
Eärendil
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I asked on r/dating for advice about being too scared to use dating apps because I'm embrassed of my ethnic background. For context I live in a multicultural country (UK) and there isn't need for any shame, but my background doesnt have the best connotations and is labeled largely even by our own politicians as rapists and child molesters etc.
I love being British (was born here), but I just feel I would truly feel at peace if I was born white and ethnically English/Irish/Scottish or Welsh in the first place.
It makes me feel really lonely and no one really seems to understand my sentiments. Even tho who I thought were close friends just basically insulted me for my feelings.
I just hate myself so much. What do I do? I also hate my own gender but that's a story for another time. I just really wish I could be reborn.
@Jason Voorhees @Swarthy Knight @Chadeep @SecularIslamist @greycel
I love being British (was born here), but I just feel I would truly feel at peace if I was born white and ethnically English/Irish/Scottish or Welsh in the first place.
It makes me feel really lonely and no one really seems to understand my sentiments. Even tho who I thought were close friends just basically insulted me for my feelings.
I just hate myself so much. What do I do? I also hate my own gender but that's a story for another time. I just really wish I could be reborn.
@Jason Voorhees @Swarthy Knight @Chadeep @SecularIslamist @greycel
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