then become a better person no other way, if you have mental problems go to therapy
Oh right. Let me just magically become a good person
yeah go to therapy itll improve you
To put it simply I don’t treat people like people anymore especially foids
Dude stop speaking in fucking riddles just be direct in the shit you said and did. What did SHE exactly highlight for her to leave you.
Personalitymaxxing yes why didn’t I think of that
The exact reason was because I said the n word over text to someone else and she was a black bitch
now do u want real advice or someone to console u like a fag
Valid king you’re never the problem
If your real advice is saying some dumb shit like “personalitymax” then you can keep it to yourself
Bruh we thought you were some dark triad serial killer beating on bitches the way you were moping
a lot of ppl call ppl niggers all the time but u just have to learn when its the right time. get help
coming from a pysch major and someone who has dealt w all kinds of ppl, the idea that ur never gonna change is absolutley retarded, u could js b saying that bc ur in the middle of a breakup but ur personality isnt stuck forever. most "horrible" behavior is usually js defensive mechanisms or bad habits for example selfishness is something that served a purpose at some point in ur life, u arent born with traits you practice them. dont try to be a "good person" start doing small things like taking a few seconds before saying something when arguing w ur gf or if shes telling you ab her day, ask a follow up question. if you trul believe you will never change, then fucking accept it and rope. being a bad person is incredibly lonely and high maintenace. you will need to keep managing lies, bridge bruning, and the cycle of constantly being left behind. and if you really want to change, go talk to a therapist. i dont know you. there may just be underlying impulsivity or emotional regulation issues ect ect. that how you personality maxx
u framed ur statement as looks not being the issue... this is not to say you're an ugly nigga definitely not.
didnt read but mirin the essay for this mopey niggacoming from a pysch major and someone who has dealt w all kinds of ppl, the idea that ur never gonna change is absolutley retarded, u could js b saying that bc ur in the middle of a breakup but ur personality isnt stuck forever. most "horrible" behavior is usually js defensive mechanisms or bad habits for example selfishness is something that served a purpose at some point in ur life, u arent born with traits you practice them. dont try to be a "good person" start doing small things like taking a few seconds before saying something when arguing w ur gf or if shes telling you ab her day, ask a follow up question. if you trul believe you will never change, then fucking accept it and rope. being a bad person is incredibly lonely and high maintenace. you will need to keep managing lies, bridge bruning, and the cycle of constantly being left behind. and if you really want to change, go talk to a therapist. i dont know you. there may just be underlying impulsivity or emotional regulation issues ect ect. that how you personality maxx
my non black ex said the n word 24/7, him masking and acting like someone hes not might js means hes not going to find the right people for him
ty bhai
Nevermind I read this is super thoughtful and high IQ. NOT to make this thread about myself but I definitely relate. Having to manage lies, cutting ppl off, and just feeling outcasted is so draining. For me I found out I had ADHD and medication like Vyvanse helps me so much.coming from a pysch major and someone who has dealt w all kinds of ppl, the idea that ur never gonna change is absolutley retarded, u could js b saying that bc ur in the middle of a breakup but ur personality isnt stuck forever. most "horrible" behavior is usually js defensive mechanisms or bad habits for example selfishness is something that served a purpose at some point in ur life, u arent born with traits you practice them. dont try to be a "good person" start doing small things like taking a few seconds before saying something when arguing w ur gf or if shes telling you ab her day, ask a follow up question. if you trul believe you will never change, then fucking accept it and rope. being a bad person is incredibly lonely and high maintenace. you will need to keep managing lies, bridge bruning, and the cycle of constantly being left behind. and if you really want to change, go talk to a therapist. i dont know you. there may just be underlying impulsivity or emotional regulation issues ect ect. that how you personality maxx
understandable, i have adhd as well, being diagnosed (late) I was told I have it in the way many women do (which is why i got daignosed late and got into pysch) I have tried medication out, doesnt work for me. happy it works for you bro
lawl yeah definitely case by case. did you also struggle at some point with "performing" and "masking"? it feels so subhuman and i didnt realize but all i wanted was a sense of unity and acceptance without having to do allat
most women i meet are inattentive is that what you mean? also did u try alternatives like concerta and shit?
i have much more internalized symptoms rather than hyperactive ones like men tend to. I have tried every rx on the market and i would feel life drian out of me.
definitley. i unmasked a lot with my ex, but it made realize how much happier i felt, however i was very attatched to her (still am) and it made realize that unity I was looking for would just be a different group of people than i surround my self with. asier said than done tho
Nah it definitely dims ur light a bit but the tradeoffs were worth it for me. Especially if you got the shitty symptoms like executive dysfunction and an internal monologue trying to rape youi have much more internalized symptoms rather than hyperactive ones like men tend to. I have tried every rx on the market and i would feel life drian out of me.
i was intrested in pysch because i realized how many people came to me with problems and how much i liked to help i was hoping i could make money off that after getting a 5 on the ap pysch exam
i also do
heavy on internal monologue bro
100%
do you feel more attached because you were able to unmask? and you haven't found a specific group that lets you be as comfortable
