i got a question about my ex (serious, please read)

[Softmax09]

sounds good

might do that

Yeah just stfu nigger

 

[jl25]

It's litterally what he needs to do.
If you're so smart, what does he need to do then

dumb advice

who decided that moving on is the smartest and best thing to do in this situation

man made thing right there

 

[Softmax09]

It's litterally what he needs to do.
If you're so smart, what does he need to do then

Ofc it is what he needs to but he knows it, doesn’t help anyone if you just say it again

 

[jl25]

So basically you both had crush on each other for years?

yep

 

[WannabeClavicular]

dumb advice

who decided that moving on is the smartest and best thing to do in this situation

man made thing right there

Ofc it is what he needs to but he knows it, doesn’t help anyone if you just say it again

Appearantly he fucking doesnt.
What do you want to do? Try to win her back?

 

[jl25]

6 Months after the break up it’s normal to still be in the Situation which you are in right now

i know

but i said the exact same thing 10 months ago (the break up was 10 months ago)

 

[jl25]

What do you want to do? Try to win her back?

yeah obviously

 

[WannabeClavicular]

yeah obviously

Thats stupid, its never going to work, ive tried it myself and now i'll regret it forever

 

[Softmax09]

yep

Hiw old are you?

 

[jl25]

Thats stupid, its never going to work, ive tried it myself and now i'll regret it forever

i’d rather regret trying than regret not trying

 

[Softmax09]

i know

but i said the exact same thing 10 months ago (the break up was 10 months ago)

Yeah maybe just wait a little more or find something you really like, like a hobby or smth, just to have something to live for

And don’t try to get over her with other girls

 

[jl25]

Hiw old are you?

14

and i know i’m exactly at the age where people go through this kind of stuff

that’s also a reason i wanna rope

 

[WannabeClavicular]

i’d rather regret trying than regret not trying

Yea I get it, but you wont regret it, eventually

 

[Softmax09]

i’d rather regret trying than regret not trying

Trust me, you don’t

 

[mtnuglyboy]

 

[WannabeClavicular]

that’s also a reason i wanna rope

Genuinely just dont

 

[jl25]

Yeah maybe just wait a little more or find something you really like, like a hobby or smth,

i have hobbies that i really like but if it wasn’t for her i wouldn’t have any motivation to even step outside for 2 minutes

And don’t try to get over her with other girls

already tried that sadly

 

[Softmax09]

14

and i know i’m exactly at the age where people go through this kind of stuff

that’s also a reason i wanna rope

Bro trust me you will get over her, when I’m now thinking back to the things I have done/thought when I was 14 I could just kms out of shame

 

[jl25]

Genuinely just dont

why not tho

sounds corny but i couldn’t care less if i died or keep on living my fuckass life

 

[Softmax09]

already tried that sadly

That shit never works

 

[Softmax09]

why not tho

sounds corny but i couldn’t care less if i died or keep on living my fuckass life

Nigga please you’re just 14 if a fucking girl is the only reason for you to rope it’s genuinely just dumb

 

[jl25]

Bro trust me you will get over her, when I’m now thinking back to the things I have done/thought when I was 14 I could just kms out of shame

yeah maybe i’ll get over her

but i can still try to get her back

i mean it won’t change anything

 

[Softmax09]

yeah maybe i’ll get over her

but i can still try to get her back

i mean it won’t change anything

You can try to get her back, but it won’t last forever and if you then break up again it’ll just be much harder to get over her AGAIN

 

[WannabeClavicular]

why not tho

sounds corny but i couldn’t care less if i died or keep on living my fuckass life

I'm not trying to be a better-knowing person or a therapist, but trust me it definately gets better, the truth is she wasnt the right for you.
Such strong feelings messes a lot with your mind, you just have to go through it to be honest and try to forget her as much as possible.
Looking at pictures etc will just lenghten this period. Eventually you will regret even wanting her back

 

[Softmax09]

yeah maybe i’ll get over her

but i can still try to get her back

i mean it won’t change anything

The most important thing is that you just don’t kill yourself

 

[jl25]

if a fucking girl is the only reason for you to rope it’s genuinely just dumb

she’s the reason i don’t rope

and it’s not that i just like her

i’m obsessed with her
i wanna be like her
i’m not easily influenced i’d say but i wanna dress like her, eat like her, talk like her, live like her, everything

if she has a opinion on something, i have the same opinion

 

[jl25]

The most important thing is that you just don’t kill yourself

i won’t

if i get her back i won’t and if i move on i won’t

there’s like a really low chance that i will

 

[jl25]

You can try to get her back, but it won’t last forever and if you then break up again it’ll just be much harder to get over her AGAIN

i’d rather have that than to not do something with my time, might as well try to get her back yk

 

[Softmax09]

she’s the reason i don’t rope

and it’s not that i just like her

i’m obsessed with her
i wanna be like her
i’m not easily influenced i’d say but i wanna dress like her, eat like her, talk like her, live like her, everything

if she has a opinion on something, i have the same opinion

Im not saying this in a disrespectful way, I really worry about you, but you definitely have to go in therapy that’s not normal, that’s some kind of mental illness

 

[try2beme]

Get over it and grow up
That’s honest advice and probably the best

 

[jl25]

Im not saying this in a disrespectful way, I really worry about you, but you definitely have to go in therapy that’s not normal, that’s some kind of mental illness

i’m going to therapy on thursday

 

[Softmax09]

i’d rather have that than to not do something with my time, might as well try to get her back yk

I get you but as a i said it’ll just get harder and harder and break you more

 

[Galvatron]

I just wouldn’t tbh like I get you love her but ur making it harder on urself

 

[jl25]

Get over it and grow up
That’s honest advice and probably the best

but that’s not what i want to hear

i want you to feed my delusions

 

[Softmax09]

i’m going to therapy on thursday

Alr that’s a good thing

Going to sleep now it’s 2:30 AM for me good night Bhai

 

[jl25]

I just wouldn’t tbh like I get you love her but ur making it harder on urself

i like seeing myself suffer tho

 

[jl25]

I get you but as a i said it’ll just get harder and harder and break you more

i see no problem in that tbh

 

[jl25]

Alr that’s a good thing

Going to sleep now it’s 2:30 AM for me good night Bhai

good night

thanks for all your advice, i really needed to talk to someone

 

[Softmax09]

good night

thanks for all your advice, i really needed to talk to someone

No problem, you can always talk to someone on here
Just tag me if you wanna talk again

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

so i haven’t seen her in more than half a year and she broke up with me even longer ago.

she lives like 15min away from me by car but she never goes out so i never see her.

the only way i could see her is through friends of mine because they’re in contact with her.

how do i get to see her irl for once? please help if you have any advice.

also she hates me and hopes i die and shit

i bet you're better than this so stop all that

 

[jl25]

i bet you're better than this so stop all that

i probably am

but i’d rather be worse

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

i probably am

but i’d rather be worse

raising your cortisol levels over a foid is unforgivable

 

[jl25]

raising your cortisol levels over a foid is unforgivable

cortisol doesn’t work like that

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

cortisol doesn’t work like that

it does

 

[jl25]

it does

nope

do you know what cortisol is

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

nope

do you know what cortisol is

i know its not the same thing, its a joke

 

[jl25]

i know its not the same thing, its a joke

a very funny one

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

a very funny one

fuck you nigga

 

[jl25]

fuck you nigga

look at your rep ratio

i think i’m not the only one who doesn’t like you

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

look at your rep ratio

i think i’m not the only one who doesn’t like you

i couldnt care less that you dont like me