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mirin your dedication. I am too high inhibition to do that and even if I did do it, I would probably give up after the first couple of approaches due to my self esteem taking a hitNo, I had a few girlfriends, but it took me a huge amount of effort - I studied PUA extensively, read tons of books and guides, went out and approached hundreds of girls, went on many dates, etc. My success rate was very low however compared to what the PUA gurus claimed it will be, once you become skilled in the game. I was rejected and treated rudely by most of the girls, others ghosted me or put me in the friendzone. The few relationships I had were unsatisfactory, filled with frustration, I didn't have the upper hand no matter how much I tried to keep my frame, act alpha, deflect their shit-tests, etc.
After college was over, I experienced even more failures with girls, just one rejection after another, like the game suddenly increased to an impossible difficulty, until I simply gave up.