54manlet
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Right now, I am dating a girl with no job and pretty much no financial support from her parents, other than a place to live, food, and sometimes money. Because of this, she asks me to buy her stuff a lot, like doordash or other small things. Ofc I always pay for dates and whatever. It wasn't always like this for me, though. When I was younger, the girls I dated or talked to were the ones who spent money on me. They would buy me food at the mall, one time about a hundred on a date, stuff like that. For older ppl, that isn't a lot, but for a young teen, it was everything they had. And the best part is that I am actually financially well off, my parents have good jobs, so I can live without one. They had no reason to spend money on me other than that they liked me. Going back to now, I am now the one spending money, and I hate it. I feel like a cuck. Maybe if I tried being a little more manipulative with my current girlfriend, things could change, but idk. It doesn't matter as much as it does in my head because I still don't have a job, and it isn't really my money. I hate growing up. Most of the time, I just lie and say I have no money rn. She's not the most entitled girl in the world, far from it, but still not like how I would prefer. I hope she gets a job soon, like she says, since she's graduating. I will never get how people are happy or excited to spoil their girl, like you could have used that money for yourself.
