I don't know how it feels having a girl into you...

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but I sure do know how it feels when a girl is not into you. She won't flirt, she won't bring up sex, she will constantly avoid talking about dating/relationships and will be completely aloof with you. I have had this many times and I'm tired of it.

Eventually I just accepted that I have zero appeal and no matter how many women I meet, it will always play out the same way more or less.

Not everyone in this life can be attractive sadly. Some guys are born to slay and some guy are born to be invisible.

I have never been approached, I have never beein DMed, I have never even received a compliment. I get matches on dating apps, most of them ghost me and the ones who go out with me aren't into me anyway.
 
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but I sure do know how it feels when a girl is not into you. She won't flirt, she won't bring up sex, she will constantly avoid talking about dating/relationships and will be completely aloof with you. And I have seen this many times and I'm tired of it.

Eventually I just accepted that I have zero appeal and no matter how many women I meet, it will always play out the same way more or less.

Not everyone in this life can be attractive sadly. Some guys are born to slay and some guy are born to be invisible.

I have never been approached, I have never beein DMed, I have never even received a compliment. I get matches on dating apps, most of them ghost me and the ones who go out with me aren't into me anyway.
Bro the last time I had a stable conversation with a girl was 2 years ago and she was a sub 4. I get you man I get you big time.
 
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I did a few years ago, but now its beyond over for me
 
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Bro the last time I had a stable conversation with a girl was 2 years ago and she was a sub 4. I get you man I get you big time.
and having a stable conversaton means nothing anyway. its all talk, no action
 
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When she’s truly into you it feels like the woman infront of you is crazy, she’s gonna go out of her way to do things for you and will be really jealous at almost everything you do. She will be quite insecure of herself even if she is HTB+. And yeah sex will be great. That’s pretty much about it.
 
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When she’s truly into you it feels like the woman infront of you is crazy, she’s gonna go out of her way to do things for you and will be really jealous at almost everything you do. She will be quite insecure of herself even if she is HTB+. And yeah sex will be great. That’s pretty much about it.
Are you speaking from experience
 
When she’s truly into you it feels like the woman infront of you is crazy, she’s gonna go out of her way to do things for you and will be really jealous at almost everything you do. She will be quite insecure of herself even if she is HTB+. And yeah sex will be great. That’s pretty much about it.
i never had this :feelsbadman:. girls are always confident and dominant with me
 
girls are always confident and dominant with me
So what? You can’t directly control their behaviour but you can control how you react to it.

Trust me, I’ve been in both ends of the spectrum top to bottom.
And you know what I do in situations where a woman tries to act dominant? I don’t back down. I maintain my composure and stature showing them that I’m unaffected. If you do as much as a small flinch for their behaviour you are proving them that they can get to you.

90% of the times they won’t repeat their behaviour again (unlike men who will try their best again and again).

I know it’s easier said than done which is why it took me a lot of time to get to this stage. Remember, you don’t need looks for this; just a pair of balls and a spine is all it takes.
 
You can’t directly control their behaviour but you can control how you react to it.
what does it matter how you react to it? its over

I maintain my composure and stature showing them that I’m unaffected.
i was about to start crying when my old itis acted dominant :feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:

. Remember, you don’t need looks for this; just a pair of balls and a spine is all it takes.
it rly wouldnt have made muhc a difference. if a girl acts dominant then it means she is NOT attracted to you. women are the ones supposed to bend over at the end of the day
 
what does it matter how you react to it? its over


i was about to start crying when my old itis acted dominant :feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:


it rly wouldnt have made muhc a difference. if a girl acts dominant then it means she is NOT attracted to you. women are the ones supposed to bend over at the end of the day
Yeah bro that defeatist mentality is definitely gonna help you with women. Good luck.
 
Yeah bro that defeatist mentality is definitely gonna help you with women. Good luck.
i abolished this mindset with the girls after her. it didnt do shit lol
 
I know how it feels, but I've turned them down every time, leaving them confused as shit.. :lul:😭🤧
 
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