𝗜 𝗚𝗘𝗡𝗨𝗜𝗡𝗘𝗟𝗬 𝗡𝗘𝗘𝗗 𝗛𝗘𝗟𝗣

[peter pan]

(If you’re too lazy to read, just read the bolded parts for a short version.)
I’m 16 and I’m wondering where to meet people and find a community, nice people to spend time with. I only have one friend who’s really close to me, like a brother, and I’m basically his only friend too.

I was thinking maybe starting a sport like hockey because I think it would be fun. I want to meet friends, girls, and just people in general, real human connection.

I don’t know if I should cold approach people. I mean, I could, but I don’t really believe in it. Isn’t it kind of weird? Even if a really good looking girl approached me, I’d feel flattered and might give her my number, but I’d still feel a bit weird about it.

That’s why I think it’s better when you meet people naturally, like at sports, music lessons, school, acting classes, English lessons, etc. You don’t know each other at first, but little by little you talk, become friends, and see where things go.

I’m not just looking for girls, I just want to meet more people in general. I think it would make life more fun and enjoyable. I feel okay right now, not depressed or anything. School is fine, I guess. I talk with like 3 or 4 girls there, but we’re not really friends, and I’m sure we wouldn’t hang out.

I’ve been thinking about maybe switching schools, starting hockey, or trying cold approaches, but I don’t know. Please help if you have any suggestions.

 

[peter pan]

bump

 

[sherry12]

Go to a party, get super drunk and become friends with everyone

 

[peter pan]

Go to a party, get super drunk and become friends with everyone

What party, bro? I don’t have any friends who can invite me to a party. Are there public parties where random people can come? Where can I find those? I live in the EU, in the Balkans.

 

[mogfoids]

(If you’re too lazy to read, just read the bolded parts for a short version.)
I’m 16 and I’m wondering where to meet people and find a community, nice people to spend time with. I only have one friend who’s really close to me, like a brother, and I’m basically his only friend too.

I was thinking maybe starting a sport like hockey because I think it would be fun. I want to meet friends, girls, and just people in general, real human connection.

I don’t know if I should cold approach people. I mean, I could, but I don’t really believe in it. Isn’t it kind of weird? Even if a really good looking girl approached me, I’d feel flattered and might give her my number, but I’d still feel a bit weird about it.

That’s why I think it’s better when you meet people naturally, like at sports, music lessons, school, acting classes, English lessons, etc. You don’t know each other at first, but little by little you talk, become friends, and see where things go.

I’m not just looking for girls, I just want to meet more people in general. I think it would make life more fun and enjoyable. I feel okay right now, not depressed or anything. School is fine, I guess. I talk with like 3 or 4 girls there, but we’re not really friends, and I’m sure we wouldn’t hang out.

I’ve been thinking about maybe switching schools, starting hockey, or trying cold approaches, but I don’t know. Please help if you have any suggestions.

start a sport

 

[aaronbp]

sports help a lot or going to places where a lot of people r. but for me probably school and friends got me friends.
like meeting up with a friend and they ask if some people can come too etc

 

[ibIameweight]

I live in the EU, in the Balkans.

Where in the balkans?

I need new friends too.

 

[incident]

(If you’re too lazy to read, just read the bolded parts for a short version.)
I’m 16 and I’m wondering where to meet people and find a community, nice people to spend time with. I only have one friend who’s really close to me, like a brother, and I’m basically his only friend too.

I was thinking maybe starting a sport like hockey because I think it would be fun. I want to meet friends, girls, and just people in general, real human connection.

I don’t know if I should cold approach people. I mean, I could, but I don’t really believe in it. Isn’t it kind of weird? Even if a really good looking girl approached me, I’d feel flattered and might give her my number, but I’d still feel a bit weird about it.

That’s why I think it’s better when you meet people naturally, like at sports, music lessons, school, acting classes, English lessons, etc. You don’t know each other at first, but little by little you talk, become friends, and see where things go.

I’m not just looking for girls, I just want to meet more people in general. I think it would make life more fun and enjoyable. I feel okay right now, not depressed or anything. School is fine, I guess. I talk with like 3 or 4 girls there, but we’re not really friends, and I’m sure we wouldn’t hang out.

I’ve been thinking about maybe switching schools, starting hockey, or trying cold approaches, but I don’t know. Please help if you have any suggestions.

learn to be social and talk to a lot of people. you will gain more social intelligence all the time and conversations will get better. talk about something you find fun or so, the conversation will get a lot easier. also it doesnt matter if there are a lot of quiet times, i talk a lot to people and i like when people shut up so i can hear my own thoughts.

start sports, get to know people there. ask them to hangout, in the beginning you should try to be social with your new friends but dont act desperate. eventually you will meet more and more people, get invited to more events, and you're now in a cycle of new relations presenting everywhere.

just be social

 

[peter pan]

Where in the balkans?

I need new friends too.

bulgaria

 

[peter pan]

sports help a lot or going to places where a lot of people r. but for me probably school and friends got me friends.
like meeting up with a friend and they ask if some people can come too etc

Yeah honestly, I was thinking the same. I think I’ll switch schools, start hockey, archery, and Lindy Hop basically hobbies and social maxx as much as possible, and I think something should come out of it

 

[peter pan]

learn to be social and talk to a lot of people. you will gain more social intelligence all the time and conversations will get better. talk about something you find fun or so, the conversation will get a lot easier. also it doesnt matter if there are a lot of quiet times, i talk a lot to people and i like when people shut up so i can hear my own thoughts.

start sports, get to know people there. ask them to hangout, in the beginning you should try to be social with your new friends but dont act desperate. eventually you will meet more and more people, get invited to more events, and you're now in a cycle of new relations presenting everywhere.

just be social

Yeah thanks, I think I’ll hobbymax hard. The problem is I’m kinda ND and I don’t find random activities and sports that interesting. Also, I don’t like having small talk, I like the exact opposite, but I guess you have to go through small talk to get to know another person. To be honest, I don’t think my social skills are necessarily bad, I just need to have an environment to even try to be social.

 

[incident]

Yeah thanks, I think I’ll hobbymax hard. The problem is I’m kinda ND and I don’t find random activities and sports that interesting. Also, I don’t like having small talk, I like the exact opposite, but I guess you have to go through small talk to get to know another person. To be honest, I don’t think my social skills are necessarily bad, I just need to have an environment to even try to be social.

i also find small talk boring, i usually get right to the point. if the person seems like a smart and fun individual, i might ask for some unnecessary details about them. also get out of your comfort zone, have small talks if thats what you dont want to. always pushing your barriers will make you get a lot better

 

[yushmaxx]

What party, bro? I don’t have any friends who can invite me to a party. Are there public parties where random people can come? Where can I find those? I live in the EU, in the Balkans.

i see parties posted online where i live, mainly on instagram.

 

[_Zygomatic_]

get into boxing, this will proactively increase your confidence and status- leading to more friends and girls

 

[sherry12]

What party, bro? I don’t have any friends who can invite me to a party. Are there public parties where random people can come? Where can I find those? I live in the EU, in the Balkans.

Lowkey this is kinda risky just wait until there’s some massive house party/ concert and go make friends, rep me

 

[peter pan]

Lowkey this is kinda risky just wait until there’s some massive house party/ concert and go make friends, rep me

idk how to rep

 

[IronMike]

(If you’re too lazy to read, just read the bolded parts for a short version.)
I’m 16 and I’m wondering where to meet people and find a community, nice people to spend time with. I only have one friend who’s really close to me, like a brother, and I’m basically his only friend too.

I was thinking maybe starting a sport like hockey because I think it would be fun. I want to meet friends, girls, and just people in general, real human connection.

I don’t know if I should cold approach people. I mean, I could, but I don’t really believe in it. Isn’t it kind of weird? Even if a really good looking girl approached me, I’d feel flattered and might give her my number, but I’d still feel a bit weird about it.

That’s why I think it’s better when you meet people naturally, like at sports, music lessons, school, acting classes, English lessons, etc. You don’t know each other at first, but little by little you talk, become friends, and see where things go.

I’m not just looking for girls, I just want to meet more people in general. I think it would make life more fun and enjoyable. I feel okay right now, not depressed or anything. School is fine, I guess. I talk with like 3 or 4 girls there, but we’re not really friends, and I’m sure we wouldn’t hang out.

I’ve been thinking about maybe switching schools, starting hockey, or trying cold approaches, but I don’t know. Please help if you have any suggestions.

Why don't you join a school club?????

 

[peter pan]

Why don't you join a school club?????

I’m not in America bro school clubs in my country are for retards nobody goes to them

 

[IronMike]

I’m not in America bro school clubs in my country are for retards nobody goes to them

Oh, then I don't know what to say bruh