I Feel Bad About This, but My Boyfriend Is Ugly

[Deleted member 5634]

Dear How to Do It,

I am a 34-year-old woman and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We don’t have kids (yet), we have a great relationship, the sex is always good, and we hardly fight. I honestly cannot complain: He’s the type of man every woman would want. He’s caring, very thoughtful, funny—I could keep going, but you get the point. Anyway, I feel bad for even thinking this way, but I am and never have really been physically attracted to him. Over time we both have gained weight and let ourselves go a little, but as we get older, I am getting less attracted. I know people will probably wonder how I stayed with someone for so long whom I never thought was cute or handsome, but I was attracted to his personality and his love for me, and that’s what matters, right? Now, I find myself looking at other men online, and on the street, I wish my man looked like them or had some of their features. I really wish I didn’t feel this way—I feel extremely shallow. I want to look at him and have the desire to rip his clothes off, but I look at him and sometimes say to myself, “He’s ugly.” I don’t want to have these thoughts in my head—they’re mean and selfish—and I could never bring myself to tell him to his face that I think he’s ugly. Please help!

BUT I JUST SAW AN UGLY GUY ON THE STREET WITH A GIRLFRIEND BLACKPILL IS NOT REAL

 

[Deleted member 4887]

Dear How to Do It,

I am a 34-year-old woman and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We don’t have kids (yet), we have a great relationship, the sex is always good, and we hardly fight. I honestly cannot complain: He’s the type of man every woman would want. He’s caring, very thoughtful, funny—I could keep going, but you get the point. Anyway, I feel bad for even thinking this way, but I am and never have really been physically attracted to him. Over time we both have gained weight and let ourselves go a little, but as we get older, I am getting less attracted. I know people will probably wonder how I stayed with someone for so long whom I never thought was cute or handsome, but I was attracted to his personality and his love for me, and that’s what matters, right? Now, I find myself looking at other men online, and on the street, I wish my man looked like them or had some of their features. I really wish I didn’t feel this way—I feel extremely shallow. I want to look at him and have the desire to rip his clothes off, but I look at him and sometimes say to myself, “He’s ugly.” I don’t want to have these thoughts in my head—they’re mean and selfish—and I could never bring myself to tell him to his face that I think he’s ugly. Please help!

BUT I JUST SAW AN UGLY GUY ON THE STREET WITH A GIRLFRIEND BLACKPILL IS NOT REAL

the way she's making it out to be as though he's really ugly

 

[Pubertymaxxer3]

he is probably really ugly. post the reddit link tbh

 

[brainded]

Sounds like larp

 

[Deleted member 4430]

If you are ugly; you are ugly – stop talking about inner beauty because we don't walk around with X-rays

 

[mewcoper]

so personality not a meme this bitch endure her ugly ass boyfriend for fuckin 14 year lifefuel tbh

 

[TsarTsar444]

BRUTAL, looks are everything in life, bluepilled purge should begin on this forum NGL

 

[Deleted member 3043]

BRUTAL, looks are everything in life, bluepilled purge should begin on this forum NGL

ily

 

[ConspiracyTheory]

How is the sex "always good" if you're not attracted? I've had sex with girls I wasn't attracted to just to get laid and I felt worse after. I did that three times and then stopped having sex just for sex because it was not good.

 

[Vitruvian]

Shes getting attention on instagram and decided to write her whore thoughts on reddit.

As the days go past, i find it increasingly harder to forgive whores. God will judge them in the end

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

"The blackpill's brutal... some things just never change"

 

[Deleted member 10913]

Dear How to Do It,

I am a 34-year-old woman and I’ve been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We don’t have kids (yet), we have a great relationship, the sex is always good, and we hardly fight. I honestly cannot complain: He’s the type of man every woman would want. He’s caring, very thoughtful, funny—I could keep going, but you get the point. Anyway, I feel bad for even thinking this way, but I am and never have really been physically attracted to him. Over time we both have gained weight and let ourselves go a little, but as we get older, I am getting less attracted. I know people will probably wonder how I stayed with someone for so long whom I never thought was cute or handsome, but I was attracted to his personality and his love for me, and that’s what matters, right? Now, I find myself looking at other men online, and on the street, I wish my man looked like them or had some of their features. I really wish I didn’t feel this way—I feel extremely shallow. I want to look at him and have the desire to rip his clothes off, but I look at him and sometimes say to myself, “He’s ugly.” I don’t want to have these thoughts in my head—they’re mean and selfish—and I could never bring myself to tell him to his face that I think he’s ugly. Please help!

BUT I JUST SAW AN UGLY GUY ON THE STREET WITH A GIRLFRIEND BLACKPILL IS NOT REAL

The memory of this forum seems to get rolled back. People want to forget reallity so the come up with dumb examples like that.
Denying it will not change it.

 

[Deleted member 6380]

This is why you shouldn't gain weight.