I got soft rejected by a htb. I'm an mtn that is softmaxxed, can I still pull her if I try things differently?

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Long story and vent: Being critical and honest I'm a 5'8 mtn, in my country 5'8 is average height and I'm almost always the same as height as everyone else in the room. I also always get treated nicely by girls, they will do me favors I never asked them to, I have been approached in the streets a couple of times and I get a decent amount of compliments, as an mtn I believe this is due to me being very well softmaxxed, I'm lean, have good skin, nice hair, colored eyes and no major recessions. There is a htb in my uni so I was like fuck it let me approach her (we never properly spoke before) and I was super retarded :lul: I asked if she would like to go out on Friday while never asking for her name or country :feelswhy: ofc she said she doesn't know if she will be free, I then asked for her instagram and she said she doesn't have one so I just said ok have a good day and left :feelswah: BUT I later verified with her friends that she actually really doesn't have an insta. Now I'm not going to cope and say this wasn't a rejection because if I was a chad she would have instantly told me "no i dont have insta but you can have my number" or whatever but a part of me believes had I approached in a more NT way and then after she said she doesn't have insta asked for her number I maybee could have gotten it. To cope I posted a few tiktok thirst traps for validation :lul: and got a staceylite w 15k followers to follow me, most of my friends say she is better looking than the uni girl but I really only want the uni girl. Is there hope or should I ldar and move on the next. Also I won't reveal my face because I'm legit mtn and know it. It kinda sucks since im softmaxxed so only way for me to ascend further is going to be hardmaxxes
 
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Long story and vent: Being critical and honest I'm a 5'8 mtn, in my country 5'8 is average height and I'm almost always the same as height as everyone else in the room. I also always get treated nicely by girls, they will do me favors I never asked them to, I have been approached in the streets a couple of times and I get a decent amount of compliments, as an mtn I believe this is due to me being very well softmaxxed, I'm lean, have good skin, nice hair, colored eyes and no major recessions. There is a htb in my uni so I was like fuck it let me approach her (we never properly spoke before) and I was super retarded :lul: I asked if she would like to go out on Friday while never asking for her name or country :feelswhy: ofc she said she doesn't know if she will be free, I then asked for her instagram and she said she doesn't have one so I just said ok have a good day and left :feelswah: BUT I later verified with her friends that she actually really doesn't have an insta. Now I'm not going to cope and say this wasn't a rejection because if I was a chad she would have instantly told me "no i dont have insta but you can have my number" or whatever but a part of me believes had I approached in a more NT way and then after she said she doesn't have insta asked for her number I maybee could have gotten it. To cope I posted a few tiktok thirst traps for validation :lul: and got a staceylite w 15k followers to follow me, most of my friends say she is better looking than the uni girl but I really only want the uni girl. Is there hope or should I ldar and move on the next. Also I won't reveal my face because I'm legit mtn and know it. It kinda sucks since im softmaxxed so only way for me to ascend further is going to be hardmaxxes
depends on if youre a hmtn
 
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Go back to her so you can be her purse puppy? Have some self respect, inkwell
 
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Go back to her so you can be her purse puppy? Have some self respect, inkwell
I’m probs more low inhib and social than you inkie
 
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Depending on her answer about u asking her out I think you should shoot your shot! This time open with asking her name and if she’s single. Ask her about classes and other small talk idk (and genuinely be interested) if her stance is relaxed and she seems interested ask for her number instead, then for the date a couple days after talking if it goes well. God speed soldier.
 
Long story and vent: Being critical and honest I'm a 5'8 mtn, in my country 5'8 is average height and I'm almost always the same as height as everyone else in the room. I also always get treated nicely by girls, they will do me favors I never asked them to, I have been approached in the streets a couple of times and I get a decent amount of compliments, as an mtn I believe this is due to me being very well softmaxxed, I'm lean, have good skin, nice hair, colored eyes and no major recessions. There is a htb in my uni so I was like fuck it let me approach her (we never properly spoke before) and I was super retarded :lul: I asked if she would like to go out on Friday while never asking for her name or country :feelswhy: ofc she said she doesn't know if she will be free, I then asked for her instagram and she said she doesn't have one so I just said ok have a good day and left :feelswah: BUT I later verified with her friends that she actually really doesn't have an insta. Now I'm not going to cope and say this wasn't a rejection because if I was a chad she would have instantly told me "no i dont have insta but you can have my number" or whatever but a part of me believes had I approached in a more NT way and then after she said she doesn't have insta asked for her number I maybee could have gotten it. To cope I posted a few tiktok thirst traps for validation :lul: and got a staceylite w 15k followers to follow me, most of my friends say she is better looking than the uni girl but I really only want the uni girl. Is there hope or should I ldar and move on the next. Also I won't reveal my face because I'm legit mtn and know it. It kinda sucks since im softmaxxed so only way for me to ascend further is going to be hardmaxxes
i would never trust the authenticity of a woman who likes me after not liking me initially.
 
nah man u good just keep being urself and the right girl will see that softmaxxed mtn glow fr lol she might not have seen it but dont let that get to you!
 
Long story and vent: Being critical and honest I'm a 5'8 mtn, in my country 5'8 is average height and I'm almost always the same as height as everyone else in the room. I also always get treated nicely by girls, they will do me favors I never asked them to, I have been approached in the streets a couple of times and I get a decent amount of compliments, as an mtn I believe this is due to me being very well softmaxxed, I'm lean, have good skin, nice hair, colored eyes and no major recessions. There is a htb in my uni so I was like fuck it let me approach her (we never properly spoke before) and I was super retarded :lul: I asked if she would like to go out on Friday while never asking for her name or country :feelswhy: ofc she said she doesn't know if she will be free, I then asked for her instagram and she said she doesn't have one so I just said ok have a good day and left :feelswah: BUT I later verified with her friends that she actually really doesn't have an insta. Now I'm not going to cope and say this wasn't a rejection because if I was a chad she would have instantly told me "no i dont have insta but you can have my number" or whatever but a part of me believes had I approached in a more NT way and then after she said she doesn't have insta asked for her number I maybee could have gotten it. To cope I posted a few tiktok thirst traps for validation :lul: and got a staceylite w 15k followers to follow me, most of my friends say she is better looking than the uni girl but I really only want the uni girl. Is there hope or should I ldar and move on the next. Also I won't reveal my face because I'm legit mtn and know it. It kinda sucks since im softmaxxed so only way for me to ascend further is going to be hardmaxxes
Ok
 
Long story and vent: Being critical and honest I'm a 5'8 mtn, in my country 5'8 is average height and I'm almost always the same as height as everyone else in the room. I also always get treated nicely by girls, they will do me favors I never asked them to, I have been approached in the streets a couple of times and I get a decent amount of compliments, as an mtn I believe this is due to me being very well softmaxxed, I'm lean, have good skin, nice hair, colored eyes and no major recessions. There is a htb in my uni so I was like fuck it let me approach her (we never properly spoke before) and I was super retarded :lul: I asked if she would like to go out on Friday while never asking for her name or country :feelswhy: ofc she said she doesn't know if she will be free, I then asked for her instagram and she said she doesn't have one so I just said ok have a good day and left :feelswah: BUT I later verified with her friends that she actually really doesn't have an insta. Now I'm not going to cope and say this wasn't a rejection because if I was a chad she would have instantly told me "no i dont have insta but you can have my number" or whatever but a part of me believes had I approached in a more NT way and then after she said she doesn't have insta asked for her number I maybee could have gotten it. To cope I posted a few tiktok thirst traps for validation :lul: and got a staceylite w 15k followers to follow me, most of my friends say she is better looking than the uni girl but I really only want the uni girl. Is there hope or should I ldar and move on the next. Also I won't reveal my face because I'm legit mtn and know it. It kinda sucks since im softmaxxed so only way for me to ascend further is going to be hardmaxxes
no nigga
 
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