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For those not into Latinas from my Colombia thread , the next best geomaxxing location is SEA. I have heard the Philippines is better than Thailand from Friends , but nevertheless my experience in 2023 was very much a good time. As the geomaxxing trend continues to rise , as western women are cooked , these places get more and more competitive but still x10 easier than the west. You have a big advantage if JBW. And I mostly p4p over here. Some beautiful women over here with lesser standards.
Here are 3 mistakes I made to avoid if you guys make the move or just visit :
Mistake 1: Lady drinks.
In a word, be careful! The bills wrack up fast. I never made a really expensive mistake, but had a few 1000+baht beers by accident. It seems extremely rude from a western perspective, but you are 100% within your rights to say “I am happy drinking alone thank you” If you say this as soon as you enter the bar, it gives you more of a chance to get a lay of the land and then call over the girl you actually want, not the one who got you into the bar. They will also try their absolute best for you to buy drinks for “their friends” and even the “mama” Just politely refuse. Also the bar games like connect 4 and pool. They will want to play against you for a drink and they will win. Don’t play with someone you wouldn’t have wanted to buy a drink for anyway. Make a show of checking your bin whenever a new receipt is put in.
Mistake 2: paying before the deed.
This was early in the trip with a girl I met on the street late at night in Bangkok. I had 2 girls back to my apartment like this and stopped after the second one, due to this experience (however the first one was fine and I had a good time)
She was fit and we agreed 2500 for LT, which is a little on the high side considering the time of night (3AM or later) she was eating some disgusting seaweed stuff which she said “I can’t kiss you until I brush my teeth as I have bad breath” which was red flag numero uno. Got back to the apartment and she was in full ST mode. Instantly getting into the shower etc. You are here all night love, no need to rush things. After shower and back in my room she insisted I pay her first red flag number two. I know this is not a good idea and I refused, telling her this wasn’t my first time in Thailand. She got quite angry saying it was always the way. To be honest I just wanted her to shut up at this point and said I’d pay her 1500 before and the rest after. She agreed reluctantly.
We got down to it, I don’t remember the specifics but she still would not kiss me. About 10 minutes in, she started shouting “you bit me” (I certainly did not) and screaming something about her not being my girlfriend. At this point I was fucked off from the lack of kissing when we had agreed and her general demeanour I literally told her to just fuck off and leave (taking my 1500 baht with her)
All this is a round about way of saying never ever pay first. I strongly believe this was an act from her and she does this every time, except luckily this time I had only given her half the agreed amount.
My one small smile I got out of the exchange was knowing we were on the 40th floor or something, and you couldn’t operate the lift without a keycard
Mistake 3: THE BIG ONE. Don’t use their condoms.
This happened towards the start of the trip and really put a downer on things for a few days. I was having sex with a girl and the condom came off. I was very drunk at the time and did not notice. I only know because she told me on Instagram afterwards and thought it was some kind of a joke. I quiz her extremely thoroughly about it and deduced that the condom had indeed either come off or split. Now I’m quite worried about STDs in general and get tested every 6 months even back at home. So you can imagine my horror. I went to a clinic and got PEP. It cost £90. There are various side effects but thankfully I did not experience any. Time will tell how bad a mistake this in truth was, but I started taking it in about 38 hours of exposure, so feeling confident all will be well. I know the chances of catching HIV even in Thailand are minuscule, but better safe than sorry.
My friend who I was with for a while also had a condom split, luckily while putting it on, but goes to show that it is absolutely necessary to either bring your own, or use only durex they have in 7/11 while here.
Here are 3 mistakes I made to avoid if you guys make the move or just visit :
Mistake 1: Lady drinks.
In a word, be careful! The bills wrack up fast. I never made a really expensive mistake, but had a few 1000+baht beers by accident. It seems extremely rude from a western perspective, but you are 100% within your rights to say “I am happy drinking alone thank you” If you say this as soon as you enter the bar, it gives you more of a chance to get a lay of the land and then call over the girl you actually want, not the one who got you into the bar. They will also try their absolute best for you to buy drinks for “their friends” and even the “mama” Just politely refuse. Also the bar games like connect 4 and pool. They will want to play against you for a drink and they will win. Don’t play with someone you wouldn’t have wanted to buy a drink for anyway. Make a show of checking your bin whenever a new receipt is put in.
Mistake 2: paying before the deed.
This was early in the trip with a girl I met on the street late at night in Bangkok. I had 2 girls back to my apartment like this and stopped after the second one, due to this experience (however the first one was fine and I had a good time)
She was fit and we agreed 2500 for LT, which is a little on the high side considering the time of night (3AM or later) she was eating some disgusting seaweed stuff which she said “I can’t kiss you until I brush my teeth as I have bad breath” which was red flag numero uno. Got back to the apartment and she was in full ST mode. Instantly getting into the shower etc. You are here all night love, no need to rush things. After shower and back in my room she insisted I pay her first red flag number two. I know this is not a good idea and I refused, telling her this wasn’t my first time in Thailand. She got quite angry saying it was always the way. To be honest I just wanted her to shut up at this point and said I’d pay her 1500 before and the rest after. She agreed reluctantly.
We got down to it, I don’t remember the specifics but she still would not kiss me. About 10 minutes in, she started shouting “you bit me” (I certainly did not) and screaming something about her not being my girlfriend. At this point I was fucked off from the lack of kissing when we had agreed and her general demeanour I literally told her to just fuck off and leave (taking my 1500 baht with her)
All this is a round about way of saying never ever pay first. I strongly believe this was an act from her and she does this every time, except luckily this time I had only given her half the agreed amount.
My one small smile I got out of the exchange was knowing we were on the 40th floor or something, and you couldn’t operate the lift without a keycard
Mistake 3: THE BIG ONE. Don’t use their condoms.
This happened towards the start of the trip and really put a downer on things for a few days. I was having sex with a girl and the condom came off. I was very drunk at the time and did not notice. I only know because she told me on Instagram afterwards and thought it was some kind of a joke. I quiz her extremely thoroughly about it and deduced that the condom had indeed either come off or split. Now I’m quite worried about STDs in general and get tested every 6 months even back at home. So you can imagine my horror. I went to a clinic and got PEP. It cost £90. There are various side effects but thankfully I did not experience any. Time will tell how bad a mistake this in truth was, but I started taking it in about 38 hours of exposure, so feeling confident all will be well. I know the chances of catching HIV even in Thailand are minuscule, but better safe than sorry.
My friend who I was with for a while also had a condom split, luckily while putting it on, but goes to show that it is absolutely necessary to either bring your own, or use only durex they have in 7/11 while here.
