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stunna
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Hi I just turned 32 and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong at this point. I’ve never been a full blown incel but I’ve always been a virgin and never had any woman interested in me to my knowledge. For a while now I just assumed it was because I was unattractive, I’ve been to therapists but no major issues have been brought up about me, like for the most part I’m a fairly normal and mentally ok dude.
My whole life I’ve always been unpopular with girls, I’m not sure why, I always had female friends and generally I preferred the company of woman to men, I’m a bit more of a feminine guy I guess but I never felt like I was attractive enough for them to like me romantically. I’m a pretty social person I have a ton of friends and acquaintances both male and female, most of these people are pretty extrovert as well, so it’s not like I was stuck at home a lot. I partied when I younger and did a lot of stuff worked all sorts of jobs and experienced a lot of people. I’m obviously not unsocialable or offensive to woman since I have friends but going further doesn’t work.
I’ve met so many single woman I have tons in common with and get along throughout my life but everytime I show interest or ask them out I get rejected. My standards are pretty low but I generally only ask people out I’m interested in although sometimes I’ve asked random girls out that I thought were pretty but I didn’t expect much from that.
I’m a pretty short guy around 5’3, not a very conventionally handsome face, tiny hands and really small penis, idk if that matters I just don’t have anything going for me lol. I’m balding as well although I’m in good shape.
I have fairly extroverted interests, rock music I go to a lot of gigs and have played live, I like art, fishing, festivals, activism, cooking, sports, gym and animals/zoology.
I work in marketing in a fairly large firm and volunteer a lot for children’s hospitals, the homeless and animal rescue.
There have been so many times I thought a girl liked me and even my mother and other friends said they did but then I asked them out and got rejected idk what to do, a lot of my friends are getting married or are in long term relationships, I don’t want to be single anymore. I feel like I was never meant to experience sexuality I’m not sure I’m even straight but i can’t experiment. I need help.
Also phone is lagging so I can’t really type anymore, so if you need me to elaborate more just ask
My whole life I’ve always been unpopular with girls, I’m not sure why, I always had female friends and generally I preferred the company of woman to men, I’m a bit more of a feminine guy I guess but I never felt like I was attractive enough for them to like me romantically. I’m a pretty social person I have a ton of friends and acquaintances both male and female, most of these people are pretty extrovert as well, so it’s not like I was stuck at home a lot. I partied when I younger and did a lot of stuff worked all sorts of jobs and experienced a lot of people. I’m obviously not unsocialable or offensive to woman since I have friends but going further doesn’t work.
I’ve met so many single woman I have tons in common with and get along throughout my life but everytime I show interest or ask them out I get rejected. My standards are pretty low but I generally only ask people out I’m interested in although sometimes I’ve asked random girls out that I thought were pretty but I didn’t expect much from that.
I’m a pretty short guy around 5’3, not a very conventionally handsome face, tiny hands and really small penis, idk if that matters I just don’t have anything going for me lol. I’m balding as well although I’m in good shape.
I have fairly extroverted interests, rock music I go to a lot of gigs and have played live, I like art, fishing, festivals, activism, cooking, sports, gym and animals/zoology.
I work in marketing in a fairly large firm and volunteer a lot for children’s hospitals, the homeless and animal rescue.
There have been so many times I thought a girl liked me and even my mother and other friends said they did but then I asked them out and got rejected idk what to do, a lot of my friends are getting married or are in long term relationships, I don’t want to be single anymore. I feel like I was never meant to experience sexuality I’m not sure I’m even straight but i can’t experiment. I need help.
Also phone is lagging so I can’t really type anymore, so if you need me to elaborate more just ask
