I get literal 0 IOIs in college

[Deleted member 16275]

@BombayVikings what do u think

T-t-t-t-thats j-j-just the muh sub HTN liiiiife broooo

 

[Deleted member 21863]

There's this saying where we judge ourselves by our intentions and judge others by their actions.

Now imagine this, you were talking to someone on WhatsApp and the next day they just don't even look at you in class. They ignore you and go past you.

That's what happened with you. You " ignored" them (of course not on purpose) because of social anxiety, awkwardness whatever.

They are not thinking "oh he's just an awkward fella"; they are thinking "why the fuck did this guy just walk past us without saying hi?"

That's why they are not responding to you, because you've shown them by accident you are not interested in them.

the only savvy response so far

I considered this possibility

I was thinking about this that this is also that could have happened instead of what i was thinking

u always tend to assume the solipsistic pov without realising what could be going on in the other person's head

I will see how it goes the next time we interact for working on the project

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Fear of rejection from isolated past. To be honest if they aren’t reaching out to him just because he didn’t say hi to them I doubt they were very interested in being his friend in the first place. I hope I’m wrong about that though because it’s the same logic that’s fucking me.

 

[Allornothing]

There's this saying where we judge ourselves by our intentions and judge others by their actions.

Now imagine this, you were talking to someone on WhatsApp and the next day they just don't even look at you in class. They ignore you and go past you.

That's what happened with you. You " ignored" them (of course not on purpose) because of social anxiety, awkwardness whatever.

They are not thinking "oh he's just an awkward fella"; they are thinking "why the fuck did this guy just walk past us without saying hi?"

That's why they are not responding to you, because you've shown them by accident you are not interested in them.

Yes but why didn’t they say hi to him first? Then the same logic could be applied.

 

[Deleted member 25059]

The irony is he calls other people pathetic for taking screenshots of post history

i didnt and this one is a few days old. not like you fagot trying to spamming 3 years old posts from other people, low iq dishwasher

 

[Deleted member 14693]

cuck tendencies and praising every fag who mog you. you know what's going on. don't play stupid

I was just joking

 

[Deleted member 25059]

I was just joking

sure you did. youre a comedian just like that dishwasher

 

[Geoff2024]

Fear of rejection from isolated past. To be honest if they aren’t reaching out to him just because he didn’t say hi to them I doubt they were very interested in being his friend in the first place. I hope I’m wrong about that though because it’s the same logic that’s fucking me.

Bro I am in the west in denmark, in a country that is basically nightmare mode looks wise and I still socialize and make friends, I am the bare minimum level of nt. Also to get approached by people you must be in the right place not in the corner isolated from everybody, did I make sense?

 

[Rich/Jewish_Gooner$]

same, i sit in the front row all alone cause i cant focus otherwise because of adhd, i'm ugly tho + it doesnt even bother me

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Bro I am in the west in denmark, in a country that is basically nightmare mode looks wise and I still socialize and make friends, I am the bare minimum level of nt. Also to get approached by people you must be in the right place not in the corner isolated from everybody, did I make sense?

ya this is also possible

Maybe it's cus I always show up to class 5 mins late no one speaks to the habitual latecomer guy and look in a hurry to leave and then feel shit later

last time I came on time I did get spoken to
when I was in a shared vehicle I got spoken to buy the foid next to me she was quite receptive, in fact the next time she left the other car just to come and sit next to me

this happened last to last semester

 

[Allornothing]

Bro I am in the west in denmark, in a country that is basically nightmare mode looks wise and I still socialize and make friends, I am the bare minimum level of nt. Also to get approached by people you must be in the right place not in the corner isolated from everybody, did I make sense?

But why didn’t they say hi to him first for example?

 

[Deleted member 21863]

But why didn’t they say hi to him first for example?

the first time when I autistically went away without saying hi

I rectified that by later going leaning over that desk and said something relevant to the project and they said yeah that's fine sure no prob

AFTER this when I did the project thing and got a thank you it is reasonable for me to expect a hi right? But no I didn't get it

 

[normie_joe]

the only savvy response so far

I considered this possibility

I was thinking about this that this is also that could have happened instead of what i was thinking

u always tend to assume the solipsistic pov without realising what could be going on in the other person's head

I will see how it goes the next time we interact for working on the project

See how you are thinking they were ignoring you, but what if they were just acting autistic like you were?

You are not thinking "oh I guess they must be shy, awkward, anxious", you are thinking why the fuck were they so rude?

It's one of the worst things about social anxiety; people think you are rude when that's not remotely the case.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

cuck tendencies and praising every fag who mog you.

ironic

 

[Deleted member 21863]

See how you are thinking they were ignoring you, but what if they were just acting autistic like you were?

You are not thinking "oh I guess they must be shy, awkward, anxious", you are thinking why the fuck were they so rude?

It's one of the worst things about social anxiety; people think you are rude when that's not remotely the case.

the first time when I autistically went away without saying hi

I rectified that by later going leaning over that desk and said something relevant to the project and they said yeah that's fine sure no prob

AFTER this when I did the project thing and got a thank you it is reasonable for me to expect a hi right? But no I didn't get it

What do you think about what happened later?

 

[Geoff2024]

ya this is also possible

Maybe it's cus I always show up to class 5 mins late no one speaks to the habitual latecomer guy and look in a hurry to leave and then feel shit later

last time I came on time I did get spoken to
when I was in a shared vehicle I got spoken to buy the foid next to me she was quite receptive, in fact the next time she left the other car just to come and sit next to me

this happened last to last semester

Sucks to be mentalcel bro I am sorry

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Sucks to be mentalcel bro I am sorry

shut the fuck up and help me analyze this

 

[Deleted member 25059]

ironic
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blud digging up dusty posts without context to prove something lol I dont see that I humilate myself anywhere in that post or something

lol at your iq

 

[Deleted member 14693]

blud digging up dusty posts

Always interesting to observe how you acted before becoming a bitter oldcel.

 

[Allornothing]

the first time when I autistically went away without saying hi

I rectified that by later going leaning over that desk and said something relevant to the project and they said yeah that's fine sure no prob

AFTER this when I did the project thing and got a thank you it is reasonable for me to expect a hi right? But no I didn't get it

Maybe they just think you are all work and no play. Like I said in my earlier post, until we ascend to Chad we just need to smile and make them feel good and comfortable around us to be friends. Right now they probably think you only care about the project rather than being friends so, like you, to avoid rejection they just ignore you and only think about work with you rather than friendship.

Reminder everyone has social anxiety. Also first impressions last so all your actions from this point must be more drastic. You must pretend to be an NT king for a day to get the ball rolling and pass off the previous encounters as bad days or something. Would be cool if you tried it out and shared the results.

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Maybe they just think you are all work and no play. Like I said in my earlier post, until we ascend to Chad we just need to smile and make them feel good and comfortable around us to be friends. Right now they probably think you only care about the project rather than being friends so, like you, to avoid rejection they just ignore you and only think about work with you rather than friendship.

Reminder everyone has social anxiety. Also first impressions last so all your actions from this point must be more drastic. You must pretend to be an NT king for a day to get the ball rolling and pass off the previous encounters as bad days or something. Would be cool if you tried it out and shared the results.

good take

will defo try it and report back

 

[Deleted member 23115]

ironic
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He used to spam browridge doesn’t matter and he is slav and ugly so he needs to use a white identity to cope with his ugly features, hence why he’s calling a slav-balkan with white colouring white. He has a soft spot for Slavs due to his ancestry that’s why he turned into a cuck for moggergaston. Another biased .org user with cognitive dissonance.

 

[Allornothing]

good take

will defo try it and report back

Tag me if you do

 

[AspiringMogger]

Nobody fucking talks to me

It doesn’t seem like you talk to anybody irl either

 

[Deleted member 21863]

It doesn’t seem like you talk to anybody irl either

seems like this based on what

 

[normie_joe]

What do you think about what happened later?

What I said was an assumption. It could've absolutely not been the case. The only definite way is to travel back in time and read their mind.

Maybe they are socially awkward and don't know how to greet people. Maybe they do indeed dislike you.

We could sit here and throw assumptions on a board, but ultimately neither you or me or anyone would truly know.

What you can do is next time is to say hi yourself. If they don't seem receptive, move on.

 

[nevermind2]

It's over I talk to noone either

 

[Deleted member 20399]

i didnt and this one is a few days old. not like you fagot trying to spamming 3 years old posts from other people, low iq dishwasher

Sorry mate I keep confusing you with thin white dyke

 

[AspiringMogger]

but when I came to class well I autistically walked past without saying hi or anything, then the next 3 times I came across them I got zero interaction, not even a nod or a fucking hi when I'm sitting right across

based on this

 

[Geoff2024]

shut the fuck up and help me analyze this

I gave the best anal? Wouldn't you say so?

 

[NotoriousLoser]

Just take a shower bro theory

 

[hopecel]

Let alone IOIs, no one even fucking talks to me. Not even guys.

I swear to god no one has spoken to me the entire fucking semester unless I initiate and even then meh.

I joined a group with 2 foids for project exhibition, well I was late to join the group so I just asked over WhatsApp when I never even met them or knew them before.
anyway it went well, I did the thing and I got a
"It's nice, thanku (my name)) over WhatsApp but when I came to class well I autistically walked past without saying hi or anything, then the next 3 times I came across them I got zero interaction, not even a nod or a fucking hi when I'm sitting right across

even the fugliest of guys get more action than or atleast part of a group

I walk past the corridors alone
I sit alone
I come alone
and I go alone

If I got some level of engagement or interest I could run with it but with zero?

Nobody fucking talks to me

Why the fuck???? I don't get it

And more importantly, how do I fix it and how much time will it take. I will just form my own group to not make my experience in this campus extremely miserable

approaching other dudes for socialcirclemaxxing is cope

I approached few autist loners at the start and guess what? they acted uninterested and bored so I never talked to them again

not to mention approacing girls, if you don't know how to speak with them better don't even approach

 

[Deleted member 21700]

Pisspot speaks the truth

 

[vinn98]

Also your face probably lacks trustworthiness and charisma which is separate from looks rating, so other guys don't perceive you as friendly and don't try to make friends. I have the same problem.

 

[halfbloodaryanmaxxe]

'nobody talk to me'
female trait quote

talk to them if sub chad

 

[Deleted member 21863]

'nobody talk to me'
female trait quote

talk to them if sub chad

yh i made this rant while I was very cortisol spiked

Its hard to think straight and ignore the obvious

 

[aesthetic beauty]

Let alone IOIs, no one even fucking talks to me. Not even guys.

I swear to god no one has spoken to me the entire fucking semester unless I initiate and even then meh.

I joined a group with 2 foids for project exhibition, well I was late to join the group so I just asked over WhatsApp when I never even met them or knew them before.
anyway it went well, I did the thing and I got a
"It's nice, thanku (my name)) over WhatsApp but when I came to class well I autistically walked past without saying hi or anything, then the next 3 times I came across them I got zero interaction, not even a nod or a fucking hi when I'm sitting right across

even the fugliest of guys get more action than or atleast part of a group

I walk past the corridors alone
I sit alone
I come alone
and I go alone

If I got some level of engagement or interest I could run with it but with zero?

Nobody fucking talks to me

Why the fuck???? I don't get it

And more importantly, how do I fix it and how much time will it take. I will just form my own group to not make my experience in this campus extremely miserable

What are your interests?

 

[Zonar]

What's even more interesting to me is how these other guys are able to have such an active social life and are able to get so much attention from foids? What do they do different tbh?

Ikr. I see so many ugly faggots with mtb-htb and I mog them too. They also freinds with everybody. I don't understand it either. Over for me

 

[Zonar]

See how you are thinking they were ignoring you, but what if they were just acting autistic like you were?

You are not thinking "oh I guess they must be shy, awkward, anxious", you are thinking why the fuck were they so rude?

It's one of the worst things about social anxiety; people think you are rude when that's not remotely the case.

This has been really insightful. Thanks bro

 

[Banasura]

Some people are just made into targeted individuals in college and not allowed to have sex, and if u try to or make the mistake of not knowing ur incel status u will get falsely accused of rape or publicly shamed, knew a guy who was publicly shamed when I went to utd cause he wanted to fuck and the mid bitches decided to make a big group chat and start a massive campaign against him painting him out to be a creep, that’s just how these college foids are, they may even try and bait u to having the absolute worst sexual expirience on the face of the earth where u won’t get to insert with garbage head to try and test ur sex drive if wanting to insert so they can send u to the jails, very insidious.

 

[Infernal]

Let alone IOIs, no one even fucking talks to me. Not even guys.

I swear to god no one has spoken to me the entire fucking semester unless I initiate and even then meh.

I joined a group with 2 foids for project exhibition, well I was late to join the group so I just asked over WhatsApp when I never even met them or knew them before.
anyway it went well, I did the thing and I got a
"It's nice, thanku (my name)) over WhatsApp but when I came to class well I autistically walked past without saying hi or anything, then the next 3 times I came across them I got zero interaction, not even a nod or a fucking hi when I'm sitting right across

even the fugliest of guys get more action than or atleast part of a group

I walk past the corridors alone
I sit alone
I come alone
and I go alone

If I got some level of engagement or interest I could run with it but with zero?

Nobody fucking talks to me

Why the fuck???? I don't get it

And more importantly, how do I fix it and how much time will it take. I will just form my own group to not make my experience in this campus extremely miserable

I am in similiar position as you, but I went through it in high school already, as for not recieving IOI's yeah it takes time, they wont be swooning over you instantly even if you are gl, about friends look, people are socially retarded nowadays and too uncomfortable, I saw many guys around me these days that were alone and looking around hoping that they as always wont have to do anything, and it will just happen, that is wishful thinking and not really practical, instead of it just rotate around sit wherever different part every class, relax, you have time and if u see someone u are willing to talk to just do it, no need for some big great talk, I had none myself, just be the first to introduce yourself and thats it, ask them where they are from and comment on class a little, and just keep doing it because as I did already I talked to many people that are actually imbeciles and it doesnt matter, just keep going, there are actually cool people u just have to create yourself some opportunyties to actually meet them, not sit half assed and wait for thing to happen to you, because it probably wont, and believe me if you talk to someone and it happens u dont hit off, u really wont care in span of 30 minutes, just keep going, if you are as good looking as you think you are with girls if they arent in your close proximity you dont have to instantly go out of your way to meet them, just exchange eye contacts for start and see where u stand, that way u might actually fasten up the proces of girl actually finding you attractive other than sitting idly 10 rows behind and expecting her to actually notice you, even if she would find you attractive, so just look with full attention around you and see for yourself, again better to change seats around if possible so girls can actually see you better when u are right behind them, and dont think about well they probably would start their own conversation if they were interested, understand that u are in position to think in probalities but to actually just do, so go around, when u are about to sit expand ur hand and meet people around you, as much as I write this to you as much I write it as a reminder and experience of mine, and I am in a much better position than I was before socially, sometimes good things will happen to you just because, and it feels nice, but many times it wont and if u are gona sit still waving ur head around wondering why, things arent bound to change anytime soon, now if u find this low inhib, what I find practical is cutting satiation in ur life completely for myself weed and fap did a big change, you wont have initiative to do shit if you satisfy yourself with whatever regularly, good luck things can change

 

[Kamui]

I literally mog 90% of these faggots that have better social lives than me I'm not even deluding myself this time

I swear to god they are ugly as fuck, it is not looks

I saw a skinny ass 5'5 manlet with forward neck holding hands and resting his head on the desk next to his mtn girlfriend

You are ugly lol

 

[Deleted member 21863]

You are ugly lol

Nvm
an update
i just found out both the foids are autistic as hell and also very stupid after a full day of interacting with them, it took them 3 hours to make a presentation I finished in 5 minutes
I was spiking my cortisol for nothing

one of the foids literally sucks at using fucking PowerPoint

I saw her struggling to use the keyboard and typed like this was her first time using a laptop

also I got cold approached by a foid (way better looks level) who was acc interested today
So

 

[Deleted member 21863]

Nvm
an update
i just found out both the foids are autistic as hell and also very stupid after a full day of interacting with them, it took them 3 hours to make a presentation I finished in 5 minutes
I was spiking my cortisol for nothing

one of the foids literally sucks at using fucking PowerPoint

I saw her struggling to use the keyboard and typed like this was her first time using a laptop

also I got cold approached by a foid (way better looks level) who was acc interested today
So
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I am in similiar position as you, but I went through it in high school already, as for not recieving IOI's yeah it takes time, they wont be swooning over you instantly even if you are gl, about friends look, people are socially retarded nowadays and too uncomfortable, I saw many guys around me these days that were alone and looking around hoping that they as always wont have to do anything, and it will just happen, that is wishful thinking and not really practical, instead of it just rotate around sit wherever different part every class, relax, you have time and if u see someone u are willing to talk to just do it, no need for some big great talk, I had none myself, just be the first to introduce yourself and thats it, ask them where they are from and comment on class a little, and just keep doing it because as I did already I talked to many people that are actually imbeciles and it doesnt matter, just keep going, there are actually cool people u just have to create yourself some opportunyties to actually meet them, not sit half assed and wait for thing to happen to you, because it probably wont, and believe me if you talk to someone and it happens u dont hit off, u really wont care in span of 30 minutes, just keep going, if you are as good looking as you think you are with girls if they arent in your close proximity you dont have to instantly go out of your way to meet them, just exchange eye contacts for start and see where u stand, that way u might actually fasten up the proces of girl actually finding you attractive other than sitting idly 10 rows behind and expecting her to actually notice you, even if she would find you attractive, so just look with full attention around you and see for yourself, again better to change seats around if possible so girls can actually see you better when u are right behind them, and dont think about well they probably would start their own conversation if they were interested, understand that u are in position to think in probalities but to actually just do, so go around, when u are about to sit expand ur hand and meet people around you, as much as I write this to you as much I write it as a reminder and experience of mine, and I am in a much better position than I was before socially, sometimes good things will happen to you just because, and it feels nice, but many times it wont and if u are gona sit still waving ur head around wondering why, things arent bound to change anytime soon, now if u find this low inhib, what I find practical is cutting satiation in ur life completely for myself weed and fap did a big change, you wont have initiative to do shit if you satisfy yourself with whatever regularly, good luck things can change

What are your interests?

'nobody talk to me'
female trait quote

talk to them if sub chad

It doesn’t seem like you talk to anybody irl either

blud digging up dusty posts without context to prove something lol I dont see that I humilate myself anywhere in that post or something

lol at your iq

T-t-t-t-thats j-j-just the muh sub HTN liiiiife broooo

Nvm
an update
i just found out both the foids are autistic as hell and also very stupid after a full day of interacting with them, it took them 3 hours to make a presentation I finished in 5 minutes
I was spiking my cortisol for nothing

one of the foids literally sucks at using fucking PowerPoint

I saw her struggling to use the keyboard and typed like this was her first time using a laptop

also I got cold approached by a foid (way better looks level) who was acc interested today
So
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@Allornothing @normie_joe @Preston

 

[StuntmanMike]

Also your face probably lacks trustworthiness and charisma which is separate from looks rating, so other guys don't perceive you as friendly and don't try to make friends. I have the same problem.

This.

Op you are indeed not chad and probably you don't look friendly.

 

[Allornothing]

also I got cold approached

Mogs me. Happy for you though.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

It's the opposite

Subhumans seem to be socializing way easier here everyone talks to them

They are less threatening and don’t cause anxiety in people

 

[FutureChadronelite]

i was about to say just try bonesmashing , but idk how to help you

 

[currymaxxing1488]

Let alone IOIs, no one even fucking talks to me. Not even guys.

I swear to god no one has spoken to me the entire fucking semester unless I initiate and even then meh.

I joined a group with 2 foids for project exhibition, well I was late to join the group so I just asked over WhatsApp when I never even met them or knew them before.
anyway it went well, I did the thing and I got a
"It's nice, thanku (my name)) over WhatsApp but when I came to class well I autistically walked past without saying hi or anything, then the next 3 times I came across them I got zero interaction, not even a nod or a fucking hi when I'm sitting right across

even the fugliest of guys get more action than or atleast part of a group

I walk past the corridors alone
I sit alone
I come alone
and I go alone

If I got some level of engagement or interest I could run with it but with zero?

Nobody fucking talks to me

Why the fuck???? I don't get it

And more importantly, how do I fix it and how much time will it take. I will just form my own group to not make my experience in this campus extremely miserable

Lol. The problem is entirely you. Guys dont give a fuck about your looks. Your problem seems to be you dont show any genuine interest in people. If you want to be likable, start liking people. Actually have a genuine care about them and what they think and feel. Be genuine and authentic aswell. Try be a good person, dont aim for anything, just try your best to be a kind, good person, it will all come.

 

[Deleted member 40986]

Let alone IOIs, no one even fucking talks to me. Not even guys.

I swear to god no one has spoken to me the entire fucking semester unless I initiate and even then meh.

I joined a group with 2 foids for project exhibition, well I was late to join the group so I just asked over WhatsApp when I never even met them or knew them before.
anyway it went well, I did the thing and I got a
"It's nice, thanku (my name)) over WhatsApp but when I came to class well I autistically walked past without saying hi or anything, then the next 3 times I came across them I got zero interaction, not even a nod or a fucking hi when I'm sitting right across

even the fugliest of guys get more action than or atleast part of a group

I walk past the corridors alone
I sit alone
I come alone
and I go alone

If I got some level of engagement or interest I could run with it but with zero?

Nobody fucking talks to me

Why the fuck???? I don't get it

And more importantly, how do I fix it and how much time will it take. I will just form my own group to not make my experience in this campus extremely miserable

Brutal