I find social situations so draining

[Amnesia]

Is this because introverts tend to over analyze everything in social situations. When normies/extroverts walk into a party they kinda shut down their higher thinking brain and just start going with the flow, getting into the vibe of the situation. Their actions, mannerisms, conversations seem to come naturally. It's not very energy consuming, it's relaxing for them.

Meanwhile I walk into a party and suddenly my brain goes into overdrive. I'm wondering how I'm looking, the first impressions I'm giving off, who the best looking guy is who the best looking girls are. I'm thinking of a different opening line for each potential person I might talk to, I look to see if there is music and if I might have to dance, start to worry cause dancing is the most un natural activity for me.


Just stuff like that, its so taxing, social situations are fucking stressful to me. Anyone else agree?

 

[Deleted member]

Is this because introverts tend to over analyze everything in social situations. When normies/extroverts walk into a party they kinda shut down their higher thinking brain and just start going with the flow, getting into the vibe of the situation. Their actions, mannerisms, conversations seem to come naturally. It's not very energy consuming, it's relaxing for them.

Meanwhile I walk into a party and suddenly my brain goes into overdrive. I'm wondering how I'm looking, the first impressions I'm giving off, who the best looking guy is who the best looking girls are. I'm thinking of a different opening line for each potential person I might talk to, I look to see if there is music and if I might have to dance, start to worry cause dancing is the most un natural activity for me.


Just stuff like that, its so taxing, social situations are fucking stressful to me. Anyone else agree?

meanwhile I've never been to a party

 

[Deleted member 5786]

they are not real. we live in a simulation
@subhuman incel

 

[Deleted member 11414]

dawg u just described every interaction i've ever had

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Anyone else agree?

Nope. Nobody here will agree with you on this one.

 

[subhuman incel]

cant help you @Amnesia cause i never was invited to parties or interacted with any human being except my mom

 

[sorrowfulsad]

I tried to shut this side of me off but can only do it with drugs
but then I regret most of the night the day after when Im sober and am just cringing at myself
just ldar

 

[one job away]

Is this because introverts tend to over analyze everything in social situations. When normies/extroverts walk into a party they kinda shut down their higher thinking brain and just start going with the flow, getting into the vibe of the situation. Their actions, mannerisms, conversations seem to come naturally. It's not very energy consuming, it's relaxing for them.

Meanwhile I walk into a party and suddenly my brain goes into overdrive. I'm wondering how I'm looking, the first impressions I'm giving off, who the best looking guy is who the best looking girls are. I'm thinking of a different opening line for each potential person I might talk to, I look to see if there is music and if I might have to dance, start to worry cause dancing is the most un natural activity for me.


Just stuff like that, its so taxing, social situations are fucking stressful to me. Anyone else agree?

You are just much too smart for everyone and see the world how it truly is. You can’t stand the low minds around you since you are much better than them. You are probably thinking about the depth of our existence and much more meaningful questions meanwhile they talk about reality tv shows. Not everyone is like you you are special.


sike. You are just aspie af and don’t fit In Social Situations. Shit Thread how often do you need confirmation on that?

 

[Deleted member 14867]

Anyone else agree?

I agree

 

[Deleted member 11604]

aparenly alcohol is quite effective to be neurotypical.
I do think that most people are like that
but the fact hat they have friends wih them reduce their inhibition, and the alcohol/drug make them get at ease peacefully+ it's a place they probably already know+ they have already been at a lot of parties before. which all combine make them seem like they have no problems with the situation.
Never been in a party tho, too high inhib I always refused each time someone asked me to come in. But If I go one time I will definitely be high or drunk.

 

[n0rthface]

I think most people feel this why, that’s why they drink and do drugs.

 

[Deleted member 14077]

Is this because introverts tend to over analyze everything in social situations. When normies/extroverts walk into a party they kinda shut down their higher thinking brain and just start going with the flow, getting into the vibe of the situation. Their actions, mannerisms, conversations seem to come naturally. It's not very energy consuming, it's relaxing for them.

Meanwhile I walk into a party and suddenly my brain goes into overdrive. I'm wondering how I'm looking, the first impressions I'm giving off, who the best looking guy is who the best looking girls are. I'm thinking of a different opening line for each potential person I might talk to, I look to see if there is music and if I might have to dance, start to worry cause dancing is the most un natural activity for me.


Just stuff like that, its so taxing, social situations are fucking stressful to me. Anyone else agree?

drain gang

 

[one job away]

aparenly alcohol is quite effective to be neurotypical.
I do think that most people are like that
but the fact hat they have friends wih them reduce their inhibition, and the alcohol/drug make them get at ease peacefully+ it's a place they probably already know+ they have already been at a lot of parties before. which all combine make them seem like they have no problems with the situation.
Never been in a party tho, too high inhib I always refused each time someone asked me to come in. But If I go one time I will definitely be high or drunk.

How can you look like you and Never been to a party???? You looked like that nigger who steals everyone’s girl at a party. You could tell a girl to fck off and she would understand „blow me“ and get right at it. Tf you mean Never been to a party ?

 

[Hozay]

Walking into a random party with people you dont know is definitely annoying for me, but If I get settled in, like everyone seems pretty cool or if I know everyone already I'm pretty chill and relaxed. I'm not a huge talker but I'm not a complete statue I'm just in in between. No one likes someone who just talks wayyy to much or is just completely anti social. I fixed my whole overthinking anxiety shit (what you have) a while ago. Used to be bad when I was rotting playing videogames for a long time. Obviously I still care what people think about me to an extent but not enough to hold me back on what I want to do.

 

[Deleted member 11604]

How can you look like you and Never been to a party???? You looked like that nigger who steals everyone’s girl at a party. You could tell a girl to fck off and she would understand „blow me“ and get right at it. Tf you mean Never been to a party ?

I'm not NT in situation like this. and I don't like parties, the simple idea of it make me puke. I've been to one when I was in highschool but I stayed 1 hour and it was pretty much like this

and I get back to my home..

Some friends IRL invited me to go with them but I declined every single time after that. But I will probably consider going to one this year alcohol is a good inhibitor aprently.

 

[Hozay]

Also I cant be one of those people that want to hang out like every single day, I need my alone time too and it can drain me, Like my social circle right, we used to have these two fags (a guy and a girl) they're together. who literally wanted to hang out like all the time and they used to get mad at my friend (before I met them) because he couldn't hangout due to the fact that he was busy, summer was ending and knowing him hes the same as me, doesn't want to be hanging out and socializing all the fucking time which is why him and his twin brother are really good friends of mine irl, good thing those annoying cunts are out of the friend group because the girl ended up being a whore and starting drama.

 

[one job away]

I'm not NT in situation like this. and I don't like parties, the simple idea of it make me puke. I've been to one when I was in highschool but I stayed 1 hour and it was pretty much like thisView attachment 1309613 and I get back to my home..

Some friends IRL invited me to go with them but I declined every single time after that. But I will probably consider going to one this year alcohol is a good inhibitor aprently.

I was like that as well ngl. Then I took mdma in a club. Totally changed me

 

[Tony]

 

[BigBiceps]

That's because you don't drink enough. I'm introverted normally, too, but I turn into extrovert while drunk. It's so fun.

 

[Deleted member 275]

I am chilled and extroverted with friends. But at parties with strangers i feel judged and like people dont like me and become more quiet. Which is honestly just true and reality. People dont like interacting with strangers and mostly stick to their friends and social circles they came with.

Ive always learned in my life that you have friends and enemies. Strangers mostly ignore me or treat me poorly. Especially the case with women. So they are potential enemies, not friends.

 

[Mongrelcel]

I just don't understand how extroverts can keep coming up with conversation topic so effortlessly

 

[Carolus]

Yeah my brain also goes in to overdrive. But it also depends on how confident I'm feeling. If I'm tip top mcgoo feeling good I don't give a shit, I just go with the flow and feel the moment

 

[TITUS]

The theory is extroverts have nothing going on inside their head so they need constant stimulus.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

There's no such thing as an introvert.

It's because you'd rather do what's "right" and "fit in" rather than actually have fun, which is the purpose and aim of social situations.

 

[Deleted member 13137]

This nigga in DIRE need of pregame drinks