I give up, NT is cope

[Deleted member 24278]

Sure you need to be somewhat NT but you're always gonna have to try harder than a good looking man, I always preach for the NT pill but I give up, just don't be unattractive and have the ability to talk theory is legit

 

[HarrierDuBois]

have the ability to talk

This is NT pill though.

 

[Deleted member 24278]

This is NT pill though.

Just don't be a complete mute theory

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Just don't be a complete mute theory

Nah, lack of low inhib has held me back.

 

[Tusseleif]

NT is the only thing holding me back. I get matches and meetups but I can’t for the life of me talk to people, girls usually ghost me after I talk with them. But people both men and women have ghosted me or left me all my life so I’m used to it

 

[HarrierDuBois]

NT is the only thing holding me back. I get matches and meetups but I can’t for the life of me talk to people, girls usually ghost me after I talk with them. But people both men and women have ghosted me or left me all my life so I’m used to it

Hur ser dejtingscenen ut i Norge?

 

[Bojack]

maybe nt can help me out still

 

[Tusseleif]

Hur ser dejtingscenen ut i Norge?

Vanskelig å si, desidert flere single nå enn før, mange menn er ufrivillig barnløse nå enn før. Jeg vil si det er vanskeligere for de fleste, kvinner har mange valg gjennom tinder og sosiale grupper. Det er mange menn som ser bra ut og, så mange menn blir utelatt av scenen fullstendig. På butikken og ute for eksempel ser jeg mange enslige menn

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Vanskelig å si, desidert flere single nå enn før, mange menn er ufrivillig barnløse nå enn før. Jeg vil si det er vanskeligere for de fleste, kvinner har mange valg gjennom tinder og sosiale grupper. Det er mange menn som ser bra ut og, så mange menn blir utelatt av scenen fullstendig. På butikken og ute for eksempel ser jeg mange enslige menn

Samma som Sverige, dock har Sverige flest singelhushåll i världen så det är ännu svårare, antar att Danmark och Finland är likadana.

 

[thegoat]

NT is the only thing holding me back. I get matches and meetups but I can’t for the life of me talk to people, girls usually ghost me after I talk with them. But people both men and women have ghosted me or left me all my life so I’m used to it

how do you not have crippling social anxiety by now?

 

[Tusseleif]

how do you not have crippling social anxiety by now?

I do, probably why I’m too nice and high inhib, I also at least look decent

 

[thegoat]

I do, probably why I’m too nice and high inhib, I also at least look decent

but you're low inhib enough to go on dates. How many have you been on? I plan on getting into OLD soon i guess

 

[Tusseleif]

but you're low inhib enough to go on dates. How many have you been on? I plan on getting into OLD soon i guess

Nah going on dates take a lot from me, I get tons of anxiety before and have to drink to numb it

 

[thegoat]

Nah going on dates take a lot from me, I get tons of anxiety before and have to drink to numb it

I respect you pushing through the anxiety. That is one mindset I am adopting lately. Realising that it is just an uncomfortable feeling, not an actual inhibiting force, and you can push through it.