I could never speak about feelings with a man

[Volksstaffel]

It's simply not possible. Even with my best friend of 16 years I cannot show any sign of vulnerability around him, nothing.

Idk if it's male instinct or the fact that I always feel the need to compete with other men due to past experiences.

 

[ragingmanlet]

 

[BigBallsLarry]

I'm the same IRL, but i don't mind being real about feelings online

 

[Aox Ofwar]

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Have you been taking up Russian courses or sumn

 

[Aox Ofwar]

I'm the same IRL, but i don't mind being real about feelings online

Cuz nobody wanna hear that shit if we're being real

And nobody wants to put a burden on someone else

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Cuz nobody wanna hear that shit if we're being real

And nobody wants to put a burden on someone else

Yeah exactly, there's never a time to bring it up either. And even if there was a perfect moment then it'll usually just end up ruining the day just like you said. Not worth it.

Maybe through text, if something serious happened, and if you're close enough with ur homie, but i never got the pleasure of having a close friend like that.

 

[Jgns]

It's simply not possible. Even with my best friend of 16 years I cannot show any sign of vulnerability around him, nothing.

Idk if it's male instinct or the fact that I always feel the need to compete with other men due to past experiences.

so u lowkey reach another level of manhood where all other men seem like women to u and its now comefortable

 

[Aox Ofwar]

Yeah exactly, there's never a time to bring it up either. And even if there was a perfect moment then it'll usually just end up ruining the day just like you said. Not worth it.

Maybe through text, if something serious happened, and if you're close enough with ur homie, but i never got the pleasure of having a close friend like that.

I did it to my friend once and he vented as well cuz he went through a lot of shit but honestly in hindsight it feels gay as fuck and I'm never gonna do it again

If I need to vent I can do it on my favorite Indian incel forum, I honestly hate to see my rl friends depressed because I know how much it hurts but at the same time I don't know how to help them because it's not appropriated really and I'm not a psychologist either, everyone keeps their shit to themselves

Which is why I prefer to be around dudes who are just complete normies and fun to hang out with, simple and kind people to make my aspie existence more bearable