I don't belong to this place.

[StrangerDanger]

I have one, but I'm thinking about homeschooling, so I can stop getting anxiety attacks.

Don't, homeschooling will just isolate you further from society. Autism is a curse. What autistic traits do you have? You're giving me severe robot vibes

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Don't, homeschooling will just isolate you further from society. Autism is a curse. What autistic traits do you have? You're giving me severe robot vibes

Insecurity (submisive behaviour, extremely shyness, fear), looking too much at people (OCD plays a role here, too), problems with empathy (not always), being too innocent for my age (abusing of me is easy), sometimes I become nervous when talking, I say things without thinking correctly, hace troubles showing interest in convos and with holding them, etc.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

I'm deleting my account after this thread, since I've realised that I don't need to looksmaxx, but to get mental help. I want people to approach me as friends, since I have issues with holding conversations, with starting conversations and with understanding social norms.

Looksmaxxing won't give me that, but a lot of people give me negative feedback (girls calling me ugly behind my back, people laughing at me, complaining about my "shit personality"—even though the people who do that don't talk to me. They just see me having troubles with socialising and not being interested in talking to me).

I try to not be obsessed over this, but my interactions with these kind of people just make me anxious and I can't get them out of my mind. I want people to respect me with my autism because I respect them. I only want to be happy.

Now, I'm kind of developing body dysphoria (becoming genderfluid) in an environment filled with homophobia. I'm leaving the forums because this place just make me obsess over the negative interactions, and I will never improve. I want to end it all before I begin to hurt the ones who surround me.

I need to learn about holding conversations, about stop obsessing over the negative feedback I receive from girls, about developing a confidence, etc. My goal is to live a normal life.

mental help is cope. , "but a lot of people give me negative feedback (girls calling me ugly behind my back, people laughing at me, complaining about my "shit personality"—even though the people who do that don't talk to me. They just see me having troubles with socialising and not being interested in talking to me)." thats why u are the way you are

 

[StrangerDanger]

Insecurity (submisive behaviour, extremely shyness, fear), looking too much at people (OCD plays a role here, too), problems with empathy (not always), being too innocent for my age (abusing of me is easy), sometimes I become nervous when talking, I say things without thinking correctly, hace troubles showing interest in convos and with holding them, etc.

Would you consider yourself NT when you are talking with your parents? Or does this just happen when you talk to people who aren't close to you

 

[Beetlejuice]

 

[Deleted member 10699]

mental help is cope. , "but a lot of people give me negative feedback (girls calling me ugly behind my back, people laughing at me, complaining about my "shit personality"—even though the people who do that don't talk to me. They just see me having troubles with socialising and not being interested in talking to me)." thats why u are the way you are

Yes, I know. But people from here have told me that I'm not ugly. But I preffer to stop listening to these people (girls).

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Would you consider yourself NT when you are talking with your parents? Or does this just happen when you talk to people who aren't close to you

No. I'm never fully NT.

 

[StrangerDanger]

No. I'm never fully NT.

I'm sorry I guess it's completly ingrained in your brain.

 

[IndianJock]

Insecurity (submisive behaviour, extremely shyness, fear), looking too much at people (OCD plays a role here, too), problems with empathy (not always), being too innocent for my age (abusing of me is easy), sometimes I become nervous when talking, I say things without thinking correctly, hace troubles showing interest in convos and with holding them, etc.

homeschooling helped me a lot

But you should see a professional therapist, they will be able to help you out more than anyone on this site, and they helped me a lot when I had similar problems to you.

You're right in that this site promotes pessimism and a victim mentality which is horrible for mental health.

In the mean-time I'd recommend reading the book Feeling Good by David M. Burns, that helped me as well when I had feelings like you are currently

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Please don’t fall for this. If you can keep a conversation with someone you pay (doctor, therapist, barber, etc) then you don’t have any social issues. I thought the exact same thing as you and went to a therapist and sounded completely NT talking to them.

You can’t keep a conversation because people DON’T WANT TO TALK YO YOU.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Please don’t fall for this. If you can keep a conversation with someone you pay (doctor, therapist, barber, etc) then you don’t have any social issues. I thought the exact same thing as you and went to a therapist and sounded completely NT talking to them.

You can’t keep a conversation because people DON’T WANT TO TALK YO YOU.

This 100%.
Literally same shit for me.
Nobody wants to talk with me, except if they're paid.
It's all about the looks.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

This 100%.
Literally same shit for me.
Nobody wants to talk with me, except if they're paid.
It's all about the looks.

Exactly. People will have a completely normal conversation with a doctor, teacher, or other professional but then say they have social issues with their peers. Your social issue is that you’re ugly (<4PSL). Being normie is enough to have people want to talk to you.

If people want to talk to you, they will. That’s the reason why I can go to a barbershop and have a 30 minute conversation with a random barber but get 1 word answers and avoiding eye contact from peers.

 

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And he is still posting