i dont have an identity

[Deleted member 23115]

I have different personas depending on who im talking to and what the situation is

@Matthias8272 is this what most people do?

 

[Matthias8272]

If you mean being less or more outgoing yes

 

[Deleted member 23115]

If you mean being less or more outgoing yes

that and also i pretend to like what others do

 

[Matthias8272]

that and also i pretend to like what others do

First part is normal maybe not the second if they're normie interests. But a normie might invest some time into learning about someone elses interests if they want to become better friends

 

[Deleted member 23115]

First part is normal maybe not the second if they're normie interests. But a normie might invest some time into learning about someone elses interests if they want to become better friends

to get into a friend group at school i learnt all about basketball ngl and it worked

 

[Matthias8272]

to get into a friend group at school i learnt all about basketball ngl and it worked

Imma have to learn about cars and ufc when I rejoin society think that's the most generic interests at least where I live

 

[TheAbyssinian]

If you do this you probably have like high social intelligence or something I notice legit autists never do this they just say the same shit to everyone and alienate potential friends...

 

[Deleted member 23115]

If you do this you probably have like high social intelligence or something I notice legit autists never do this they just say the same shit to everyone and alienate potential friends...

i dont have social intelligence at all. I can only mirror the other person basically. That's how far it goes for me. I can't manipulate people or make shit up on the spot to get people to like or respect me. I'm still too honest which is an aspie trait. I mean im honest when talking about stuff that isnt strictly related to mirroring the other person.