I got more attention from women back when I was fatter and uglier

[pyroclasm]

I was obese in high school with no drip and quite strange, but by junior year I would have a thing with a girl every once in a while, including a full on girlfriend for a while. In my college years there were two girls irl that I was involved with, one I met in the psych ward and another on Tinder (there was also a girl I only knew online who became very clingy and ode, I had to end romantic prospects). I graduated last year. I think I've glowed up since then but I have less success now. very few real matches on dating apps and a girl I told I liked her did not respond well. To be fair I haven't been going out and meeting girls but back in the day I would just meet more girls by nature of my environments.

this is kinda demoralizing. My main plan right now is to lose more fat and get ripped and sew if that helps

 

[Hurly saint]

I was obese in high school with no drip and quite strange, but by junior year I would have a thing with a girl every once in a while, including a full on girlfriend for a while. In my college years there were two girls irl that I was involved with, one I met in the psych ward and another on Tinder (there was also a girl I only knew online who became very clingy and ode, I had to end romantic prospects). I graduated last year. I think I've glowed up since then but I have less success now. very few real matches on dating apps and a girl I told I liked her did not respond well. To be fair I haven't been going out and meeting girls but back in the day I would just meet more girls by nature of my environments.

this is kinda demoralizing. My main plan right now is to lose more fat and get ripped and sew if that helps

Damn I ascended and had girls with bfs rubbing themselves on me

 

[RandomGuy002]

I was obese in high school with no drip and quite strange, but by junior year I would have a thing with a girl every once in a while, including a full on girlfriend for a while. In my college years there were two girls irl that I was involved with, one I met in the psych ward and another on Tinder (there was also a girl I only knew online who became very clingy and ode, I had to end romantic prospects). I graduated last year. I think I've glowed up since then but I have less success now. very few real matches on dating apps and a girl I told I liked her did not respond well. To be fair I haven't been going out and meeting girls but back in the day I would just meet more girls by nature of my environments.

this is kinda demoralizing. My main plan right now is to lose more fat and get ripped and sew if that helps

Maybe the fat look was cute to them and now that you lost weight you might just look like a normal guy. Nothing that sparks interest. If you go to the shredded end of the spectrum then you may see more attention because you stand out again. Idk though.

 

[RandomGuy002]

The timing may also be a factor. Men in their 20's are more attractive than teens on average because they grow into their looks . Thus creating higher competition.