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I was explaining the concepts of alpha fux, beta bux to my dad. I did not use that exact terminology or go into the science of the dual mating strategy of women, but I did give him a dumbed down version. I was saying to him that a girl in her 20s looks good, and she has her fun with lots of guys and then decides to settle in her 30s when her looks fade and they settle for "stable" guys. I told him, "how unfair do you think that is? When she's in her prime she has her fun, and then decides to settle with you? She wouldn't even look in your direction in her 20s, she's only settling again because her looks faded".
JFC, my dad tells me this
>Son, women are people too. They do not live to pleasure men, you need to accept she will not be perfect. It's not unfair, her past is her past. If she treats you well now, then why do you need to care for her past?
JFL. I tell him that she doesn't actually like you, she just wants someone to settle with. If she was still young, she'd not go near you. She is only with you so you can raise the kid.
Dad says
>A woman who has a child has different priorities. She needs a stable man, that's why you need to be stable and not be like your older brother who just sleeps around. He won't be able to hold down a marriage!!!
I then made him go speechless a little. I tell him.
Imagine you're a religious young man, you avoid sex, alcohol and drugs. And you end up getting married to some whore who now claims she has changed and is a Muslim now. You don't think that's unfair? While she was being a whore and having her fun, you avoided this shit. Every other man has enjoyed her for free, while you have to now work for her affection? That's not unfair? What about the fact she will still be thinking of these guys and the "fun times" she had? You have nothing to look back to, and the worst part is no one will support you. You can go to the imam and tell him your issue, he will tell you "her sin is her sin, allah will judge. Please accept her", you tell other women and they will tell you to stop being so judgmental. You KNOW it's wrong/unfair, yet are being told the opposite? You think that's fair?
Dad went a bit speechless/silent for a few moments and told me that viewing women like this was bad and that the people I hang out with are going to be unable to be in relationships. He did say it was unfair a little, but as long as the woman treats you right it's fine. Women who are virgins will still check out hot guys anyways, so you shouldn't be insecure.
Tbh, I agreed women will check guys out and that it meant nothing. But being made to accept whores is unfair, and that men sleeping around is different to women. A man needs to put in work, a woman just needs to breathe.
My dad agreed, in the end he said I had a point but it was unhealthy to think like this. And to not judge women. While he is correct it is unhealthy, it did show me how far bluepill conditioning goes. He knows deep down what I was saying was somewhat correct, but to acknowledge it would be too brutal for him. He even said earlier a woman's priority changes when she is married, the focus is all on her kids. He knows when you enter BB stage, you don't feel affection from her. You're just a wallet to raise her child.
I think if I brought up the dual mating strategy shit, he'd have roped or thought I was schizo tbh.
So much for "conservative" muslim.
JFC, my dad tells me this
>Son, women are people too. They do not live to pleasure men, you need to accept she will not be perfect. It's not unfair, her past is her past. If she treats you well now, then why do you need to care for her past?
JFL. I tell him that she doesn't actually like you, she just wants someone to settle with. If she was still young, she'd not go near you. She is only with you so you can raise the kid.
Dad says
>A woman who has a child has different priorities. She needs a stable man, that's why you need to be stable and not be like your older brother who just sleeps around. He won't be able to hold down a marriage!!!
I then made him go speechless a little. I tell him.
Imagine you're a religious young man, you avoid sex, alcohol and drugs. And you end up getting married to some whore who now claims she has changed and is a Muslim now. You don't think that's unfair? While she was being a whore and having her fun, you avoided this shit. Every other man has enjoyed her for free, while you have to now work for her affection? That's not unfair? What about the fact she will still be thinking of these guys and the "fun times" she had? You have nothing to look back to, and the worst part is no one will support you. You can go to the imam and tell him your issue, he will tell you "her sin is her sin, allah will judge. Please accept her", you tell other women and they will tell you to stop being so judgmental. You KNOW it's wrong/unfair, yet are being told the opposite? You think that's fair?
Dad went a bit speechless/silent for a few moments and told me that viewing women like this was bad and that the people I hang out with are going to be unable to be in relationships. He did say it was unfair a little, but as long as the woman treats you right it's fine. Women who are virgins will still check out hot guys anyways, so you shouldn't be insecure.
Tbh, I agreed women will check guys out and that it meant nothing. But being made to accept whores is unfair, and that men sleeping around is different to women. A man needs to put in work, a woman just needs to breathe.
My dad agreed, in the end he said I had a point but it was unhealthy to think like this. And to not judge women. While he is correct it is unhealthy, it did show me how far bluepill conditioning goes. He knows deep down what I was saying was somewhat correct, but to acknowledge it would be too brutal for him. He even said earlier a woman's priority changes when she is married, the focus is all on her kids. He knows when you enter BB stage, you don't feel affection from her. You're just a wallet to raise her child.
I think if I brought up the dual mating strategy shit, he'd have roped or thought I was schizo tbh.
So much for "conservative" muslim.
A low value man's gotta accept his place.
