I don't really agree with the "don't communicate neediness", because by that point, it's too late. I prefer to make her feel like a bad person

[swaggyp1]

no "ok no problem" .. instead it's more like "I was really thinking this would go somwhere, but I guess nevermind now "

does it show that it's not alpha? absolutely .. and I don't give a fuck, I just want them to feel like shit