I don't belong to this place.

[Deleted member 10699]

I'm deleting my account after this thread, since I've realised that I don't need to looksmaxx, but to get mental help. I want people to approach me as friends, since I have issues with holding conversations, with starting conversations and with understanding social norms.

Looksmaxxing won't give me that, but a lot of people give me negative feedback (girls calling me ugly behind my back, people laughing at me, complaining about my "shit personality"—even though the people who do that don't talk to me. They just see me having troubles with socialising and not being interested in talking to me).

I try to not be obsessed over this, but my interactions with these kind of people just make me anxious and I can't get them out of my mind. I want people to respect me with my autism because I respect them. I only want to be happy.

Now, I'm kind of developing body dysphoria (becoming genderfluid) in an environment filled with homophobia. I'm leaving the forums because this place just make me obsess over the negative interactions, and I will never improve. I want to end it all before I begin to hurt the ones who surround me.

I need to learn about holding conversations, about stop obsessing over the negative feedback I receive from girls, about developing a confidence, etc. My goal is to live a normal life.

 

[Gazzamogga]

yes me

it was me who asked

 

[LastHopeForNorman]

Good for you

 

[Deleted member 2012]

girls calling me ugly behind my back

I don't need to looksmaxx

 

[Deleted member 10699]

yes me

it was me who asked

What did you ask?

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

Now, I'm kind of developing body dysphoria (becoming genderfluid) in an environment filled with homophobia.

Please tell me you're being sarcastic

 

[Deleted member 10699]

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I don't because I preffer to enjoy my life, and this place is making me to be worse than before.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Please tell me you're being sarcastic

Why would I?

 

[Deleted member 9003]

You know you can looksmax and work on your mental health at the same time

 

[Deleted member 10551]

Why not both?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

You know you can looksmax and work on your mental health at the same time

Yes, but why would I looksmaxx if I can't hold a conversation?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Why not both?

I'll softmaxx, but this place is homophobic and transphobic. I want to be out.

 

[Deleted member 2012]

I don't because I preffer to enjoy my life, and this place is making me to be worse than before.

Good luck enjoying life as an ugly guy.

I mean… If you are no longer interested in getting girls and are okay with being at the bottom of the social hierarchy then fine, go “enjoy your life”

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Yes, but why would I looksmaxx if I can't hold a conversation?

Because looking good makes conversations easier

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Good luck enjoying life as an ugly guy.

I mean… If you are no longer interested in getting girls and are okay with being at the bottom of the social hierarchy then fine, go “enjoy your life”

I'm interested in making friends, since I can't make friends.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Because looking good makes conversations easier

I'll softmaxx.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Good luck enjoying life as an ugly guy.

I mean… If you are no longer interested in getting girls and are okay with being at the bottom of the social hierarchy then fine, go “enjoy your life”

I don't even like most people anyway. I hope that Europe gets destroyed, so everyone ego will go down to shit.

 

[mogstar]

 

[Deleted member 10699]

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Ok. How can I become successful as an autistic 4 PSL guy?

 

[Deleted member 3020]

Bye.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Bye.

Goodbye.

 

[mogstar]

Ok. How can I become successful as an autistic 4 PSL guy?

First step is never posting here again, second step is never ask for advice from ppl here again, third step would get me banned

 

[Deleted member 10699]

First step is never posting here again, second step is never ask for advice from ppl here again, third step would get me banned

I mean, to make people to be more friendly with me?

 

[mogstar]

I mean, to make people to be more friendly with me?

Bruh u are fucked in the head idk how to advice u, yeah just act nt and make friends

 

[StrangerDanger]

how can you cry about homo&transphobia while simultaneously encouraging terrorism and the destruction of Europe. You're deluded, go check your autism

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Bruh u are fucked in the head idk how to advice u, yeah just act nt and make friends

I can't act NT since I'm autistic. Will the softmaxxes I mentioned help me?

 

[Deleted member 10699]

how can you cry about homo&transphobia while simultaneously encouraging terrorism and the destruction of Europe. You're deluded, go check your autism

Because I'm sick of watching normal people laughing at me and treating me like garbage. Knowing that some of these people died will make me happy.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

how can you cry about homo&transphobia while simultaneously encouraging terrorism and the destruction of Europe. You're deluded, go check your autism

I'm diagnosed with autism.

 

[mogstar]

I can't act NT since I'm autistic. Will the softmaxxes I mentioned help me?

If u are autistic it’s over. An autistic chadlite is an incel, yeah softmaxxes always help but only to some extent,get out and never come back for your own good, most guys here don’t know what the fuck they are talking about we just use those forum for the memes, just leave and I hope your mental health gets better man

 

[Boldandbeautiful]

Now, I'm kind of developing body dysphoria (becoming genderfluid) in an environment filled with homophobia

 

[Deleted member 10699]

If u are autistic it’s over. An autistic chadlite is an incel, yeah softmaxxes always help but only to some extent,get out and never come back for your own good, most guys here don’t know what the fuck they are talking about we just use those forum for the memes, just leave and I hope your mental health gets better man

Thank you. My goal is to get rid of my hate for NT people and to be happy (to find confidence and to be happy with the negative feedback).

 

[Deleted member 10699]

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What will be left if our society will shatter?

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

If this is a troll post or pasta then it is funny but if not and its serious then ok, but then if its a next level 4 dimensional shitpost and you respond that its serious even though its not, then okey dokey artichokey

 

[Deleted member 10699]

If this is a troll post or pasta then it is funny but if not and its serious then ok, but then if its a next level 4 dimensional shitpost and you respond that its serious even though its not, then okey dokey artichokey

It's serious. I never shitpost.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I don't get what's funny about my post...

 

[Boldandbeautiful]

What will be left if our society will shatter?

Jfl when khhvcel 'decides' to become gender fluid. Nigga, you just accepted you'll never get pussy and can't face that realisation.

 

[StrangerDanger]

Because I'm sick of watching normal people laughing at me and treating me like garbage. Knowing that some of these people died will make me happy.

Get a therapist asap, you need active help. Softmaxxing won't cure your autism

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Jfl when khhvcel 'decides' to become gender fluid. Nigga, you just accepted you'll never get pussy and can't face that realisation.

I just want to be respected by people, I don't even ask them to be my friends.

 

[RAITEIII]

You sound like you are SO SO SO far gone...

Your best choice is just post pics and see what can be done so you look decent.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Get a therapist asap, you need active help. Softmaxxing won't cure your autism

I have one, but I'm thinking about homeschooling, so I can stop getting anxiety attacks.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Now, I'm kind of developing body dysphoria (becoming genderfluid)

so you plan on trannymaxxing? is that what this says?

 

[AutismMaxing]

I'm deleting my account after this thread, since I've realised that I don't need to looksmaxx, but to get mental help. I want people to approach me as friends, since I have issues with holding conversations, with starting conversations and with understanding social norms.

Looksmaxxing won't give me that, but a lot of people give me negative feedback (girls calling me ugly behind my back, people laughing at me, complaining about my "shit personality"—even though the people who do that don't talk to me. They just see me having troubles with socialising and not being interested in talking to me).

I try to not be obsessed over this, but my interactions with these kind of people just make me anxious and I can't get them out of my mind. I want people to respect me with my autism because I respect them. I only want to be happy.

Now, I'm kind of developing body dysphoria (becoming genderfluid) in an environment filled with homophobia. I'm leaving the forums because this place just make me obsess over the negative interactions, and I will never improve. I want to end it all before I begin to hurt the ones who surround me.

I need to learn about holding conversations, about stop obsessing over the negative feedback I receive from girls, about developing a confidence, etc. My goal is to live a normal life.

I suggest you give up porn and all artificial stimulus if you want to better focus on being social and living a social life.

Possible replace the time with group activities and sports, then try inviting those people out for dinner, or hosting a burger burn and go from there.

Some general rules of socializing to follow if you don't want to annoy people:

• Look people in the eye as much as you can. If you're autistic this is probably very hard, so just do it as much as you can and don't worry about it anymore than that.
• Speak in short simple sentences whenever possible. Try and avoid going on a long winded complex rant. If a subject is too complex to talk about without 20 seconds of explanation, then just don't talk about it, or try to sum it up with a short sentence even if you have to distort the meaning some what.
• Try to add emotion to the tone of your voice, and feel emotion in your body when you speak. For normies talking is more of an exchange of emotions rather than the actual content of what you're saying. The exchange of emotions is what they are enjoying.
• Don't try to be smart or clever. You can say simple dumb things, normies do it all the time. See previous point.
• Pay attention to the emotions of the other person and try to have fun interacting with them

Also meditate everyday, it will help you hugely with your anxiety. More than any therapist could.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

so you plan on trannymaxxing? is that what this says?

Maybe. I'll go to the psychiatrist first.

 

[Boldandbeautiful]

You sound like you are SO SO SO far gone...

Your best choice is just post pics and see what can be done so you look decent.

Lmao, just get bullied by looksmax chads to suicide theory

 

[Deleted member 10699]

I suggest you give up porn and all artificial stimulus if you want to better focus on being social and living a social life.

Possible replace the time with group activities and sports, then try inviting those people out for dinner, or hosting a burger burn and go from there.

Some general rules of socializing to follow if you don't want to annoy people:

• Look people in the eye as much as you can. If you're autistic this is probably very hard, so just do it as much as you can and don't worry about it anymore than that.
• Speak in short simple sentences whenever possible. Try and avoid going on a long winded complex rant. If a subject is too complex to talk about without 20 seconds of explanation, then just don't talk about it, or try to sum it up with a short sentence even if you have to distort the meaning some what.
• Try to add emotion to the tone of your voice, and feel emotion in your body when you speak. For normies talking is more of an exchange of emotions rather than the actual content of what you're saying. The exchange of emotions is what they are enjoying.
• Don't try to be smart or clever. You can say simple dumb things, normies do it all the time. See previous point.
• Pay attention to the emotions of the other person and try to have fun interacting with them

I like every advice you gave me, except this one: "Look people in the eye as much as you can. If you're autistic this is probably very hard, so just do it as much as you can and don't worry about it anymore than that".

People freak out if I look at them too much since I have a pretty intense stare.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Maybe. I'll go to the psychiatrist first.

i wouldnt recommend it. trannies have high suicide rates and if you're mentally ill you might end up roping

 

[Deleted member 10699]

i wouldnt recommend it. trannies have high suicide rates and if you're mentally ill you might end up roping

Transphobia.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Transphobia.

i guess it kinda is tbh

 

[AutismMaxing]

I like every advice you gave me, except this one: "Look people in the eye as much as you can. If you're autistic this is probably very hard, so just do it as much as you can and don't worry about it anymore than that".

People freak out if I look at them too much since I have a pretty intense stare.

Okay!

It's also differs from country to country, and person to person. Some areas of the world prefer much more eye contact and some areas much less eye contact. Some people have told me I do too much eye contact and others have told me I don't do enough.

But also if can feel empathy for the person and feel relaxed it might make your eye contact less intense. Just an idea.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Okay!

It's also differs from country to country, and person to person. Some areas of the world prefer much more eye contact and some areas much less eye contact. Some people have told me I do too much eye contact and others have told me I don't do enough.

But also if can feel empathy for the person and feel relaxed it might make your eye contact less intense. Just an idea.

Thank you.