I don’t want to hate my own race

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I really don’t like harboring negative sentiments towards my own race, but it’s very hard when south Asians are the punching bag of literally every group ever, I don’t even think that curries are nearly as fucked as this forum makes them out to be especially in the future, most are on par with other “brown” races or exceed them when given good nutrition and fitness. Cultural criticism is whatever but I don’t think it’s good or natural to be self hating as any ethnic. Same goes for self hating East Asians ngl, even I don’t find them or their features attractive I don’t like thinking of them as subhumans, same thing with AASI maxed Dravidians. I want to love other humans not hate them. Basically stop hating yourself if you are ethnic it’s very bad for you
 
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Curries are for sure the most hated on this forum even tho I loved them 🤣😔
 
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Curries are for sure the most hated on this forum even tho I loved them 🤣😔
I think everybody wants someone beneath them to hate, one of the parts of human nature I wish I could erase
 
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Hate these nuts instead :forcedsmile:
 
I agree, I dont want to hate myself or other curries but the things said about us are horrible and cruel, this often leads to me hating not only myself but my family and other south asians in general.

Funny enough I went to the gym tdy with some friends and they were talking about how bad curries smell. They said I was chill but they said almost every curry they meet in uni smells like shit. Alot of them dont take care of themselves which makes people like me who are normal take a beating aswell.
 
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I agree, I dont want to hate myself or other curries but the things said about us are horrible and cruel, this often leads to me hating not only myself but my family and other south asians in general.

Funny enough I went to the gym tdy with some friends and they were talking about how bad curries smell. They said I was chill but they said almost every curry they meet in uni smells like shit. Alot of them dont take care of themselves which makes people like me who are normal take a beating aswell.
where are you from? Never met a diaspora south Asian here that smells like shit
 
where are you from? Never met a diaspora south Asian here that smells like shit
im from the states but my background is punjabi. My friends were probably talking about transfer students from india not sure tho.
 
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It's tough surviving as a Bangladesh truecel in these forums
 
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nooo bro don’t hate u got salludonnn he’s true Adam in mumbaiiii
 
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im from the states but my background is punjabi. My friends were probably talking about transfer students from india not sure tho.
I’m from the states too and I’ve never ran into bad smelling Indians ngl, I don’t have much exposure to fobs though
 
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I really don’t like harboring negative sentiments towards my own race, but it’s very hard when south Asians are the punching bag of literally every group ever, I don’t even think that curries are nearly as fucked as this forum makes them out to be especially in the future, most are on par with other “brown” races or exceed them when given good nutrition and fitness. Cultural criticism is whatever but I don’t think it’s good or natural to be self hating as any ethnic. Same goes for self hating East Asians ngl, even I don’t find them or their features attractive I don’t like thinking of them as subhumans, same thing with AASI maxed Dravidians. I want to love other humans not hate them. Basically stop hating yourself if you are ethnic it’s very bad for you
Yea I have the same problem with the blacks in the south
 
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At least you live in the USA, imagine how it is like in Canada for us.

Thankfully I look ambiguous.
 
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Bump. I agree with this post. Pointless to hate on your own ethnicity. It's not all miserable
 
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At least you live in the USA, imagine how it is like in Canada for us.

Thankfully I look ambiguous.
Thankfully I have a wonderful community of Arab and south Asian Muslims who all get along well. And I basically never face racism irl, I think south Asian rep is generally higher in terms of people who are born here in the us, Canada sounds like hell on earth and my half Pashtun half Punjabi cousins basically threw away their Indic roots just to not be socially ostracized, brutal stuff
 
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Bump. I agree with this post. Pointless to hate on your own ethnicity. It's not all miserable
I don’t want to hate any ethnicity, I don’t like the strain racism has on the mind
 
It's tough surviving as a Bangladesh truecel in these forums
Are you actually a trucel? I’m like 5’8-5’9 and I know guys shorter than me in marriages doing decent, 5’11 is a solid height imo, is your face that bad?
 
Thankfully I have a wonderful community of Arab and south Asian Muslims who all get along well. And I basically never face racism irl, I think south Asian rep is generally higher in terms of people who are born here in the us, Canada sounds like hell on earth and my half Pashtun half Punjabi cousins basically threw away their Indic roots just to not be socially ostracized, brutal stuff
Yes it is truly brutal over here. There was a 15 year old user that lived in a very wealthy area here and he shared this his girlfriend left him when she learned he was half-indian. The USA is 100x better for all South Asians however I think the west coast of Canada may be an exception.

But IRL racism is still not really something you face, it is as you said mainly just social ostracization and behind your back.
 
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I really don’t like harboring negative sentiments towards my own race, but it’s very hard when south Asians are the punching bag of literally every group ever, I don’t even think that curries are nearly as fucked as this forum makes them out to be especially in the future, most are on par with other “brown” races or exceed them when given good nutrition and fitness. Cultural criticism is whatever but I don’t think it’s good or natural to be self hating as any ethnic. Same goes for self hating East Asians ngl, even I don’t find them or their features attractive I don’t like thinking of them as subhumans, same thing with AASI maxed Dravidians. I want to love other humans not hate them. Basically stop hating yourself if you are ethnic it’s very bad for you
Dnr but be glad ur not Indian like me bai
 
The overwhelming lack of self control and the culture and parenting reinforce that behavior.
I deeply relate to this😭 I hate how much south Asian mothers baby their sons in this gross and often crippling way
 
The overwhelming lack of self control and the culture and parenting reinforce that behavior.
I don’t have much direct exposure to black people in the south though all my black friends have been pretty chill im from socal
 
I agree, I dont want to hate myself or other curries but the things said about us are horrible and cruel, this often leads to me hating not only myself but my family and other south asians in general.

Funny enough I went to the gym tdy with some friends and they were talking about how bad curries smell. They said I was chill but they said almost every curry they meet in uni smells like shit. Alot of them dont take care of themselves which makes people like me who are normal take a beating aswell.
I will say man it’s really comforting to hear from another desi guy feeling the same things I do, I feel less alone now.
 
I agree, I dont want to hate myself or other curries but the things said about us are horrible and cruel, this often leads to me hating not only myself but my family and other south asians in general.

Funny enough I went to the gym tdy with some friends and they were talking about how bad curries smell. They said I was chill but they said almost every curry they meet in uni smells like shit. Alot of them dont take care of themselves which makes people like me who are normal take a beating aswell.
The best thing to do is to live somewhere in the USA where there are no other Indians. Unironically the places where South Asians have the best reputation is where there are none.
 
Are you actually a trucel? I’m like 5’8-5’9 and I know guys shorter than me in marriages doing decent, 5’11 is a solid height imo, is your face that bad?
Eh probably not.
I could get a gf if I asked out enough foids but I want someone who doesn't interact with other men unless necessary
 
Eh probably not.
I could get a gf if I asked out enough foids but I want someone who doesn't interact with other men unless necessary
Only way that’ll happen is if you marry an ultra religious woman and you yourself are religious, and you aren’t that picky about looks, otherwise yeah it’s kind of over
 
I really don’t like harboring negative sentiments towards my own race, but it’s very hard when south Asians are the punching bag of literally every group ever, I don’t even think that curries are nearly as fucked as this forum makes them out to be especially in the future, most are on par with other “brown” races or exceed them when given good nutrition and fitness. Cultural criticism is whatever but I don’t think it’s good or natural to be self hating as any ethnic. Same goes for self hating East Asians ngl, even I don’t find them or their features attractive I don’t like thinking of them as subhumans, same thing with AASI maxed Dravidians. I want to love other humans not hate them. Basically stop hating yourself if you are ethnic it’s very bad for you
JDC (just dont care)
 
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Only way that’ll happen is if you marry an ultra religious woman and you yourself are religious, and you aren’t that picky about looks, otherwise yeah it’s kind of over
Dude most of the times, them being religious means nothing. They probably had plenty of exes and are likely horny whores. Also, I obv don't wanna get married at 18.
I don't care about looks. I'm willing to date a 4'10 400kg foid as long as she doesn't interact with males unless necessary
 
Dude most of the times, them being religious means nothing. They probably had plenty of exes and are likely horny whores. Also, I obv don't wanna get married at 18.
I don't care about looks. I'm willing to date a 4'10 400kg foid as long as she doesn't interact with males unless necessary
you’re being dumb man, there’s absolutely still genuinely religious god fearing women out there, you just have to be very involved in religious spaces in order to meet them, I literally know at least 3 women who are that religious in their 20s.
 
you’re being dumb man, there’s absolutely still genuinely religious god fearing women out there, you just have to be very involved in religious spaces in order to meet them, I literally know at least 3 women who are that religious in their 20s.
I mean obviously they exist but it's like 1 in 10 million
Also, I obv don't wanna get married at such a young age. I mean I'm from a Muslim family but we aren't that religious. I go to the mosque with my father sometimes and that's about it.
How am I supposed to find a religious woman who will pay attention to me without me marrying them?
 
Мне действительно не нравится питать негативные чувства к своей расе, но это очень тяжело, когда южноазиаты становятся объектом насмешек буквально всех групп. Я даже не думаю, что карри настолько плохи, как их представляют на этом форуме, особенно в будущем. Большинство из них находятся на одном уровне с другими «коричневыми» расами или превосходят их при условии хорошего питания и физической формы. Культурная критика — это, конечно, хорошо, но я не думаю, что ненависть к себе как к этнической группе — это хорошо или естественно. То же самое относится и к восточноазиатам, которые ненавидят себя, честно говоря. Даже я не нахожу их или их черты привлекательными, мне не нравится думать о них как о недочеловеках. То же самое с дравидами с максимальным уровнем AASI. Я хочу любить других людей, а не ненавидеть их. В общем, перестаньте ненавидеть себя, если вы принадлежите к какой-либо этнической группе, это очень плохо для вас.
А вас это вообще волнует?
 
I mean obviously they exist but it's like 1 in 10 million
Also, I obv don't wanna get married at such a young age. I mean I'm from a Muslim family but we aren't that religious. I go to the mosque with my father sometimes and that's about it.
How am I supposed to find a religious woman who will pay attention to me without me marrying them?
Your standards fundamentally do not reflect reality in that case, it is impossible to find a non religious woman who meets your requirements imo, so if that’s what you’re resigned to you will be alone forever I guess, although you’re a volcel in that case not a truecel
 
Your standards fundamentally do not reflect reality in that case, it is impossible to find a non religious woman who meets your requirements imo, so if that’s what you’re resigned to you will be alone forever I guess, although you’re a volcel in that case not a truecel
Well yeah but that's the one singular standard I have for a woman. They just can't have male friends and only interact with men for objective interactions.

Everyone is a volcel to some regard. Legit anyone from the west can 100% have sex or get a gf by geomaxxing
 
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Well yeah but that's the one singular standard I have for a woman. They just can't have male friends and only interact with men for objective interactions.

Everyone is a volcel to some regard. Legit anyone from the west can 100% have sex or get a gf by geomaxxing
Fair enough, good luck
 
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I really don’t like harboring negative sentiments towards my own race, but it’s very hard when south Asians are the punching bag of literally every group ever, I don’t even think that curries are nearly as fucked as this forum makes them out to be especially in the future, most are on par with other “brown” races or exceed them when given good nutrition and fitness. Cultural criticism is whatever but I don’t think it’s good or natural to be self hating as any ethnic. Same goes for self hating East Asians ngl, even I don’t find them or their features attractive I don’t like thinking of them as subhumans, same thing with AASI maxed Dravidians. I want to love other humans not hate them. Basically stop hating yourself if you are ethnic it’s very bad for you
true it's over for gooks and indians
 
true it's over for gooks and indians
South Asians can always date and marry within their own race though, it’s kind of over for East Asian men in a lot situations though
 

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