about cold approaching and no sexual or romantic interest in girls, I noticed that if I approached them to talk about school, various projects or even ask for directions, the time, etc. - they would just stare awkwardly at me for a few seconds before responding and usually acted cold and aloof...

they didn’t really act cold when i did this but it was high school so more open environment

 

[Gonthar]

I asked a girl the time and she immediately responded saying "what did you say?", "oh, it's 12:12"

You probably didn't speak loud enough, I also tend to speak softly and most of the time people ask me to repeat what I just said. If I approach and raise my voice intentionally so they wouldn't ask again what I just said, the girls usually tend to act scared, like I just yelled at them out of nowhere, it's pretty hard to find the exact volume and tone of voice - one decibel lower or higher, and the conversation usually starts off on the wrong foot...

 

[Deleted member 17791]

You probably didn't speak loud enough, I also tend to speak softly and most of the time people ask me to repeat what I just said. If I approach and raise my voice intentionally so they wouldn't ask again what I just said, the girls usually tend to act scared, like I just yelled at them out of nowhere, it's pretty hard to find the exact volume and tone of voice - one decibel lower or higher, and the conversation usually starts off on the wrong foot...

I usually talk quiet. I sometimes also don't speak clearly.

 

[isis_Bleach]

You probably didn't speak loud enough, I also tend to speak softly and most of the time people ask me to repeat what I just said. If I approach and raise my voice intentionally so they wouldn't ask again what I just said, the girls usually tend to act scared, like I just yelled at them out of nowhere, it's pretty hard to find the exact volume and tone of voice - one decibel lower or higher, and the conversation usually starts off on the wrong foot...

it’s just being akward

 

[isis_Bleach]

You probably didn't speak loud enough, I also tend to speak softly and most of the time people ask me to repeat what I just said. If I approach and raise my voice intentionally so they wouldn't ask again what I just said, the girls usually tend to act scared, like I just yelled at them out of nowhere, it's pretty hard to find the exact volume and tone of voice - one decibel lower or higher, and the conversation usually starts off on the wrong foot...

u have to keep speaking loud so they think ur always like that
it keeps things more smoothly and saves u from the embarasent

 

[germanlooks]

well people here call it that
if u speak to someone out of the blue

It only is cold approaching if it’s done under the motive to ask her out.

If I ask a female stranger on the street for the direction to the next bus station it wasn’t a cold approach

 

[isis_Bleach]

It only is cold approaching if it’s done under the motive to ask her out.

If I ask a female stranger on the street for the direction to the next bus station it wasn’t a cold approach

that’s not what i was doing it was for fun not for a functional purpose i had a whole conversation and befriended them

 

[Gonthar]

u have to keep speaking loud so they think ur always like that
it keeps things more smoothly and saves u from the embarasent

If I do this, some people will always stare at me annoyed and sometimes even say: "What do you always have to talk so loud?" or "Do you ever shut up?".

 

[MoggerGaston]

Even when I had no idea about cold approaching and no sexual or romantic interest in girls, I noticed that if I approached them to talk about school, various projects or even ask for directions, the time, etc. - they would just stare awkwardly at me for a few seconds before responding and usually acted cold and aloof...

Had the same in high school. Even just talking to women without romantic intent would often have them look ugly at me or walk away.

Women refuse to even socialize at all with sub4PSL men. I hate women.