I had a date yesterday

[NoExit]

like always it went horribly. after endlessly texting to see if we have "chemistry" (according to her words), she agreed to meet with me.

she showed up dressed like a hooker (they always do) and didnt look like in her pics....she looked better, she is actually the cutest girl i have met so far. meanwhile i was tired from work, starved and wanted to take a shit for like 10 hours or so.

and the moment we met i knew it wasnt gonna go well. I hate it when i have to get in a situtation that i know i have no chance against.

we sat down and i literally wanted to leave in the first five minutes or so but she wanted to spend 3 hours with me so i stayed out of courtesy.

she wouldnt shut up about how social she is and how many activities she has going on for herself. if her social life is that good then why is she on Tinder???

and because i had nothing to add to the conversation i starter jestering to at least not come across as an autist. i literally entertained her for 3 hours straight, i was her personal clown, i dont think i have ever humiliated myself so much before.

after all this charade she took me to the train station, hugged me and we parted ways. she is probably gonna unmatch me if she hasnt already and if she doesnt, she is just gonna ghost me, they always do.

 

[currybot]

This isnt too bad bro, seems like you'll have plenty of other opportunities

 

[thefella]

if you feel this strongly about kinda disliking her then probably dont date her

 

[NoExit]

seems like you'll have plenty of other opportunities

what opportunities man? i have gone out with 12-13 girls atp and they just ghost me after the first date. im 30 too

 

[currybot]

what opportunities man? i have gone out with 12-13 girls atp and they just ghost me after the first date. im 30 too

I mean your volume of dates seems pretty high especially considering you're consistently getting ghosted

Must be some sort of socializing issue rather than looks

0/13 is pretty brutal tho, seems like your best bet is using drugs that lower inhibition, if you aren't already

 

[NoExit]

if you feel this strongly about kinda disliking her then probably dont date her

why is it so hard to find a girl who doesnt talk much???

 

[NoExit]

I mean your volume of dates seems pretty high especially considering you're consistently getting ghosted

dates mean nothing

Must be some sort of socializing issue rather than looks

you dont know what i look like buddy

0/13 is pretty brutal tho, seems like your best bet is using drugs that lower inhibition, if you aren't already

what does inhibition have to do with girls not flirting with???

 

[thefella]

why is it so hard to find a girl who doesnt talk much???

honestly good question, its kinda wired into their brain to talk a lot especially to people they like
if you dont want that i dont really know where else to go besides getting lucky or just finding a guy

 

[NoExit]

ts kinda wired into their brain to talk a lot especially to people they like

not only they talk a lot, they also pressure me to keep the convo going which is annoying.

if you dont want that i dont really know where else to go besides getting lucky or just finding a gu

my old itis wasnt much of a talker

 

[thefella]

not only they talk a lot, they also pressure me to keep the convo going which is annoying.


my old itis wasnt much of a talker

honestly if u dont feel like talking to them even in a date setting just mellow the convo down
really just do what u feel will keep yourself going a foids opinion doesnt matter if u dont let it lol

 

[NoExit]

honestly if u dont feel like talking to them even in a date setting just mellow the convo down
really just do what u feel will keep yourself going a foids opinion doesnt matter if u dont let it lol

the problem with dating apps is that you dont choose who you will meet. you are at women's mercy.

there are non NT introverted girls on dating apps. but they never like me.

i keep matching with hyper NT ones that i have nothing in common with because its all looks based sadly.

 

[thefella]

the problem with dating apps is that you dont choose who you will meet. you are at women's mercy.

there are non NT introverted girls on dating apps. but they never like me.

i keep matching with hyper NT ones that i have nothing in common with because its all looks based sadly.

theres not much to expect with dating apps
just keep trying ig

 

[inceliusndius]

TAles faggot

 

[htbslayeer]

what opportunities man? i have gone out with 12-13 girls atp and they just ghost me after the first date. im 30 too

Bro you are mogging 99.99% of the forum, most of us can’t get a fucking like on dating apps you managed to go out with a dozen of bitches

0/13 is beyond brutal tho, you should have gotten at the very least one slay, are you profoundly ND or what?

 

[NoExit]

TAles faggot

why is this so hard to believe?

 

[NoExit]

theres not much to expect with dating apps
just keep trying ig

there is not much to expect irl either

 

[NoExit]

most of us can’t get a fucking like on dating apps you managed to go out with a dozen of bitches

how is this possible? everyone here is a slayer

tho, you should have gotten at the very least one slay, are you profoundly ND or what?

profoundly subhuman

 

[ToDelirium]

like always it went horribly. after endlessly texting to see if we have "chemistry" (according to her words), she agreed to meet with me.

she showed up dressed like a hooker (they always do) and didnt look like in her pics....she looked better, she is actually the cutest girl i have met so far. meanwhile i was tired from work, starved and wanted to take a shit for like 10 hours or so.

and the moment we met i knew it wasnt gonna go well. I hate it when i have to get in a situtation that i know i have no chance against.

we sat down and i literally wanted to leave in the first five minutes or so but she wanted to spend 3 hours with me so i stayed out of courtesy.

she wouldnt shut up about how social she is and how many activities she has going on for herself. if her social life is that good then why is she on Tinder???

and because i had nothing to add to the conversation i starter jestering to at least not come across as an autist. i literally entertained her for 3 hours straight, i was her personal clown, i dont think i have ever humiliated myself so much before.

after all this charade she took me to the train station, hugged me and we parted ways. she is probably gonna unmatch me if she hasnt already and if she doesnt, she is just gonna ghost me, they always do.

You tried bro it happens, how long do you spend texting them?

 

[NoExit]

You tried bro it happens, how long do you spend texting them?

7 days

 

[ToDelirium]

7 days

But how much time do you spend texting them during those days

 

[MixedBoyo12]

Like I said, women’s brains are so fucked from dopamine and all the access to men but “muhhh I’m a femel”, look at her she probably doesn’t even care ur alive, she dressed like a hooker u said, used old or frauded pics typical online apps, i absolutely hate when they show up +30, so that’s why I’ve asked for live pics of them nowadays, the amount of dates I had similar to urs was brutal but I’ve never spent more than 2 hours with a girl unless it was her house, but so many times they would be so “fun” over text” then In person a complete mute and expect u to be their personal jester all while another nigga hit within 10 minutes

 

[NoExit]

But how much time do you spend texting them during those days

i exchanged about 200 messages with this one before going out. and we are stil texting btw

 

[NoExit]

but I’ve never spent more than 2 hours with a girl unless it was her house,

i have never gone to a girl's house

but so many times they would be so “fun” over text” then In person a complete mute and expect u to be their personal jester all

i was her personal jester in text too, though she does crack jokes sometimes

 

[browncurrycel]

Did you not try holding her hand or kissing her or sumn

 

[anthony267]

like always it went horribly. after endlessly texting to see if we have "chemistry" (according to her words), she agreed to meet with me.

she showed up dressed like a hooker (they always do) and didnt look like in her pics....she looked better, she is actually the cutest girl i have met so far. meanwhile i was tired from work, starved and wanted to take a shit for like 10 hours or so.

and the moment we met i knew it wasnt gonna go well. I hate it when i have to get in a situtation that i know i have no chance against.

we sat down and i literally wanted to leave in the first five minutes or so but she wanted to spend 3 hours with me so i stayed out of courtesy.

she wouldnt shut up about how social she is and how many activities she has going on for herself. if her social life is that good then why is she on Tinder???

and because i had nothing to add to the conversation i starter jestering to at least not come across as an autist. i literally entertained her for 3 hours straight, i was her personal clown, i dont think i have ever humiliated myself so much before.

after all this charade she took me to the train station, hugged me and we parted ways. she is probably gonna unmatch me if she hasnt already and if she doesnt, she is just gonna ghost me, they always do.

over

 

[NoExit]

Did you not try holding her hand or kissing her or sumn

past experience has taught me to never initiate anything

 

[NoExit]

over

i deserve it

 

[browncurrycel]

past experience has taught me to never initiate anything

Nigga if you don't initiate, nothing is ever going to progress

You've said that you have been on dates with 12 women. If you can get that far but still not fuck atleast 1 it's a skill issue in your end

Also what past experience

 

[MixedBoyo12]

i have never gone to a girl's house


i was her personal jester in text too, though she does crack jokes sometimes

But I might have told u before, but reps and experience matter and at least now u know not to jester, imo a good date should include touching and kissing while the date occurs, but if u get any signal she’s not interested just leave, u can even pretend someone is calling u and u have to help them

 

[NoExit]

Nigga if you don't initiate, nothing is ever going to progress

i initiated with a girl once, put my arm in her back. she said "what are you doing exactly???"

If you can get that far but still not fuck atleast 1 it's a skill issue in your end

not my fault, they are never flirting

 

[NoExit]

, imo a good date should include touching and kissing while the date occurs

i never had this , they never want anythingsexual with me

but if u get any signal she’s not interested just leave

im too much of a nice guy to leave

 

[MixedBoyo12]

i never had this , they never want anythingsexual with me


im too much of a nice guy to leave

You’ll need more reps, but also down the line figure out how to escalate

 

[NoExit]

You’ll need more reps, but also down the line figure out how to escalate

women escalate in my country

 

[MixedBoyo12]

women escalate in my country

Which country is this?

 

[NoExit]

Which country is this?

greece

 

[MixedBoyo12]

greece

Oh dam, man I wanan take a trip there so bad fr, and if they initiate first all the better

 

[NoExit]

Oh dam, man I wanan take a trip there so bad fr, and if they initiate first all the better

only if you are MTN+