i hate how clingy and emotional i get

[TheGreatDetective]

meeting up in the forest

inb4 niggas rob yo ass

then found out they’re moving to another state

we had talks of moving in together one day despite some mental issues we both have (but we love each other anyways despite our imperfections)

it just hurts how someone that rlly likes you is so far away

Yeah but if you don't have actual plans, those talks about when you'll move in together are just going to stay as talks and nothing more.
Is this your first relationship?

Personally, i don’t think I could ever get into a LDR. The furthest relationship i had was 100km, and we used to meet up once or twice a week

I know this person is currently your whole world and all, but i would advise you to be careful. Desperation and naivety are the worst combo you could have. I’m saying this because if you’re already depressed, the last thing you want is to give all your energy and money to move across multiple states for someone, only to get dumped a few months later

 

[160cmcurry]

inb4 niggas rob yo ass

if only
it’s a public area

showed me a video of it
it’s rlly nice

Yeah but if you don't have actual plans, those talks about when you'll move in together are just going to stay as talks and nothing more.
Is this your first relationship?

yeah

both of us

Personally, i don’t think I could ever get into a LDR. The furthest relationship i had was 100km, and we used to meet up once or twice a week

I know this person is currently your whole world and all, but i would advise you to be careful. Desperation and naivety are the worst combo you could have. I’m saying this because if you’re already depressed, the last thing you want is to give all your energy and money to move across multiple states for someone, only to get dumped a few months later

they would never, they can’t, i just don’t think they’ll leave me like that

never have i felt wanted before

loved by someone so angelic

for someone to smile instead of pulling away

for someone to see every awkward part of me and decide it isn’t something that needs fixing

for someone to hear all the things i never say out loud and still choose to remain close

i don’t know what to do with that feeling

but if i let go for even a second
i’ll lose it

i think i’d break down completely if they just dumped me after everything

i just don’t think they’re the type of person to do that

 

[TheGreatDetective]

it’s a public area

Oh okok. You can never be too safe. Don't go to weird sketchy places to meet new people brah

yeah

both of us

That's good at least. Assuming she's telling the truth that is. If it's her first relationship, it definitely boosts the chances of it lasting longer

they would never, they can’t, i just don’t think they’ll leave me like that

never have i felt wanted before

loved by someone so angelic

for someone to smile instead of pulling away

for someone to see every awkward part of me and decide it isn’t something that needs fixing

for someone to hear all the things i never say out loud and still choose to remain close

i don’t know what to do with that feeling

but if i let go for even a second
i’ll lose it

i think i’d break down completely if they just dumped me after everything

i just don’t think they’re the type of person to do that

See this is what i was warning you about. You should be careful with this type of mindset. 'She would never' 'She's not the type to do that' etc, etc. I've been through multiple relationships and thought the exact same thing. Everyone thinks they've found their unicorn.

I guess this is something you simply have to experience yourself. There's no point in me trying to explain it, because it's hard to understand if you've never seen your partner, someone who was always kind, turn into an angry, spiteful person. Someone who says things you never thought they would say

I've met people like that. They stick by you even after you vent, well, for a while anyway, even after they've seen your weaknesses. And you think 'Oh wow, this is really the one' Well, it's not that simple. Women are extremely fickle by nature

The more you base your worth on her, the worse it could potentially be. I wish nothing but the best for you two. I'm just warning you. Shit like this has a lot of potential to end badly