I don't like to be around most people

[CorinthianLOX]

Most people just suck. Plain and simple. Most people are just shallow, hypocritical, egotistical and unpleasant to be around. I can't be myself around most people and I get overwhelmed by big crowds usually. Everytime my parents say that ''you're missing out if you don't participate in x activity'' I get the feeling that they're condescending towards me and projecting as usual. There were some school activities that upon reflection didn't seem that interesting or cool after all even if I had very bad FOMO because most people participating in such activites were like I said, annoying, egotistical and rude people. They wouldn't even want me in those activities in the first place probably jfl, which would become apparent in their attitude towards me.

 

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[returnofthecutecel]

Most people just suck. Plain and simple. Most people are just shallow, hypocritical, egotistical and unpleasant to be around. I can't be myself around most people and I get overwhelmed by big crowds usually. Everytime my parents say that ''you're missing out if you don't participate in x activity'' I get the feeling that they're condescending towards me and projecting as usual. There were some school activities that upon reflection didn't seem that interesting or cool after all even if I had very bad FOMO because most people participating in such activites were like I said, annoying, egotistical and rude people. They wouldn't even want me in those activities in the first place probably jfl, which would become apparent in their attitude towards me.

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[eon]

Most people just suck. Plain and simple. Most people are just shallow, hypocritical, egotistical and unpleasant to be around. I can't be myself around most people and I get overwhelmed by big crowds usually. Everytime my parents say that ''you're missing out if you don't participate in x activity'' I get the feeling that they're condescending towards me and projecting as usual. There were some school activities that upon reflection didn't seem that interesting or cool after all even if I had very bad FOMO because most people participating in such activites were like I said, annoying, egotistical and rude people. They wouldn't even want me in those activities in the first place probably jfl, which would become apparent in their attitude towards me.

most people are total numbskulls.

have a very good friend circle tho

 

[CorinthianLOX]

have a very good friend circle tho

Unfortunately I haven't been able to accumulate a good friend circle

 

[eon]

Unfortunately I haven't been able to accumulate a good friend circle

oof

 

[CorinthianLOX]

oof

How to accumulate a good friend circle?

 

[blacksheep]

are u ND? i don't see a problem with not liking to be around people unless it's making u lonely. do u wish u'd had more social contacts or is it just an expectation of others u're tryna meet?

 

[CorinthianLOX]

are u ND? i don't see a problem with not liking to be around people unless it's making u lonely. do u wish u'd had more social contacts or is it just an expectation of others u're tryna meet?

It's making me lonely but when I'm around people I get annoyed and want to leave. There was one instance where I could have gotten a friend group but I fucked that up. I made a thread about it.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

It's making me lonely but when I'm around people I get annoyed and want to leave. There was one instance where I could have gotten a friend group but I fucked that up. I made a thread about it.

I got humiliated in front of my friend group very badly (STORYTIME)

We went to one of our friend’s house and we were pretty drunk. The mother was there aswell and she was drunk too. They had 3 small dogs. When we went inside the dogs came to us in the entryway. The entryway was quite small and I was scared that I and the others would accidentally stumble...

looksmax.org

 

[blacksheep]

It's making me lonely but when I'm around people I get annoyed and want to leave. There was one instance where I could have gotten a friend group but I fucked that up. I made a thread about it.

i get ur situation. the only advice i can give is to not give up and to be in places where people with shared interests gather. since u said u easily get overwhelmed by crowds and don't feel like u can be urself, most interactions will naturally drain u more. give urself enough time. most people will understand if u explain them u're just overwhelmed but will text them later. it's not a problem to leave earlier at social gatherings. leave when u're still having fun so u don't create the connection between social behavior and exhaustion in ur mind

 

[CorinthianLOX]

i get ur situation. the only advice i can give is to not give up and to be in places where people with shared interests gather. since u said u easily get overwhelmed by crowds and don't feel like u can be urself, most interactions will naturally drain u more. give urself enough time. most people will understand if u explain them u're just overwhelmed but will text them later. it's not a problem to leave earlier at social gatherings. leave when u're still having fun so u don't create the connection between social behavior and exhaustion in ur mind

I have friends that I hang out with occasionally but I don't have like a friendgroup that meets on a regular basis

 

[blacksheep]

I have friends that I hang out with occasionally but I don't have like a friendgroup that meets on a regular basis

do you feel like u'd need a friend group to feel less lonely or would frequent hang outs with ur existing friends help?

 

[CorinthianLOX]

do you feel like u'd need a friend group to feel less lonely or would frequent hang outs with ur existing friends help?

both

 

[blacksheep]

both

i hope u can ring up ur friends a little more then. for friend groups, really look into what u like. there's clubs for everything. good luck mate

 

[CorinthianLOX]

i hope u can ring up ur friends a little more then. for friend groups, really look into what u like. there's clubs for everything. good luck mate

Yeah but I already fucked my 1 chance in years up: https://looksmax.org/threads/i-got-...my-friend-group-very-badly-storytime.1559694/

 

[blacksheep]

Yeah but I already fucked my 1 chance in years up: https://looksmax.org/threads/i-got-...my-friend-group-very-badly-storytime.1559694/

have u had contact with them since? are they still upset?

 

[CorinthianLOX]

have u had contact with them since? are they still upset?

With 1 of them who I've known since middle school but the others, no. I feel like the others hate me now

 

[blacksheep]

With 1 of them who I've known since middle school but the others, no. I feel like the others hate me now

let's not jump to conclusions without proof. they might as well have gotten overwhelmed with the chaos in that moment and have forgotten it by now. it won't hurt to send them a message, maybe even tell them that the incident with the dogs is still on ur mind

 

[CorinthianLOX]

let's not jump to conclusions without proof. they might as well have gotten overwhelmed with the chaos in that moment and have forgotten it by now. it won't hurt to send them a message, maybe even tell them that the incident with the dogs is still on ur mind

Yeah well 1 of them the boyfriend of his gfs mom who I upset apparently said that it was my fault so I think it's over

 

[TyroneΩ]

Most people just suck. Plain and simple. Most people are just shallow, hypocritical, egotistical and unpleasant to be around. I can't be myself around most people and I get overwhelmed by big crowds usually. Everytime my parents say that ''you're missing out if you don't participate in x activity'' I get the feeling that they're condescending towards me and projecting as usual. There were some school activities that upon reflection didn't seem that interesting or cool after all even if I had very bad FOMO because most people participating in such activites were like I said, annoying, egotistical and rude people. They wouldn't even want me in those activities in the first place probably jfl, which would become apparent in their attitude towards me.

Same, but I force myself to attend those events, for the sake of saving my social life

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Same, but I force myself to attend tose events, for the sake of saving my social life

I tried this but it ended up making my mental health worse

 

[blacksheep]

Yeah well 1 of them the boyfriend of his gfs mom who I upset apparently said that it was my fault so I think it's over

u could apologize? idk i wasn't there so idk how bad the argument got

 

[CorinthianLOX]

u could apologize? idk i wasn't there so idk how bad the argument got

I did like 100s of times

 

[TyroneΩ]

I tried this but it ended up making my mental health worse

I could only advise you to get a good social circle, like eon. Good friends are key to enjoy those environments.

 

[R@m@]

Many people have hurt egos from life and stay away from them

 

[Justakid]

Most people just suck. Plain and simple. Most people are just shallow, hypocritical, egotistical and unpleasant to be around. I can't be myself around most people and I get overwhelmed by big crowds usually. Everytime my parents say that ''you're missing out if you don't participate in x activity'' I get the feeling that they're condescending towards me and projecting as usual. There were some school activities that upon reflection didn't seem that interesting or cool after all even if I had very bad FOMO because most people participating in such activites were like I said, annoying, egotistical and rude people. They wouldn't even want me in those activities in the first place probably jfl, which would become apparent in their attitude towards me.

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