I feel bad for people who catfish/fraud themselves.

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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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Dnr nigger
 
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dnr but fraud is law unless you're chad and chads fraud too :incel:
 
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I feel bad for the forsaken that post nothings to the nothing void
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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theyre slaves for the attention theyve missed in life
 
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Great thread. I care a lot what people think of me, but I wouldn't lie to myself by frauding. I could never feel validated by lying to myself
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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for foids its built into their nature to do shit like that and lie to themselves. for men it wasn't like that until recently.
 
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theyre slaves for the attention theyve missed in life
Yes and no, this is so normalized where i live. So many girls that has friends, that is popular. Do this.

But same time majority of the people where i live are beautiful.
 
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for foids its built into their nature to do shit like that and lie to themselves. for men it wasn't like that until recently.
yeah but recently being like 3-5 years ago, they always do the gayest frauding. And it hurts me to see people doing this.
 
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Yes and no, this is so normalized where i live. So many girls that has friends, that is popular. Do this.

But same time majority of the people where i live are beautiful.
they all have the same goal in the end, being loved and appreciated by others
 
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they all have the same goal in the end, being loved and appreciated by others
This hits, so many people yearn for it. But why?

I might actually study psychology soon I can’t lie, been asking myself what I should do in the future. I wanna study how people react and act.
 
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Bump
 
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This hits, so many people yearn for it. But why?

I might actually study psychology soon I can’t lie, been asking myself what I should do in the future. I wanna study how people react and act.
we're hard-coded to have a need for love, its human biology.
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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Did read, fantastic thread:owo:
 
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We naturally crave it to be liked
We naturally crave it to be admired by others
It just makes us feel good

I think everyone frauds a bit, some people more and some people less.
Ofc it strongly depends on how hard someone frauds, but like @crazyguy said:
they all have the same goal in the end, being loved and appreciated by others
 
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good thread, but i mean frauding and getting compliments is better then getting no compliments at all no?
 
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I know a lot of girls who do this and they aren’t even aware about it
 
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me core
 
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I agree
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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good read❤️ (thanks for tagging me bhai)
 
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good thread, but i mean frauding and getting compliments is better then getting no compliments at all no?
Yes but at what cost? I mean that argument could be used for people who use substances, i know its a crazy comparison. But if i have to use a coping mechanism to make me happy. It's better not to use a coping mechanism and be sad because you are aware who you are.
Don't get me wrong i fraud all the time, but i do it in private. I compliment myself. But in reality i know how i look and how i am.
 
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We naturally crave it to be liked
We naturally crave it to be admired by others
It just makes us feel good

I think everyone frauds a bit, some people more and some people less.
Ofc it strongly depends on how hard someone frauds, but like @crazyguy said:
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Yes but at what cost? I mean that argument could be used for people who use substances, i know its a crazy comparison. But if i have to use a coping mechanism to make me happy. It's better not to use a coping mechanism and be sad because you are aware who you are.
Don't get me wrong i fraud all the time, but i do it in private. I compliment myself. But in reality i know how i look and how i am.
yeah but calling urself ugly while not getting any compliments either might lead to worse mental health, which can lead to even worse stuff like self harm etc
 
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yeah but calling urself ugly while not getting any compliments either might lead to worse mental health, which can lead to even worse stuff like self harm etc
yeah but at the end of the day, it all depends on the person.
 
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Most if not all people fraud themselves, as especially on social media they want the best of themselves to be presented, as then their "best" is subconsciously perceived as their normal state. So long as there is awareness to it and an enforcement of not comparing yourself to others I think it's ok
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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i agree. u either show ur trueself or change it
 
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I just wanna look good Dawg

It's not that Deep:hnghn::hnghn:
 
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Lightning and angles Not gon change how i look irl😈
Yeah but thats the thing. Why fraud when if lets say you and a girl starts talking and you only have pictures and videos when you fraud. You meet eachother irl then she sees you
 
SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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What an amazing thread. Im so goated
 
Yeah but thats the thing. Why fraud when if lets say you and a girl starts talking and you only have pictures and videos when you fraud. You meet eachother irl then she sees you
Exactly bro

Once i saw a girl that ive been talking to online And i thought she was gon look like those pics that she posts on Social media platform

She went from 6.7psl to 2psl
 
Exactly bro

Once i saw a girl that ive been talking to online And i thought she was gon look like those pics that she posts on Social media platform

She went from 6.7psl to 2psl
Thats just sad to see, i mean people are really not insecure so they fraud/catfish for them to feel good.

I know many girls in my school who fraud/catfish, thing is they are very aware of it themselves

and its just sad to see that. Gosh what a horrible place and time we live in
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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i look like a tard even while frauding its so over for ethniccels like myself
 
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SImagine sitting there infront of your camera, spending minutes looking for an audio, spending minutes to look for a filter, spending minutes looking for an angle, that one angle that makes you look slightly better then you normally look, as your body, as your eyes consume into your brain.

Finally at last, you press send. You wait until the video or image is uploaded. You see those thousands of comments people complimenting you. Those validations comments that you were yearning for, finally has reached to you.

Your body feels with enjoyment, you feel a spark in your heart, but then couple minutes later you go into the bathroom. See in the window who you truly are.

You start thinking to yourself, why am i doing this. Do i really need these validation comments so i can convince myself i am not ugly.


And these are for the guys, imagine how girls are. Can’t think how hard it is for girls to live knowing they’re a slave to social media and care what everyone says about them.

When you mention this to them or to anyone, your the one to be blamed, your the one who is insane for saying these stuff.

They use the same excuse “it’s because of this and its because of that” knowing they can break the cycle. But are refusing to.
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Sounds like you are speaking from experience
 
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dnr but fraud is law unless you're chad and chads fraud too :incel:
True,even Thomas Strijd got exposed for frauding recently
Someone posted it on here
@sub5outsider
 
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tldr
 
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