My Girlfriend hates me for ascending

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whenusleep

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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
 
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If you feel like she's trying to drag you down

Drop her
 
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dump the bitch why the fuck would she care tbh. She not letting you be you and mog
 
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She doesn't like you clearly
 
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Why do u even call her ur girlfriend
 
I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
shes feeling inferior and insecure, because youre ascending and shes staying in place, she feel envy
 
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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
Leave her dnr
 
Spit on her
 
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dump the ugly bitch
 
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Real talk it’s semi projection, most women use their own looks/SMV to monkey branch she assumed you’d do the same
 
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Real talk it’s semi projection, most women use their own looks/SMV to monkey branch she assumed you’d do the same
ngl this is def true. She gets this retarded mindset from tiktok one of the worst places on earth for women to share their horrible I hate men ideologies.
 
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She'd leave you in a heartbeat if it was the other way around
 
I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
She's not the one for you.
Its a long story but run away from her bro.
 
she probably thinks ur doing it for attention from other girls

most people start taking extra care of their appearance before cheating
 
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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
shes probably realised youre able to get smth better
 
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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
joined one day ago talking about a year, fuck ur bitches best friend then dump her
 
joined one day ago talking about a year, fuck ur bitches best friend then dump her
I made an account on the forum so I can talk about this exact issue and others. I like it suggestion tho her best friend is fine af
 
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she probably thinks ur doing it for attention from other girls

most people start taking extra care of their appearance before cheating
Definitely a good perspective. She keeps saying she knows i’m gonna cheat soon bc of it. But i really don’t gaf about cheating I would just leave her instead
 
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I made an account on the forum so I can talk about this exact issue and others. I like it suggestion tho her best friend is fine af
nah ts crazy tho LMFAO
 
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Definitely a good perspective. She keeps saying she knows i’m gonna cheat soon bc of it. But i really don’t gaf about cheating I would just leave her instead
go cheat lmao fuck her
 
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