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He shot his shot while yall still dribbling
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Actually you can get into new circles at your job, it's pretty easy to hang out with coworkers outside of the job.
In my innocence I thought so too, until I got a really good job that had future prospects, not some wage slave type shit where they abuse inexperienced students to turn burghers, and you can go out with them to smoke and drink and complain to each other about what a shitty life you guys have..
Guess what, 99% of the people there were 30-35+ years old (so much older than me, at a different point in life, different outlook on life, different problems and priorities, etc.) who had families, children or soon to have them, already had many friends from high school/university and extended family to hang out with on the weekends and during the week they just went home to their wife and kids to rest..
The only time we went out was like 2-3 times a year (and those only on special and well-planned occasions) with the whole department at a restaurant for around 3-4 hours in the evening (so like 20-30 people at 2-3 long tables, where you could only socialize with 2-3 people around you, just like in a card game, as the cards come to you randomly, which ones happen to be next to you)
Obviously the most experienced knew all this, and they strategically placed themselves early on next to the most attractive and most extroverted / influential people, as well as the managers. The rest of us were forced to stay among ourselves, socializing in a strange way about what we wanted to eat and drink, and that was it, because no one was interested in anyone's life/anyone there in the first place..
The 1% of people my age don't give a shit about me anyway, they already had partners, cars, etc. and their lives were relatively settled, and they generally had other thoughts and problems, and when they socialized, and they rarely did, they only did it with their superiors, everything in a very professional manner and strictly work-related.. otherwise everyone was waiting for the program to end to go home..
And this message it should be good for @sub5outsider too..im 29 too
You're soon reaching half the life expectancy of men in developed countries.. You'll be lucky if you make it to around 70, but chances are you won't..
By 25 you should had everything in place, stable job with a salary at least equal to the average of the city where you live, girlfriend/wife, maybe even first child or in maximum 1-2 years from now, car, home, bank debts, friends, extended family, routine, etc.
If you missed this train of this window of time, and you're still behind on these things, they'll never happen.. Things from this point on will only go downhill (health, energy, looks, willingness to put effort into new things and do things in general, older parents, therefore sicker, therefore higher risk of dying and being left without their support, etc.)
Time will also start to pass faster and faster, and eventually you will wake up here..


Doing shit like this.. (Your brain won't accept your age and life, and it will think that by doing this he can reset everything, as if you could start over from high school again, with a girl from there, and start building things with her, etc.)