I feel lost in life please give advice

[robo09]

So hey guys idk what it is but I’ve felt lost in life for so long and almost every night I get sad bro like very sad just thinking about my future (I feel like I’m gonna be a failure) and I just over think. I honestly just feel like I don’t have a purpose on this planet not saying I’m gonna rope because I would not want my family and friends to be sad but bro I just feel lost and I just want to feel happy again like I did as a kid if anyone else feels the same please tell me what to do to get better and I don’t ldar all day like I go out with my friends and stuff and have fun but when I get home I just feel pathetic what’s wrong with me?

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

I understand you perfectly bro you really can't escape it once you perceive life like that the only thing is filling the void with activities but until you have some sort of spiritual belief you'll always feel that way because at the end of the day this earthly life alone has no purpose

 

[robo09]

I understand you perfectly bro you really can't escape it once you perceive life like that the only thing is filling the void with activities but until you have some sort of spiritual belief you'll always feel that way because at the end of the day this earthly life alone has no purpose

Yea bro but I’ve tried to be religious I just don’t understand it bro and I can’t get my self to believe it

 

[UserE_7.random]

So hey guys idk what it is but I’ve felt lost in life for so long and almost every night I get sad bro like very sad just thinking about my future (I feel like I’m gonna be a failure) and I just over think. I honestly just feel like I don’t have a purpose on this planet not saying I’m gonna rope because I would not want my family and friends to be sad but bro I just feel lost and I just want to feel happy again like I did as a kid if anyone else feels the same please tell me what to do to get better and I don’t ldar all day like I go out with my friends and stuff and have fun but when I get home I just feel pathetic what’s wrong with me?

Stay in the moment and avoid having high expectations because having a purpose is something you choose. It could be whatever like you could find a passion and enjoy it until the day you die.

 

[iamnotaracist]

So hey guys idk what it is but I’ve felt lost in life for so long and almost every night I get sad bro like very sad just thinking about my future (I feel like I’m gonna be a failure) and I just over think. I honestly just feel like I don’t have a purpose on this planet not saying I’m gonna rope because I would not want my family and friends to be sad but bro I just feel lost and I just want to feel happy again like I did as a kid if anyone else feels the same please tell me what to do to get better and I don’t ldar all day like I go out with my friends and stuff and have fun but when I get home I just feel pathetic what’s wrong with me?

Find a new hobby, find a purpose that you'd be connected with. Most people get depressed even without suffering due to a lack of meaning in life.

 

[robo09]

Stay in the moment and avoid having high expectations because having a purpose is something you choose. It could be whatever like you could find a passion and enjoy it until the day you die.

Thanks bhai this means a lot

 

[UserE_7.random]

I understand you perfectly bro you really can't escape it once you perceive life like that the only thing is filling the void with activities but until you have some sort of spiritual belief you'll always feel that way because at the end of the day this earthly life alone has no purpose

Agreed and honesty those moments of fun are a good escape. They help me enjoy the moment and I forget all the crazy shit in my life

 

[7pumpkins]

First off no one’s ever really a failure in life, they just failed to reach expectations set by peers. Secondly, I’d say that you make your purpose. Don’t worry about finding it at 16, some people find it at 50. Lastly, I’d say you’re just lonely. Feeling like that without your friends means you probably can’t express some feelings, leading to that isolated feeling

 

[robo09]

Find a new hobby, find a purpose that you'd be connected with. Most people get depressed even without suffering due to a lack of meaning in life.

What hobbies tho I’m worried to try new things because I fear getting judged

 

[robo09]

First off no one’s ever really a failure in life, they just failed to reach expectations set by peers. Secondly, I’d say that you make your purpose. Don’t worry about finding it at 16, some people find it at 50. Lastly, I’d say you’re just lonely. Feeling like that without your friends means you probably can’t express some feelings, leading to that isolated feeling

Idk bro I just feel like I’m always letting my parents down and I just want them to be proud but I feel so pathetic yk.this world just feel so cruel

 

[UserE_7.random]

Thanks bhai this means a lot

Best of luck in your journey, and remember there will be obstacles. I could relate to your thread very much and sometimes I can feel very happy but those dark moments take away the passion of enjoying life. Either way they are learning experiences don’t give up

 

[iamnotaracist]

What hobbies tho I’m worried to try new things because I fear getting judged

You don't need to let others know the things you do. Most of the things i do are only to myself. Try doing new things that you can easily do even though you don't do it often. Like taking long walks, exploring nature, try educating yourself in things you might like, you can start like journaling your thoughts. Anything. If you're having a hard time wondering what to do, go back to a childhood memory where you wanted to do but you just couldn't.

 

[7pumpkins]

Idk bro I just feel like I’m always letting my parents down and I just want them to be proud but I feel so pathetic yk.this world just feel so cruel

Self loathing isn’t gonna make your parents any prouder, go do something that would make them proud

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

Yea bro but I’ve tried to be religious I just don’t understand it bro and I can’t get my self to believe it

it's ok dude you have to see what you feel connected with, regardless don't stress do what you can today because as long as you effectively do what you can everything that you want will come, don't stress about the when. Everybody on this planet has 24 hours everyday regardless of who they are, just make the best use of that time so that you can be happy with yourself. In the initial period you'll still feel that awful sensation inside you but you're just gonna have to tough it out until your brain is rewired enough that you feel good in that flow. Take it easy

 

[robo09]

Self loathing isn’t gonna make your parents any prouder, go do something that would make them proud

Thank you brother

 

[robo09]

it's ok dude you have to see what you feel connected with, regardless don't stress do what you can today because as long as you effectively do what you can everything that you want will come, don't stress about the when. Everybody on this planet has 24 hours everyday regardless of who they are, just make the best use of that time so that you can be happy with yourself. In the initial period you'll still feel that awful sensation inside you but you're just gonna have to tough it out until your brain is rewired enough that you feel good in that flow. Take it easy

Thank you bro this genuinely warmed my heart bro thank you sm bhai

 

[robo09]

You don't need to let others know the things you do. Most of the things i do are only to myself. Try doing new things that you can easily do even though you don't do it often. Like taking long walks, exploring nature, try educating yourself in things you might like, you can start like journaling your thoughts. Anything. If you're having a hard time wondering what to do, go back to a childhood memory where you wanted to do but you just couldn't.

Thank you sm bro I’ll try some new things out

 

[gencell.]

So hey guys idk what it is but I’ve felt lost in life for so long and almost every night I get sad bro like very sad just thinking about my future (I feel like I’m gonna be a failure) and I just over think. I honestly just feel like I don’t have a purpose on this planet not saying I’m gonna rope because I would not want my family and friends to be sad but bro I just feel lost and I just want to feel happy again like I did as a kid if anyone else feels the same please tell me what to do to get better and I don’t ldar all day like I go out with my friends and stuff and have fun but when I get home I just feel pathetic what’s wrong with me?

Had it like this 2-3 years ago, dont know what age you are but could be hormonal. During puberty your body and everything changes a lot more than you have experienced before. This can lead to "depression" imo depression is a stupid word, you state that your friends and family would be sad if you roped therefore you do bring value to the world by being here. Js think about how much worse it could be, some niggas here dont have any friends at all, over time you will learn to apreciate the small things and let it overpower the darkness or wtv. Life will probably never feel as good as it did when we were kids. We had way less to worry bout and looks, status, money didn’t matter as much (status somewhat mattered) but you could easily rank up in the social hierarchy by having cool toys or blinking shoes. Life is much more complex now and that is something you just have to learn to cope with. To conclude, it will get better. That may be a cliche but it really does, dwbi, go to the gym and try to do things that will fulfill you. Its different for everybody, wether it’s money, physique, looks, nature etc.

 

[AmazighMaxxer]

Thank you bro this genuinely warmed my heart bro thank you sm bhai

anytime

 

[robo09]

Had it like this 2-3 years ago, dont know what age you are but could be hormonal. During puberty your body and everything changes a lot more than you have experienced before. This can lead to "depression" imo depression is a stupid word, you state that your friends and family would be sad if you roped therefore you do bring value to the world by being here. Js think about how much worse it could be, some niggas here dont have any friends at all, over time you will learn to apreciate the small things and let it overpower the darkness or wtv. Life will probably never feel as good as it did when we were kids. We had way less to worry bout and looks, status, money didn’t matter as much (status somewhat mattered) but you could easily rank up in the social hierarchy by having cool toys or blinking shoes. Life is much more complex now and that is something you just have to learn to cope with. To conclude, it will get better. That may be a cliche but it really does, dwbi, go to the gym and try to do things that will fulfill you. Its different for everybody, wether it’s money, physique, looks, nature etc.

Thank you sm bro this means a lot