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Does anyone else have this borderline irrational fear of being seen as a creep? It's such a gross feeling and it really makes me socially insecure.
Being labeled a creep also sticks with you for the rest of ur life and can ruin your reputation. It also makes people avoid you . Yesterday I was using this machine at the gym and this girl I barely know walks over and asks if she can work in. And I say yeah and I let her hop in and I try to make conversation because we know each other from mutual friends. And I couldn't help overthink and notice her facial expressions and think oh my god she must be so uncomfortable right now. what if she just wants me to fuck off and leave her alone? She was bantering a bit back and forth with me, but she was also really awkward and quiet at the same time.And I've talked to her a couple times before and she seemed a lot more friendly back then. and its sad cuz I actually found this girl attractive. I honestly wish I was super conventionally attractive
so I wouldn't have to worry about this.
It's just so much harder to talk to women in general
when you feel like you're scaring them.
I also worry about it way too much because the more I think about It.
The more awkward I get. Or maybe I'm not too great at conversations.
I hope that's the case and it's not that I'm creepy. The end.
Being labeled a creep also sticks with you for the rest of ur life and can ruin your reputation. It also makes people avoid you . Yesterday I was using this machine at the gym and this girl I barely know walks over and asks if she can work in. And I say yeah and I let her hop in and I try to make conversation because we know each other from mutual friends. And I couldn't help overthink and notice her facial expressions and think oh my god she must be so uncomfortable right now. what if she just wants me to fuck off and leave her alone? She was bantering a bit back and forth with me, but she was also really awkward and quiet at the same time.And I've talked to her a couple times before and she seemed a lot more friendly back then. and its sad cuz I actually found this girl attractive. I honestly wish I was super conventionally attractive
so I wouldn't have to worry about this.
It's just so much harder to talk to women in general
when you feel like you're scaring them.
I also worry about it way too much because the more I think about It.
The more awkward I get. Or maybe I'm not too great at conversations.
I hope that's the case and it's not that I'm creepy. The end.
