Venting I feel like I have no connection with anybody

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Care to elaborate? "Connect" is a vague term.
Like I can’t make friends and shit. Socializing and connecting with other people in general. It’s like I’m disconnected from other people.

I’ve seen this with my interactions with women. Even if they’ve liked me I felt no connection.

And with trying to make friends when they crack jokes they always seem so unfunny to me.
 
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Like I can’t make friends and shit. Socializing and connecting with other people in general. It’s like I’m disconnected from other people.

I’ve seen this with my interactions with women. Even if they’ve liked me I felt no connection.

And with trying to make friends when they crack jokes they always seem so unfunny to me.
i've felt the same aswell. Im loved and liked but never are feelings mutual whether it's a friend or gf and even parents and siblings
 
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Like I can’t make friends and shit. Socializing and connecting with other people in general. It’s like I’m disconnected from other people.

I’ve seen this with my interactions with women. Even if they’ve liked me I felt no connection.

And with trying to make friends when they crack jokes they always seem so unfunny to me.
They fake it mostly, I think. Such things take TIME.
 
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Like I can’t connect with people at all. Idk it’s weird.
sometimes I wonder if a "real connection" even exists, at least how most people describe it, because craving for a friend or a real connection is nothing else but our human nature trying to make the chances of passing our genes onto the next generation higher, through achieving a trustworthy friendgroup. We were made to be social. To function in groups. Hunt in groups. But we werent supposed to even discuss all of this. Our behavior is costantly depending either on our nature, or on our overdeveloped self awareness. Problem is we cant bypass none of them, so we just suffer. And suffer. And suffer.
All I cant tell you is do what makes you happy. Have connections with people if that makes you happy, dont except them to be "real" tho. Highly aware individuals can see through the masks behind every relationship or connection, while everyone else sees them as something ethereal and romanticizes them.
 
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Like real friends type shit
Doesn't really exist. What you want is a brother.


sometimes I wonder if a "real connection" even exists, at least how most people describe it, because craving for a friend or a real connection is nothing else but our human nature trying to make the chances of passing our genes onto the next generation higher, through achieving a trustworthy friendgroup. We were made to be social. To function in groups. Hunt in groups. But we werent supposed to even discuss all of this. Our behavior is costantly depending either on our nature, or on our overdeveloped self awareness. Problem is we cant bypass none of them, so we just suffer. And suffer. And suffer.
All I cant tell you is do what makes you happy. Have connections with people if that makes you happy, dont except them to be "real" tho. Highly aware individuals can see through the masks behind every relationship or connection, while everyone else sees them as something ethereal and romanticizes them.
Every single friend will drop you if it benefits him. I've seen betrayals in the least expected situations.
 

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