
Lux
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Take a look at all of these couples:
What do you notice? Probably something like: "they all dress the same", or "They got the same vibe".
And that's basically it but not quite.
The single most important factor when it comes to having a relationship is similarity. And that goes for all things: looksmatch, money, personality, status, lifestyle, interests, aesthetic, etc.
The similarity in a couple clarifies so many arguments I've seen take place these forums about how "Lil Xan/ Wayne is ugly & still slays" or how "girls aren't attracted to Zac Efron when they learn they taller than him irl". Xan & Wayne are similar to the girls they fuck & the tall foids don't like Zac cause their heights (taking into account sex difference) is disproportional. This is basic stuff and yet people get caught up in the importance of a single trait (whether it be a jawline, or status, or height).
This explains why dating sucks for the bottom percentiles of men & women. Ugly, poor, awkward, hobbyless, boring people aren't happy with their female/ male equivalents and this plays out in a shit ton of awful ways. This ends up with the low tier women being cum-dumpsters & low tier men being womanless.
Anyway, I think this is an improvement on what we had before. That being face theory & LMS which don't really work in regards to certain things like age, personality, education, and so on. Seriously, some people wouldn't mesh even if they were ideal LMS matches. Someone like Emma Watson would be outright scared of someone like Offset (or any LMS matching rapper).
Anyway, this seemed like obvious stuff & now there's finally a thread for it
(Also, this doesn't strictly apply to hookup culture)
What do you notice? Probably something like: "they all dress the same", or "They got the same vibe".
And that's basically it but not quite.
The single most important factor when it comes to having a relationship is similarity. And that goes for all things: looksmatch, money, personality, status, lifestyle, interests, aesthetic, etc.
The similarity in a couple clarifies so many arguments I've seen take place these forums about how "Lil Xan/ Wayne is ugly & still slays" or how "girls aren't attracted to Zac Efron when they learn they taller than him irl". Xan & Wayne are similar to the girls they fuck & the tall foids don't like Zac cause their heights (taking into account sex difference) is disproportional. This is basic stuff and yet people get caught up in the importance of a single trait (whether it be a jawline, or status, or height).
This explains why dating sucks for the bottom percentiles of men & women. Ugly, poor, awkward, hobbyless, boring people aren't happy with their female/ male equivalents and this plays out in a shit ton of awful ways. This ends up with the low tier women being cum-dumpsters & low tier men being womanless.
Anyway, I think this is an improvement on what we had before. That being face theory & LMS which don't really work in regards to certain things like age, personality, education, and so on. Seriously, some people wouldn't mesh even if they were ideal LMS matches. Someone like Emma Watson would be outright scared of someone like Offset (or any LMS matching rapper).
Anyway, this seemed like obvious stuff & now there's finally a thread for it
(Also, this doesn't strictly apply to hookup culture)