i dont like looking at myself in the mirror, but

[5'7" 3/4s]

but im not obsessed with it like u fags are

there is a difference between being a looksmaxxer, and being a narcy faggot who cant stop hyperfixating on every flaw he has to the point it lowers ur baseline mood as the day progresses.

i k im ugly, i cant look in the mirror without not knowing this, but when i move past the mirror i move past this issue of mine, and i keep moving forward.

 

[pashanimair]

There’s a huge difference between being conscious of your appearance and actively improving it in a healthy way, versus letting every little flaw consume you to the point where it affects your mood, confidence, and daily life. The former is proactive and empowering you recognize what you want to improve and take steps without letting it define your self worth. The latter, the hyperfixation, is draining and self-defeating because it traps you in a constant cycle of dissatisfaction.
What you’re doing acknowledging your flaws, accepting them, and then moving on is honestly one of the healthiest mindsets. It shows emotional resilience. You’re aware, you’re realistic, but you’re not letting that awareness become a prison. That ability to “move past the mirror” is what separates someone who’s in control of their growth from someone who’s just stuck in self-criticism. Keep that perspective, because it not only keeps your mood stable but also allows you to focus on things that actually matter: skills, experiences, relationships, and personal goals.
If anything, this mindset is something a lot of people could learn from self awareness without self destruction

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

There’s a huge difference between being conscious of your appearance and actively improving it in a healthy way, versus letting every little flaw consume you to the point where it affects your mood, confidence, and daily life. The former is proactive and empowering you recognize what you want to improve and take steps without letting it define your self worth. The latter, the hyperfixation, is draining and self-defeating because it traps you in a constant cycle of dissatisfaction.
What you’re doing acknowledging your flaws, accepting them, and then moving on is honestly one of the healthiest mindsets. It shows emotional resilience. You’re aware, you’re realistic, but you’re not letting that awareness become a prison. That ability to “move past the mirror” is what separates someone who’s in control of their growth from someone who’s just stuck in self-criticism. Keep that perspective, because it not only keeps your mood stable but also allows you to focus on things that actually matter: skills, experiences, relationships, and personal goals.
If anything, this mindset is something a lot of people could learn from self awareness without self destruction

yes, and to dive into the practical day-day part of this ->

where most people fall short i feel like, is that we all understand how to be good human beings for the most part, but there is a fine line between the two states of being that i mentioned that can get blurry from time to time.

i used to envision humans as having a sort of meter for what they allowed to fuck with them until they eventually short-circuited, i then realized this was counter productive, because although everyone thinks they have a meter, the reality is that they are the meter and can choose what short-circuits them no matter the circumstance.

so when the line between being self absorbed and being growth-minded begin to get blurry, can be when we just about had enough of the shit we are going through.

its at this breaking point it really matters the most to your central nervous system, because an abused dog will cave in and crawl to his corner, but even just attacking a simple day-day goal like going to work when you feel absolutely shitty about yourself, fights the anxiety and depression that can stem from being so self-critical of yourself, as long as you continue to have hope to ascend.

 

[pashanimair]

yes, and to dive into the practical day-day part of this ->

where most people fall short i feel like, is that we all understand how to be good human beings for the most part, but there is a fine line between the two states of being that i mentioned that can get blurry from time to time.

i used to envision humans as having a sort of meter for what they allowed to fuck with them until they eventually short-circuited, i then realized this was counter productive, because although everyone thinks they have a meter, the reality is that they are the meter and can choose what short-circuits them no matter the circumstance.

so when the line between being self absorbed and being growth-minded begin to get blurry, can be when we just about had enough of the shit we are going through.

its at this breaking point it really matters the most to your central nervous system, because an abused dog will cave in and crawl to his corner, but even just attacking a simple day-day goal like going to work when you feel absolutely shitty about yourself, fights the anxiety and depression that can stem from being so self-critical of yourself, as long as you continue to have hope to ascend.

this chat gpt

 

[John6Enjoyer]

but im not obsessed with it like u fags are

there is a difference between being a looksmaxxer, and being a narcy faggot who cant stop hyperfixating on every flaw he has to the point it lowers ur baseline mood as the day progresses.

i k im ugly, i cant look in the mirror without not knowing this, but when i move past the mirror i move past this issue of mine, and i keep moving forward.

I like looking at myself in the mirror even tho I look subhuman

Cuz I have latino halo

 

[John6Enjoyer]

There’s a huge difference between being conscious of your appearance and actively improving it in a healthy way, versus letting every little flaw consume you to the point where it affects your mood, confidence, and daily life. The former is proactive and empowering you recognize what you want to improve and take steps without letting it define your self worth. The latter, the hyperfixation, is draining and self-defeating because it traps you in a constant cycle of dissatisfaction.
What you’re doing acknowledging your flaws, accepting them, and then moving on is honestly one of the healthiest mindsets. It shows emotional resilience. You’re aware, you’re realistic, but you’re not letting that awareness become a prison. That ability to “move past the mirror” is what separates someone who’s in control of their growth from someone who’s just stuck in self-criticism. Keep that perspective, because it not only keeps your mood stable but also allows you to focus on things that actually matter: skills, experiences, relationships, and personal goals.
If anything, this mindset is something a lot of people could learn from self awareness without self destruction

Sorry my king but

Dnr

 

[Clqs]

Whatever helps you cope bud

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

this chat

i figured to be honest

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

Whatever helps you cope bud

nigga how else am i supposed to have the motivation to ascend

 

[nobodylovesme]

Just look in the mirror and don't be a bitch.

You're a subhuman, and that's fine.

 

[5'7" 3/4s]

Just look in the mirror and don't be a bitch.

You're a subhuman, and that's fine.

stone cold truecel

"when i look in the mirror i feel nothing" headass nigga

 

[pashanimair]

Sorry my king but

Dnr

np i respect