I don't get this flirting thing

[reborn]

So if you are flirting you are not supposed to go too fast otherwise: #metoo.

But you are also not supposed to wait too long. Actually many women are confused if you do not kiss her at least after the second date.

This makes no sense to me. I do not get it from a logical point of view. Are you supposed to wait until there is an emotional connection? But that would certainly take longer than two dates, wouldn't it? I mean I don't really give a flying fuck about anybody I haven't known for years. So from that point of view I'd have to date her for two years before fucking her. But then they also say that if there is no sex after two or three dates then it won't work. But by that logic I could as well fuck her the instance I first see her. It makes no sense.

Can somebody explain this to me?

 

[Deleted member 21182]

autism here Is making me cry

 

[Deleted member 26642]

It's impossible to move too fast if she's attracted to you

 

[Deleted member 21182]

A normal human being can usually sense how strong it can be or if at all if u can’t give up

 

[reborn]

A normal human being can usually sense how strong it can be or if at all if u can’t give up

I can't. I might actually be a sperg. I mean there has to be a reason I am a 41 yo virgin, right?

 

[Bojack]

Massive autistic you should always make a move in the first date

 

[rand anon]

Can somebody explain this to me?

U either have it or u don’t