I don’t wanna tell my dad about my bimax. But recovering alone Is ridiculous

[one job away]

Man i don’t wanna tell my dad.


But recovering from bimax alone ks impossible.


I know I have to tell him. No way I can get through that on my own.


I can’t even cook properly

@Gaia262 you recovered on your right?

Watching YouTube videos of recovery’s that’s insane man. Mad respect for that. What would you advise me ?

 

[Gaia262]

Man i don’t wanna tell my dad.


But recovering from bimax alone ks impossible.


I know I have to tell him. No way I can get through that on my own.


I can’t even cook properly

@Gaia262 you recovered on your right?

Watching YouTube videos of recovery’s that’s insane man. Mad respect for that. What would you advise me ?

Yeah I recovered on my own. To be honest if you can have someone go to the shops and make soups for you that would help alot. Doing that alone is rough.

In general this isn't a surgery to be done alone.

 

[HerpDerpson]

Just say you have severe sleep apnea.

 

[HerpDerpson]

In general this isn't a surgery to be done alone.

Over for forever alone cels.

(Damn, what a mogger jaw though!)

 

[Deleted member 16683]

Yeah I recovered on my own. To be honest if you can have someone go to the shops and make soups for you that would help alot. Doing that alone is rough.

In general this isn't a surgery to be done alone.

how did you have any energy to do that while healing?

 

[Deleted member 19499]

Don't tell him or say it's for sleep apnea or some shit.

 

[one job away]

Yeah I recovered on my own. To be honest if you can have someone go to the shops and make soups for you that would help alot. Doing that alone is rough.

In general this isn't a surgery to be done alone.

BTW was your bite fine before treatment ?

Im getting 4mm maxilla and 5 mm lower jaw advanced. I remember ramieri saying to me he wants to do 3mm maxilla but move teeth forward so overall 6 mm for lower jaw.

I wonder

 

[....]

Man i don’t wanna tell my dad.


But recovering from bimax alone ks impossible.


I know I have to tell him. No way I can get through that on my own.


I can’t even cook properly

@Gaia262 you recovered on your right?

Watching YouTube videos of recovery’s that’s insane man. Mad respect for that. What would you advise me ?

why not?

just tell him cuz of his shitty genes youve gotten surgery to fix your face

 

[subhuman incel]

sleep apnea is the best excuse for bimax tbh

 

[Deleted member 16133]

i feel that my grandap threatened to kick myu ass if he ever found out i did a plastic surgery

 

[one job away]

sleep apnea is the best excuse for bimax tbh

Thing is I don’t want him to talk about it.

If I say it’s something medical he for sure is gonna tell his friends n shit about how I get surgery

 

[one job away]

i feel that my grandap threatened to kick myu ass if he ever found out i did a plastic surgery

Thanks for your help. This thread is about me tho.

 

[stewiegriffin]

Same. Getting surgery for pure aesthetics is pretty gay idk what my dad would say if I told him that I was getting bimax

If I ever do get it I would rather hire an aid to help me for the first couple weeks

 

[Silver]

How long will you be staying in hospital for post op? Usually the first three days are the worst from what I understand.

Prepare yourself for the first week of recovery by acquiring lots of meal replacement shakes and smoothies. After the first five days have passed you should be OK, I'd be surprised if you'd feel you like needed additional assistance. I think if your hospital stay is 3 days or more then it should be manageable to recover on your own. Lots of people have done it, but obviously not everyone can do it.

 

[one job away]

How long will you be staying in hospital for post op? Usually the first three days are the worst from what I understand.

Prepare yourself for the first week of recovery by acquiring lots of meal replacement shakes and smoothies. After the first five days have passed you should be OK, I'd be surprised if you'd feel you like needed additional assistance. I think if your hospital stay is 3 days or more then it should be manageable to recover on your own. Lots of people have done it, but obviously not everyone can do it.

3-5 days in hospital. Thing is don’t even know how to get home. I can’t speak to get a taxi. I can’t cook. besides that Im scared ngl. Having someone in the backpocket that is ready to help is defenitly a stress reliever.

Im pretty much decided on telling my dad. But I don’t know how and how I can get him tl not tell anybody.

 

[one job away]

Same. Getting surgery for pure aesthetics is pretty gay idk what my dad would say if I told him that I was getting bimax

If I ever do get it I would rather hire an aid to help me for the first couple weeks

It’s not gay for me anymore. It’s totally fine in my eyes. But it’s defenitly not accepted in society.

 

[Deleted member 3679]

Just say you have severe sleep apnea.

just say you got AIDS

 

[one job away]

why not?

just tell him cuz of his shitty genes youve gotten surgery to fix your face

I don’t want him to tell others that I got this surgery. That’s pretty much the main reason.

 

[....]

I don’t want him to tell others that I got this surgery. That’s pretty much the main reason.

like who? family members? you're trying to fuck your sister?

 

[HerpDerpson]

just say you got AIDS

He'd need gay removal for that, not bimax.

 

[Silver]

3-5 days in hospital. Thing is don’t even know how to get home. I can’t speak to get a taxi. I can’t cook. besides that Im scared ngl. Having someone in the backpocket that is ready to help is defenitly a stress reliever.

Im pretty much decided on telling my dad. But I don’t know how and how I can get him tl not tell anybody.

You could try to downplay the significance of the surgery by explaining it to your dad as something done to correct slight bite problems, tell him it's basically surgical assistance to help with braces to correct your teeth relationship. This way your dad doesn't have anything to tell his friends about, or it won't be of any significance to be remembered for more than 1 week.

If he's with you from day 1 and will see you when you're swollen then he probably won't even realize the soft tissue changes once swelling has settled. It would be a more significant change if he hasn't seen you and you turn up post op with no swelling and a whole new face because then it's something he's not familiar with. When he sees you gradually getting better as swelling settles down he won't notice shit.

 

[HerpDerpson]

idk what my dad would say if I told him that I was getting bimax

It's his own fault for not teaching you to keep your tongue up.

 

[khvirgin]

I don’t want him to tell others that I got this surgery. That’s pretty much the main reason.

Tell him to keep it secret.
My parents aren't gonna say anything, not even to other relatives.

 

[one job away]

like who? family members? you're trying to fuck your sister?

Entire social circle.
He tells his friends. My sister. My sister tells my friends. Whatever. A surgery like bimax is something people can talk about as it’s very Extreme. People love gossip. Sometimes accidentally. I like my family. But I don’t fully trust them in this to keep it shut.

 

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Entire social circle.
He tells his friends. My sister. My sister tells my friends. Whatever. A surgery like bimax is something people can talk about as it’s very Extreme. People love gossip. Sometimes accidentally.

hmm. Don't you look different after bimax

 

[one job away]

hmm. Don't you look different after bimax

Yeah theoretically. But I jutted for years now and always wear a cap to mask my recession and crooked nose. So others besides my family have never seen my actual self. Just my fraudmaxxed self.

If everything goes right I can even drop the cap. No one will even notice the jaw change then and be focused on me having hair or sum shit.


My friends won’t notice. Only risk is family spilling the beans.

 

[one job away]

You could try to downplay the significance of the surgery by explaining it to your dad as something done to correct slight bite problems, tell him it's basically surgical assistance to help with braces to correct your teeth relationship. This way your dad doesn't have anything to tell his friends about, or it won't be of any significance to be remembered for more than 1 week.

If he's with you from day 1 and will see you when you're swollen then he probably won't even realize the soft tissue changes once swelling has settled. It would be a more significant change if he hasn't seen you and you turn up post op with no swelling and a whole new face because then it's something he's not familiar with. When he sees you gradually getting better as swelling settles down he won't notice shit.

Tell him to keep it secret.
My parents aren't gonna say anything, not even to other relatives.

That’s like the dilemma. If I downplay the surgery he gonna tell it his friends, atleast as a side node. He has orthodontist aid in his social circle and some people who work in health related fields. They would surely know the severity of this surgery.


But I feel like he thinks telling his close friends will be fine as it’s his close friends. I feel like he would be the kind of person who you tell to not tell somebody and then he does and says „oh it’s just them… dw“. Especially if I downplay it he gonna ask why he should keep it shut.


3rd alternative is recovering alone. In a shitty appartment. Clocked up nose from blood. No cooking skills. 35 degree in summer. No clue about how to actually live on my own.

 

[Deleted member 18849]

Only 6mm lower? The big ascension I've seen are on the double digits. Unless you're doing genio too + angle implants

 

[one job away]

Only 6mm lower? The big ascension I've seen are on the double digits. Unless you're doing genio too + angle implants

Yeah rn a 5mm genio is planned. Honestly I wished I could have like 3.5mm Upper jaw and like 8.5 mm lower jaw and 2mm genio

But you can’t pick and choose. They just gotta work with what you got. My occlusional plane is close to ideal so they can’t rotate CCW without fucking up some other stuff. Basicly they are forced to advance the jaws 1:1

 

[Silver]

That’s like the dilemma. If I downplay the surgery he gonna tell it his friends, atleast as a side node. He has orthodontist aid in his social circle and some people who work in health related fields. They would surely know the severity of this surgery.


But I feel like he thinks telling his close friends will be fine as it’s his close friends. I feel like he would be the kind of person who you tell to not tell somebody and then he does and says „oh it’s just them… dw“. Especially if I downplay it he gonna ask why he should keep it shut.


3rd alternative is recovering alone. In a shitty appartment. Clocked up nose from blood. No cooking skills. 35 degree in summer. No clue about how to actually live on my own.

What's the bad part about him telling his friends? They won't know your reasoning for getting the surgery. They'll think you're getting jaw surgery for occlusal problems because that's the intended purpose of the surgery, the aesthetic improvements comes as a byproduct.

His friends are of 0 significance to you, it would be worse if he told YOUR friends or people in your age-range. Will you even ever meet any of his friends? If you happen to meet them, they'll ask you how was the procedure, how was recovery etc and maybe compliment you on the aesthetic gains and nothing else.

Obviously, you should ask him kindly to be quiet about it but it'll be impossible to keep his mouth under check.

 

[one job away]

What's the bad part about him telling his friends? They won't know your reasoning for getting the surgery. They'll think you're getting jaw surgery for occlusal problems because that's the intended purpose of the surgery, the aesthetic improvements comes as a byproduct.

His friends are of 0 significance to you, it would be worse if he told YOUR friends or people in your age-range. Will you even ever meet any of his friends? If you happen to meet them, they'll ask you how was the procedure, how was recovery etc and maybe compliment you on the aesthetic gains and nothing else.

Obviously, you should ask him kindly to be quiet about it but it'll be impossible to keep his mouth under check.

Yeah you’re right. I shouldn’t try to control things that I can’t control.


Rather find some explanation that is easy to digest for others so they dont and questions.

Thing is I once told me sister I wanna improve my smile and might get my jaws rearranged for that.



I could however say that i always had pain in my jaw. Which is actually true but not related.

Mhhh

 

[Deleted member 16683]

That’s like the dilemma. If I downplay the surgery he gonna tell it his friends, atleast as a side node. He has orthodontist aid in his social circle and some people who work in health related fields. They would surely know the severity of this surgery.


But I feel like he thinks telling his close friends will be fine as it’s his close friends. I feel like he would be the kind of person who you tell to not tell somebody and then he does and says „oh it’s just them… dw“. Especially if I downplay it he gonna ask why he should keep it shut.


3rd alternative is recovering alone. In a shitty appartment. Clocked up nose from blood. No cooking skills. 35 degree in summer. No clue about how to actually live on my own.

maybe u could hire an actual caregiver for a week or two. i think they have things like that

 

[stewiegriffin]

It’s not gay for me anymore. It’s totally fine in my eyes. But it’s defenitly not accepted in society.

Yea it’s not gay for me either. I want bimax. But to society like u said it’s def very weird to get jaw surgery when u have nothing actually wrong with u lol

 

[Tobias Fünke]

I plan to get mine alone and recover alone. If it's shit, then so be it. The suffering is temporary.

That being said, if you are going to Alfaro (I'm not) then the recovery should be more tolerable as he operates so quickly that it reduces the subsequent swelling and facial trauma.

 

[one job away]

I plan to get mine alone and recover alone. If it's shit, then so be it. The suffering is temporary.

That being said, if you are going to Alfaro (I'm not) then the recovery should be more tolerable as he operates so quickly that it reduces the subsequent swelling and facial trauma.

Not sure. Quite sure I’m not getting a minimal invasive surgery. Would recover on my own if that would be the case. But I highly doubt it as I’m getting 5 days hospital stay.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

I told my parents, siblings and two best friends about my plan to get IMDO+Lefort+Genio and after explaining my reasoning they all understood, I have mild sleep apnea but I made it clear this was mainly aesthetic.

If they are genuine people you want in your life be upfront and you’ll see them for who they are.

 

[Deleted member 16133]

Thanks for your help. This thread is about me tho.

no everythigns about me gimme attention

 

[one job away]

I told my parents, siblings and two best friends about my plan to get IMDO+Lefort+Genio and after explaining my reasoning they all understood, I have mild sleep apnea but I made it clear this was mainly aesthetic.

If they are genuine people you want in your life be upfront and you’ll see them for who they are.

I told him i might get operated. Not sure yet.

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Just tell him bro wtf? Its medical necessity or the insurance wouldn’t pay so

 

[Pakicel]

It’s not gay for me anymore. It’s totally fine in my eyes. But it’s defenitly not accepted in society.

You do have a bit of a high E personality though like many of the users on the forum.

 

[Pakicel]

Just tell him bro wtf? Its medical necessity or the insurance wouldn’t pay so

Dude, my parents would disown me if I got PS. Also, they will not keep their mouths shut. Not to mention the stigma around getting PS as a male. You will be seen as a faggot.

 

[AlexBrown84]

I remember when I got surgery a few months and they require you to have someone to drive you home so I just hired some random African Uber driver to stay with me lol

 

[Pakicel]

I remember when I got surgery a few months and they require you to have someone to drive you home so I just hired some random African Uber driver to stay with me lol

How much did you pay him?

 

[AlexBrown84]

How much did you pay him?

$200 to be with me for 6 hours

 

[Pakicel]

$200 to be with me for 6 hours

I thought he would ask for more than that. Did he take care of you i.e bring you food and ice?

 

[AlexBrown84]

I thought he would ask for more than that. Did he take care of you i.e bring you food and ice?

Nah it was just an Uber for 6 hours

 

[AlexBrown84]

I stayed at hotel so just called front desk for stuff to bring me

 

[Pakicel]

I stayed at hotel so just called front desk for stuff to bring me

You are rich af and always seem busy vacationing somewhere. Have no issues getting women either. IDK why you even post here. I mean. Why flex on incels? If you really like posting about yourself all the time, why not use insta?

 

[AlexBrown84]

You are rich af and always seem busy vacationing somewhere. Have no issues getting women either. IDK why you even post here. I mean. Why flex on incels? If you really like posting about yourself all the time, why not use insta?

I post on Instagram also

Why not do both

 

[Deleted member 13710]

Tell him the doctor detected a narrow airway, and you want to get it for medical reasons.