I didnt love my girlfriend for over a year

[stimulantcell]

We dated for just over a year, the entire time we were constantly together and always went out on dates and shit, but its so weird when i genuinely think about her i have no idea who she is or why i was even in the relationship, a part of me feels empathetic toward her for whatever reason. She broke up with me 2 days ago after about a year and I feel absolutely nothing at all i genuinely feel the exact same way i did our entire relationship. Can somone help im just confused on why i am this way

 

[logicalpill850]

the good thing is you don't have to move on

 

[stimulantcell]

the good thing is you don't have to move on

Im just so confused man its absurd

 

[AscendMEincels]

nigga took ashwagandha at 13

 

[stimulantcell]

nigga took ashwagandha at 13

Im looking for somone with high iq bruh idek why this happend

 

[AscendMEincels]

Im looking for somone with high iq bruh idek why this happend

nigga there is no high iq for this shit u just didnt have any feelings for her

 

[jailcel]

relationships are exhausting

 

[Emerq]

 

[stimulantcell]

nigga there is no high iq for this shit u just didnt have any feelings for her

I couldve explained it better i definitely did At least i think im just confused and bored idfk

 

[Orka]

We dated for just over a year, the entire time we were constantly together and always went out on dates and shit, but its so weird when i genuinely think about her i have no idea who she is or why i was even in the relationship, a part of me feels empathetic toward her for whatever reason. She broke up with me 2 days ago after about a year and I feel absolutely nothing at all i genuinely feel the exact same way i did our entire relationship. Can somone help im just confused on why i am this way

You were dating, but not emotionally connected.

Dating people just because you don't want to feel lonely is a common thing

 

[Puregorillagenetics]

That shit isn't worth it just pump and dump tbh

 

[bowl8]

We dated for just over a year, the entire time we were constantly together and always went out on dates and shit, but its so weird when i genuinely think about her i have no idea who she is or why i was even in the relationship, a part of me feels empathetic toward her for whatever reason. She broke up with me 2 days ago after about a year and I feel absolutely nothing at all i genuinely feel the exact same way i did our entire relationship. Can somone help im just confused on why i am this way

maybe you viewed her as possessing such a critical lack of intellectual stimulation that the emotions of that relationship with her was akin to a relationship with a dog and master

or maybe youve just chronically derealized your life and have intense imposter syndrome and dont even feel like it was really you in that relationship, just a character your playing

or maybe you were just thinking with your dick the whole time

or maybe you just had and wanted a girlfriend because its "supposed" to be nice

what do you think

 

[stimulantcell]

You were dating, but not emotionally connected.

Dating people just because you don't want to feel lonely is a common thing

Its just weird because i genuinely thought i loved her but now its just almost like she was never even in my life i almost forget what she sounds like and how she acts, we were together for a year straight and it just ended like i said two days ago. So strange

 

[Orka]

Its just weird because i genuinely thought i loved her but now its just almost like she was never even in my life i almost forget what she sounds like and how she acts, we were together for a year straight and it just ended like i said two days ago. So strange

Sounds like both of you checked out of the relationship emotionally months ago then

 

[stimulantcell]

maybe you viewed her as possessing such a critical lack of intellectual stimulation that the emotions of that relationship with her was akin to a relationship with a dog and master

or maybe youve just chronically derealized your life and have intense imposter syndrome and dont even feel like it was really you in that relationship, just a character your playing

or maybe you were just thinking with your dick the whole time

or maybe you just had and wanted a girlfriend because its "supposed" to be nice

what do you think

I do catch myself mirroring every single person i talk to subconsciously Ive done it ever since i could remeber, As a young kid i didnt know how to talk to do anything at all for myself unless i saw somone do it first, could it be possible that i was just mirroring her the entire time subconsciously and thats why we got along so well? I feel like this shit is ruining my life i dont exactly know who i am any tips on how to stop this shit?

 

[bignigga]

We dated for just over a year, the entire time we were constantly together and always went out on dates and shit, but its so weird when i genuinely think about her i have no idea who she is or why i was even in the relationship, a part of me feels empathetic toward her for whatever reason. She broke up with me 2 days ago after about a year and I feel absolutely nothing at all i genuinely feel the exact same way i did our entire relationship. Can somone help im just confused on why i am this way

Is this a demolition reference

Jake gyllenhaal is this you

 

[illoan82]

We dated for just over a year, the entire time we were constantly together and always went out on dates and shit, but its so weird when i genuinely think about her i have no idea who she is or why i was even in the relationship, a part of me feels empathetic toward her for whatever reason. She broke up with me 2 days ago after about a year and I feel absolutely nothing at all i genuinely feel the exact same way i did our entire relationship. Can somone help im just confused on why i am this way

I was with someone in HS broke up with them after a few months and I’ve known her since elementary, didn’t feel shit after breakup and never talked to her ever since, it’s just a normal behavior atleast ur not overreacting over a girl like a nigger

 

[stimulantcell]

maybe you viewed her as possessing such a critical lack of intellectual stimulation that the emotions of that relationship with her was akin to a relationship with a dog and master

or maybe youve just chronically derealized your life and have intense imposter syndrome and dont even feel like it was really you in that relationship, just a character your playing

or maybe you were just thinking with your dick the whole time

or maybe you just had and wanted a girlfriend because its "supposed" to be nice

what do you think

or maybe youve just chronically derealized your life and have intense imposter syndrome and dont even feel like it was really you in that relationship, just a character your playing


Exactly this, I feel like i was never with her A day in my entire life, I dont lack any mental clairty ussaly but this is just so confusing, is there anyway to stop this shit? Its only good for manipulating people in short term because they thing im so alike but long term it fucks me

 

[bowl8]

Its just weird because i genuinely thought i loved her but now its just almost like she was never even in my life i almost forget what she sounds like and how she acts, we were together for a year straight and it just ended like i said two days ago. So strange

maybe you need more sleep

 

[h76]

You were dating, but not emotionally connected.

Dating people just because you don't want to feel lonely is a common thing

shit nigga u smarttttttttttt, guess who got 14 dollars btw

 

[afy]

sounds miserable. this is bro

 

[stimulantcell]

sounds miserable. this is bro
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Im this much of an incel, elaborate

 

[afy]

Im this much of an incel, elaborate

loving a foid is top 5 feeling OAT

 

[bowl8]

I do catch myself mirroring every single person i talk to subconsciously Ive done it ever since i could remeber, As a young kid i didnt know how to talk to do anything at all for myself unless i saw somone do it first, could it be possible that i was just mirroring her the entire time subconsciously and thats why we got along so well? I feel like this shit is ruining my life i dont exactly know who i am any tips on how to stop this shit?

well idk, but if i had to guess, i would say that you must forgo all the personalities and people that youve mirrored, unfortunately, if you have been doing this since before you remember, then who you are at the core, will likely be an individual that is difficult to describe and whose character is very different to articulate, when and if you forgo these personalities, your relationships with others will start to feel very weird, and slimy, because your no longer playing the character you commonly do when interacting with friends, family, and strangers, then, if you fully forgo these characters you have accumulated by mirroring people, you will realize that you likely dont make genuine connections with other people, just connections with your various masks. Then you will have much less value of your relationships with others. So you will be left alone, without connections to others, and not knowing who you even are. which is likely if you are always subconsciously mirroring people, lacking sight of your genuine character is to be expected in that situation. From there you have nothing, and from there, you can do whatever you want with it. You can discover who you are ig, if you want

 

[stimulantcell]

well idk, but if i had to guess, i would say that you must forgo all the personalities and people that youve mirrored, unfortunately, if you have been doing this since before you remember, then who you are at the core, will likely be an individual that is difficult to describe and whose character is very different to articulate, when and if you forgo these personalities, your relationships with others will start to feel very weird, and slimy, because your no longer playing the character you commonly do when interacting with friends, family, and strangers, then, if you fully forgo these characters you have accumulated by mirroring people, you will realize that you likely dont make genuine connections with other people, just connections with your various masks. Then you will have much less value of your relationships with others. So you will be left alone, without connections to others, and not knowing who you even are. which is likely if you are always subconsciously mirroring people, lacking sight of your genuine character is to be expected in that situation. From there you have nothing, and from there, you can do whatever you want with it. You can discover who you are ig, if you want

Ok so in fucked either countine this forever or just die alone

 

[stimulantcell]

well idk, but if i had to guess, i would say that you must forgo all the personalities and people that youve mirrored, unfortunately, if you have been doing this since before you remember, then who you are at the core, will likely be an individual that is difficult to describe and whose character is very different to articulate, when and if you forgo these personalities, your relationships with others will start to feel very weird, and slimy, because your no longer playing the character you commonly do when interacting with friends, family, and strangers, then, if you fully forgo these characters you have accumulated by mirroring people, you will realize that you likely dont make genuine connections with other people, just connections with your various masks. Then you will have much less value of your relationships with others. So you will be left alone, without connections to others, and not knowing who you even are. which is likely if you are always subconsciously mirroring people, lacking sight of your genuine character is to be expected in that situation. From there you have nothing, and from there, you can do whatever you want with it. You can discover who you are ig, if you want

I just did my own research on it and i feel like its severe imposter syndrome mixed with derealization which i used to have extremely bad, which i still do i just know how to live with it i guess, anyways thank you for the high iq replys

 

[bowl8]

Ok so in fucked either countine this forever or just die alone

no not at all

basically, once you lose sight of the person you acted as, the many people you've acted as, you can slowly figure out who you are

the person that you truly are is not a desirable person to be

BUT

knowing the person you truly are is a desirable situation to be in

because you can change who you are from there

but you can only change who you truly are, if you truly know, who you TRULY are

truly

but it takes a while, but if it all succeeds, you can make genuine connections with others, feel real and big senses of personal accomplishment, and maybe even feel like you belong on this earth

the cost is

the uncomfortableness that comes with ripping the mask glued to you off of your face, and the deep pain of throwing it in the trash, left empty in order to find the real you, somewhere deep in your mind

 

[bowl8]

Ok so in fucked either countine this forever or just die alone

acknowledge your feelings, and accept that you are the owner of those feelings, because that is who you are, if you want to change to become a new person, you must start from acknowledgement

 

[dezzy]

you weren't emotionally attached.
feelings change

 

[JEEropecation]

We dated for just over a year, the entire time we were constantly together and always went out on dates and shit, but its so weird when i genuinely think about her i have no idea who she is or why i was even in the relationship, a part of me feels empathetic toward her for whatever reason. She broke up with me 2 days ago after about a year and I feel absolutely nothing at all i genuinely feel the exact same way i did our entire relationship. Can somone help im just confused on why i am this way

If this is more about the relationship and less about you, and if you view yourself as a sociopath (but aren't our experiences in relationships and the mirror of ourselves we don't want to look into always epiphenomena), red pill cope but lowkey read that nigga Orion Taraban's book. ch 4-7 are pretty apt if you're younger