I had a date yesterday

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like always it went horribly. after endlessly texting to see if we have "chemistry" (according to her words), she agreed to meet with me.

she showed up dressed like a hooker (they always do) and didnt look like in her pics....she looked better, she is actually the cutest girl i have met so far. meanwhile i was tired from work, starved and wanted to take a shit for like 10 hours or so.

and the moment we met i knew it wasnt gonna go well. I hate it when i have to get in a situtation that i know i have no chance against.

we sat down and i literally wanted to leave in the first five minutes or so but she wanted to spend 3 hours with me so i stayed out of courtesy.

she wouldnt shut up about how social she is and how many activities she has going on for herself. if her social life is that good then why is she on Tinder???

and because i had nothing to add to the conversation i starter jestering to at least not come across as an autist. i literally entertained her for 3 hours straight, i was her personal clown, i dont think i have ever humiliated myself so much before.

after all this charade she took me to the train station, hugged me and we parted ways. she is probably gonna unmatch me if she hasnt already and if she doesnt, she is just gonna ghost me, they always do.
 
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This isnt too bad bro, seems like you'll have plenty of other opportunities
 
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if you feel this strongly about kinda disliking her then probably dont date her
 
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seems like you'll have plenty of other opportunities
what opportunities man? i have gone out with 12-13 girls atp and they just ghost me after the first date. im 30 too
 
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what opportunities man? i have gone out with 12-13 girls atp and they just ghost me after the first date. im 30 too
I mean your volume of dates seems pretty high especially considering you're consistently getting ghosted

Must be some sort of socializing issue rather than looks

0/13 is pretty brutal tho, seems like your best bet is using drugs that lower inhibition, if you aren't already
 
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I mean your volume of dates seems pretty high especially considering you're consistently getting ghosted
dates mean nothing

Must be some sort of socializing issue rather than looks
you dont know what i look like buddy

0/13 is pretty brutal tho, seems like your best bet is using drugs that lower inhibition, if you aren't already
what does inhibition have to do with girls not flirting with???
 
why is it so hard to find a girl who doesnt talk much???
honestly good question, its kinda wired into their brain to talk a lot especially to people they like
if you dont want that i dont really know where else to go besides getting lucky or just finding a guy
 
ts kinda wired into their brain to talk a lot especially to people they like
not only they talk a lot, they also pressure me to keep the convo going which is annoying.

if you dont want that i dont really know where else to go besides getting lucky or just finding a gu
my old itis wasnt much of a talker
 
not only they talk a lot, they also pressure me to keep the convo going which is annoying.


my old itis wasnt much of a talker
honestly if u dont feel like talking to them even in a date setting just mellow the convo down
really just do what u feel will keep yourself going a foids opinion doesnt matter if u dont let it lol
 
honestly if u dont feel like talking to them even in a date setting just mellow the convo down
really just do what u feel will keep yourself going a foids opinion doesnt matter if u dont let it lol
the problem with dating apps is that you dont choose who you will meet. you are at women's mercy.

there are non NT introverted girls on dating apps. but they never like me.

i keep matching with hyper NT ones that i have nothing in common with because its all looks based sadly.
 
the problem with dating apps is that you dont choose who you will meet. you are at women's mercy.

there are non NT introverted girls on dating apps. but they never like me.

i keep matching with hyper NT ones that i have nothing in common with because its all looks based sadly.
theres not much to expect with dating apps
just keep trying ig
 
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what opportunities man? i have gone out with 12-13 girls atp and they just ghost me after the first date. im 30 too
Bro you are mogging 99.99% of the forum, most of us can’t get a fucking like on dating apps you managed to go out with a dozen of bitches :lul:

0/13 is beyond brutal tho, you should have gotten at the very least one slay, are you profoundly ND or what?
 

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