I don’t feel Appreciated by ppl

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By most of my former friends they usually ignored me and didn’t appreciate what I did for them

my mom doesn’t appreciate me. Calls me a nuisance. But I’ve not taken money from her in months, approximately 4. Almost 5. I’ve spent more on her during that time than she spent on me. I do the laundry, grocery, and garbage disposal all myself consistently. She doesn’t have to lift a finger. But she still complains about me, comparing me to my peers talking about how they’re more successful

The only person who truly appreciates me Is 2 ppl. One is my dad, but I don’t see him often.

it is what it is. This isn’t a validation thing. I just don’t like working for somebody, just for them to spit in my face and laugh at me with others or rage at me as if I’m trash on the floor
 
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Sign of a bad parent tbh. She just wants you to be famous and successful so she has something to show in her shitty life
 
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Where is ur dad bro
 
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you are bro
 
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You can't 100% count on anyone in this life. Not family, and especially not your so-called friends. Expect anything and you will suffer.
 
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You can't 100% count on anyone in this life. Not family, and especially not your so-called friends. Expect anything and you will suffer.
The only thing I expect at this point is pain
 
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It is what it is bro
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Bro you NEED to be appreciated by people. Normies constantly say shit like "don't let other people determine who you are" but the only reason they have to constantly say that, is because that's exactly how your brain works. Even Jordan Peterson mentioned that your brain is constantly trying to figure out where you are on the social hierarchy, and when you are constantly getting shit on, you can expect to feel low about yourself.

I know this because I've thought about it alot, since this is me. My parents don't at all care about me, I have a really hard time making friends that don't use me as a kicking bag when in groups (they use me to talk shit, everytime I say something they act like I just said the dumbest thing on earth, etc).

Eventually I realized people don't like my personality, the way I walk, or the way I look. I can't really change my personality and still be happy inside, and I can't change the way I look without bimax. It is what it is. I've just accepted it. I realized I wasn't meant to be around people. The universe has forged me in isolation with no family, and few friends. It is what it fucking is man. I haven't got a good way to cope with it yet, and I also haven't got a solution for this problem. The only thing I've been able to do is just focus on myself. Every day I think about the shit I want, and I try hard to keep a positive attitude. I get down really easy and sometimes shit can make me literally start crying.

But I get over it because I have to, and nobody gives a fuck if I cry because it's just me. I don't have anyone to cry to so I figure it out for myself because I don't have a choice.

Life without music and working out for me is extremely, extremely dark. Caffiene, driving to places, working out, and music are pretty much the only reason I've been able to make it this far.

Idk if this was quite the same topic you were talking about but believe me bro, I know the feeling.
 
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Bro you NEED to be appreciated by people. Normies constantly say shit like "don't let other people determine who you are" but the only reason they have to constantly say that, is because that's exactly how your brain works. Even Jordan Peterson mentioned that your brain is constantly trying to figure out where you are on the social hierarchy, and when you are constantly getting shit on, you can expect to feel low about yourself.

I know this because I've thought about it alot, since this is me. My parents don't at all care about me, I have a really hard time making friends that don't use me as a kicking bag when in groups (they use me to talk shit, everytime I say something they act like I just said the dumbest thing on earth, etc).

Eventually I realized people don't like my personality, the way I walk, or the way I look. I can't really change my personality and still be happy inside, and I can't change the way I look without bimax. It is what it is. I've just accepted it. I realized I wasn't meant to be around people. The universe has forged me in isolation with no family, and few friends. It is what it fucking is man. I haven't got a good way to cope with it yet, and I also haven't got a solution for this problem. The only thing I've been able to do is just focus on myself. Every day I think about the shit I want, and I try hard to keep a positive attitude. I get down really easy and sometimes shit can make me literally start crying.

But I get over it because I have to, and nobody gives a fuck if I cry because it's just me. I don't have anyone to cry to so I figure it out for myself because I don't have a choice.

Life without music and working out for me is extremely, extremely dark. Caffiene, driving to places, working out, and music are pretty much the only reason I've been able to make it this far.

Idk if this was quite the same topic you were talking about but believe me bro, I know the feeling.
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Bro you NEED to be appreciated by people. Normies constantly say shit like "don't let other people determine who you are" but the only reason they have to constantly say that, is because that's exactly how your brain works. Even Jordan Peterson mentioned that your brain is constantly trying to figure out where you are on the social hierarchy, and when you are constantly getting shit on, you can expect to feel low about yourself.

I know this because I've thought about it alot, since this is me. My parents don't at all care about me, I have a really hard time making friends that don't use me as a kicking bag when in groups (they use me to talk shit, everytime I say something they act like I just said the dumbest thing on earth, etc).

Eventually I realized people don't like my personality, the way I walk, or the way I look. I can't really change my personality and still be happy inside, and I can't change the way I look without bimax. It is what it is. I've just accepted it. I realized I wasn't meant to be around people. The universe has forged me in isolation with no family, and few friends. It is what it fucking is man. I haven't got a good way to cope with it yet, and I also haven't got a solution for this problem. The only thing I've been able to do is just focus on myself. Every day I think about the shit I want, and I try hard to keep a positive attitude. I get down really easy and sometimes shit can make me literally start crying.

But I get over it because I have to, and nobody gives a fuck if I cry because it's just me. I don't have anyone to cry to so I figure it out for myself because I don't have a choice.

Life without music and working out for me is extremely, extremely dark. Caffiene, driving to places, working out, and music are pretty much the only reason I've been able to make it this far.

Idk if this was quite the same topic you were talking about but believe me bro, I know the feeling.
This tbh. Constant put downs are what ruins a person. Had a similar experience during my
Very young years. Was a punching bag

Only thing left for us is ascension brother. No way around it
 
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you need to roid get huge become a bouncer and just intimidate them into respect/fealty
 
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This tbh. Constant put downs are what ruins a person. Had a similar experience during my
Very young years. Was a punching bag

Only thing left for us is ascension brother. No way around it
Dont Worry bro it will come
 
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Your mom is a narcissistic bitch who wants to treat you like a punching bag. The whole problem with modern parenting is that they only want a child to show off and when that child doesn't succeed they don't want to take responsibility for its problems.
 
By most of my former friends they usually ignored me and didn’t appreciate what I did for them

my mom doesn’t appreciate me. Calls me a nuisance. But I’ve not taken money from her in months, approximately 4. Almost 5. I’ve spent more on her during that time than she spent on me. I do the laundry, grocery, and garbage disposal all myself consistently. She doesn’t have to lift a finger. But she still complains about me, comparing me to my peers talking about how they’re more successful

The only person who truly appreciates me Is 2 ppl. One is my dad, but I don’t see him often.

it is what it is. This isn’t a validation thing. I just don’t like working for somebody, just for them to spit in my face and laugh at me with others or rage at me as if I’m trash on the floor
that's why you can't go our your way to help people. when you need it the most they take you for granted and forget everything you did for them
 

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