I got raised wrong

[arge]

I was raised to say "yes" and obey whatever was told to me, I was made into thinking I shouldn't think on my own and I just listen to what ever is said to me, now I can't stand for my self, I have a really high inhibition, I fear people no matter who they are, I was thinking I was a good guy because I didn't make problems and I forgave people, but now I realize that I was just a pussy, too afrad to face problems (social), cant say no to almost anything, I don't get respected enough.
this actually bothers me more than my looks, I always was made a fool of, I cant stand it anymore.

 

[dex0bp]

I was raised to say "yes" and obey whatever was told to me, I was made into thinking I shouldn't think on my own and I just listen to what ever is said to me, now I can stand for my self, I have a really high inhibition, I fear people no matter who they are, I was thinking I was a good guy because I didn't make problems and I forgave people, but now I realize that I was just a pussy, too afrad to face problems (social), cant say no to almost anything, I don't get respected enough.
this actually bothers me more than my looks, I always was made a fool of, I cant stand it anymore.

Same

 

[flyman123]

I was raised to say "yes" and obey whatever was told to me, I was made into thinking I shouldn't think on my own and I just listen to what ever is said to me, now I can stand for my self, I have a really high inhibition, I fear people no matter who they are, I was thinking I was a good guy because I didn't make problems and I forgave people, but now I realize that I was just a pussy, too afrad to face problems (social), cant say no to almost anything, I don't get respected enough.
this actually bothers me more than my looks, I always was made a fool of, I cant stand it anymore.

maybe u had low T

 

[taai]

I hope you can act as you say

 

[arge]

maybe u had low T

have*

 

[LaytonC]

I was raised to say "yes" and obey whatever was told to me, I was made into thinking I shouldn't think on my own and I just listen to what ever is said to me, now I can stand for my self, I have a really high inhibition, I fear people no matter who they are, I was thinking I was a good guy because I didn't make problems and I forgave people, but now I realize that I was just a pussy, too afrad to face problems (social), cant say no to almost anything, I don't get respected enough.
this actually bothers me more than my looks, I always was made a fool of, I cant stand it anymore.

i fear this is a very common issue

 

[arge]

i fear this is a very common issue

yes, and its rarely fixed

 

[arge]

I hope you can act as you say

wdym?

 

[flyman123]

have*

Raise it then. I did naturally. Now I walk like a king or dont give a fuck who the king is.

Ali

 

[taai]

wdym?

You can only get out of this situation by acting not just realizing. Ive been there

 

[LaytonC]

yes, and its rarely fixed

agreed bc it goes so against everything you were taught.
I certainly face this issue and even though I am working on putting myself above others and valuing myself more it just often feels that im being an asshole
and then people get onto me like oh youve changed like yeah im sorry i dont drop everything to do something for you the moment you ask as i have my own priories

 

[arge]

You can only get out of this situation by acting not just realizing. Ive been there

what did u change

 

[taai]

what did u change

Well I stopped caring but it's not something you switch on and off in order to do it you have to work on small parts that make you care so much

 

[caleb555]

My parents tought me to take all disrespect from people and never stand up for myself so I could be "the bigger person" pretty pathetic imo. Im slowly learning not to be like this tho

 

[arge]

Im slowly learning not to be like this tho

what are u doing to do so

 

[ybuyhgui]

very real op

Raise it then. I did naturally. Now I walk like a king or dont give a fuck who the king is.

absolute cringemaxxed retard. This is an issue with his internal psychology beyond 'muh test'. Doesn’t matter how many ng/dl he's got, it'll still be this way. And I know that from firsthand experience

 

[caleb555]

what are u doing to do so

Mostly just treating people exactly how they treat you, if they do something that offends do it back but maybe worse

 

[caleb555]

Not trying to sound super red pill but training martial arts and sparing could certainly help with this. Especially if you end up fighting someone irl and winning your confidence goes up like crazy, happend to me once and I felt way better about myself

 

[arge]

Not trying to sound super red pill but training martial arts and sparing could certainly help with this. Especially if you end up fighting someone irl and winning your confidence goes up like crazy, happend to me once and I felt way better about myself

never got into fightes, although I am confident in my physical strength, I cant really bring my self to fight somebody, I want to get into fights to assert physical dominance but I never get the chance or I automatically avoid them, when I get disrespected I pretended I didn't hear it or I just ignore it thinking that Iam the bigger person/its not worth fighting.

 

[rotation]

maybe u had low T

i hate it when people blame everything on low t

no my high inhibition is not due to low testosterone

 

[caleb555]

never got into fightes, although I am confident in my physical strength, I cant really bring my self to fight somebody, I want to get into fights to assert physical dominance but I never get the chance or I automatically avoid them, when I get disrespected I pretended I didn't hear it or I just ignore it thinking that Iam the bigger person/its not worth fighting.

Yea ig it's not the smartest cause people can get injured and legal issues

 

[flyman123]

very real op



absolute cringemaxxed retard. This is an issue with his internal psychology beyond 'muh test'. Doesn’t matter how many ng/dl he's got, it'll still be this way. And I know that from firsthand experience

Reference flew right past ur nose buddy. Im not fucking serious. Stop being such a boring besserwisser that might benefit u

 

[ybuyhgui]

Reference

Telling him it's a test issue wasn’t a reference donkey brain. I understood your shit ali reference