i dont obey unspoken social rules

[Deleted member 23115]

Throughout my life and to this day I approach social situations in a completely spontaneous way. I don't think about the hierarchy at all I just say whatever i want and assert whatever amount of energy regardless of the status ratio. Even if someone is a leader and i can easily see everyone revolves around him like hes the sun i challenge him if i think he's wrong and then everyone just stops talking like i've done something wrong. This happens all the time. I can't stop this behaviour too because it's so unnatural. I'm truly a low inhib chad stuck in nerd body.

 

[Deleted member 22124]

How to stay at the bottom of the totem pole 101

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

OP in the club

 

[Deleted member 23115]

How to stay at the bottom of the totem pole 101

literally my number 1 problem i think about this ALL the time but i cba to change cause i acted somewhat like a normie during high school and i regret those moments yes i got into a social circle but it was embarrassing now i just try to find one guy who i have similarities with and cope with a 1 on 1 friendship

 

[Deleted member 22124]

literally my number 1 problem i think about this ALL the time but i cba to change cause i acted somewhat like a normie during high school and i regret those moments yes i got into a social circle but it was embarrassing now i just try to find one guy who i have similarities with and cope with a 1 on 1 friendship

I'm that guy tbh I would stand up for a friend even if it meant jeopardizing my status and reputation. Those things mean nothing to me compared to what truly matters. But hey, this is just forum life, I understand you need someone irl. I'm not looking for friends myself, but just thought you should know that I am one of those real niggas you can rely on. It's like 1 in 1000.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

OP in the club
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if i was bluepilled and shitskin

 

[Deleted member 23115]

I'm that guy tbh I would stand up for a friend even if it meant jeopardizing my status and reputation. Those things mean nothing to me compared to what truly matters. But hey, this is just forum life, I understand you need someone irl. I'm not looking for friends myself, but just thought you should know that I am one of those real niggas you can rely on. It's like 1 in 1000.

i cant lie but there was this situation where the new kid was nice but i agreed with the popular kid who was shitting on him to be accepted and i regret it so much cause he was judgemental and extremely annoying ive tried to change since then tbh

i had a close friend but in the end we were too co dependent and since then i dont rlly want a friend but glad ur a real nigga tbh