I don’t have confidence

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I ascended a bit but I was so ugly during my 12 13 years I don’t have any social skills or know how to talk to girls
 

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Just be confident bruh
confidence is key
 
I ascended a bit but I was so ugly during my 12 13 years I don’t have any social skills or know how to talk to girls
I don’t know any indicators of interest anything
 
i dont know how to talk to women
confidence is kind of overrated. a girl will usually know if she finds you attractive when she first sees you, before you even talk to her. confidence can help, but it can’t create true attraction
 
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confidence is kind of overrated. a girl will usually know if she finds you attractive when she first sees you, before you even talk to her. confidence can help, but it can’t create true attraction
I know, but how do I know if a girl likes me or not?
 
i dont know how to talk to women
force yourself todo so at appropriate times. You'll develop confidence, I did this and it worked despite my looks and stature disparities.
I also became low inhib by trying to practice ignoring anxiety or my thoughts during discussion. The point though is that its a fun and somewhat difficult process which is really just learning in a way. For you it'd be easier for sure, since I am ND (ADHD) and your misc/ ang is alot better than mines.
 
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funny thing to say when the text below your pfp reads "JustBeConfident."
because it's a joke? It really doesn’t matter that much, but popular culture often portray it as if it’s the main thing in getting girls and approaching
 
I ascended a bit but I was so ugly during my 12 13 years I don’t have any social skills or know how to talk to girls
Bro i was just like u 3 years ago when i used to talk with a girl my eyes were starting to get watered and now i have a gf im still not confident but everyday im getting more confident just talk with girls with 0 confidence make stupid mistakes i used to search on Google for text messages to text mu fcking crush bro and yes i am not with her rn but im so happy that i talked with girls while i didnt know how to so talking is the key u have to take a step first to achieve something u dont achieve something out of nowhere then take at fcking step if u want more questions i can gladly answer
 
Bro i was just like u 3 years ago when i used to talk with a girl my eyes were starting to get watered and now i have a gf im still not confident but everyday im getting more confident just talk with girls with 0 confidence make stupid mistakes i used to search on Google for text messages to text mu fcking crush bro and yes i am not with her rn but im so happy that i talked with girls while i didnt know how to so talking is the key u have to take a step first to achieve something u dont achieve something out of nowhere then take at fcking step if u want more questions i can gladly answer
I’m a freshman but their are no mtbs or higher in my grade so I would have to ask up and I’m like 5,9 5,8 so not super tall
 
I know, but how do I know if a girl likes me or no
i have the same problem as you bro, but what has helped me talking to girls i am not really attracted to at work for example and just practise to be more relaxed
 
I’m a freshman but their are no mtbs or higher in my grade so I would have to ask up and I’m like 5,9 5,8 so not super tall
Are we lying now? You're 5'4 at least brody
 
I’m a freshman but their are no mtbs or higher in my grade so I would have to ask up and I’m like 5,9 5,8 so not super tall
it doesnt fucking matter bro ur not gon get girls immedieately think it as a training ur training with them for the big game that is coming up and dont overthink abt ur height it is a good height for a freshmen
 
just throw yourself into conversations or social situations you wouldnt normally find yourself confident in. you will sound like a dumbass until you eventually learn social cues and stop being retarded
 
How I was measured 5,7 4 months ago
frame wouldn't be to propotional to being 5'7 and comparing your height to ur surroundings would support much too. Realistically ur og statement being 5'8-9 was laughable but 5'7 is arguably just as much so. This is irrevelant tbf
 
frame wouldn't be to propotional to being 5'7 and comparing your height to ur surroundings would support much too. Realistically ur og statement being 5'8-9 was laughable but 5'7 is arguably just as much so. This is irrevelant tbf
Why would I lie in a self improvement form my dad is 6,4 mom 5,6. I don’t have proof of my height but I wear a size 10 shoe
 
Why would I lie in a self improvement form my dad is 6,4 mom 5,6. I don’t have proof of my height but I wear a size 10 shoe
This is me next to my dad in may
 

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just say shi. if you're really scared genuinely just try talking with 2 and look how that goes. idk where you talk to girls but at a party or in the club it's genuinely the easiest thing to do. don't start with asking a question tho. just have eye contact
 
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