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Before going into more detail I wanna add that I do not hold any grudges against women and am not blaming women for not being attracted to me. I just see society as it is superficial. Men and women.
I’m 20 years old, and over time, everything I’ve seen, read, and experienced has led me to adopt a blackpilled mindset about dating. Studies consistently show that looks are the most important factor in attraction, not just on dating apps, where the top 10% of men get most of the attention, but in general. There are countless studies proving this, and my real-life experiences have only reinforced it. None of my non-attractive friends have ever been in a relationship, and every situation I’ve been in has pointed to the same conclusion.
I’m short, severely balding, have crooked teeth that aren’t easily fixable due to a narrow jaw and bad facial features overall and many more unflattering features. I once had a girl who I suspected was interested in me. Texting often, laughing at all my jokes, caught her looking at me many times. But as soon as I started losing my hair, her interest vanished overnight.
At a party once, I saw a girl I found really attractive. I tried talking to her, but she barely acknowledged me and acted disinterested. An hour later, she was leaning on the shoulder of my tall, good-looking friend someone she had barely spoken to.
Then there’s a girl I have a crush on. A good friend of mine. She often compliments my personality, confidence, and intelligence things that are supposedly important when it comes to gaining attraction. But she is not attracted to me despite her literally saying I have all the personality traits you‘d look for in a partner. Instead, she immediately liked a guy who fits her usual type. Blonde and good facial features.
At first, it was hard to accept that I’ll likely never experience romantic love. But after seeing the same patterns repeat again and again, I’ve made peace with it. And honestly? I feel pretty good and confident now.
My life is going pretty well outside of dating. I have just started a business I am passionate about, I work out regularly and my physique is not that bad. I also have a good social circle with friends I regularly meet including female friends.
I’m 20 years old, and over time, everything I’ve seen, read, and experienced has led me to adopt a blackpilled mindset about dating. Studies consistently show that looks are the most important factor in attraction, not just on dating apps, where the top 10% of men get most of the attention, but in general. There are countless studies proving this, and my real-life experiences have only reinforced it. None of my non-attractive friends have ever been in a relationship, and every situation I’ve been in has pointed to the same conclusion.
I’m short, severely balding, have crooked teeth that aren’t easily fixable due to a narrow jaw and bad facial features overall and many more unflattering features. I once had a girl who I suspected was interested in me. Texting often, laughing at all my jokes, caught her looking at me many times. But as soon as I started losing my hair, her interest vanished overnight.
At a party once, I saw a girl I found really attractive. I tried talking to her, but she barely acknowledged me and acted disinterested. An hour later, she was leaning on the shoulder of my tall, good-looking friend someone she had barely spoken to.
Then there’s a girl I have a crush on. A good friend of mine. She often compliments my personality, confidence, and intelligence things that are supposedly important when it comes to gaining attraction. But she is not attracted to me despite her literally saying I have all the personality traits you‘d look for in a partner. Instead, she immediately liked a guy who fits her usual type. Blonde and good facial features.
At first, it was hard to accept that I’ll likely never experience romantic love. But after seeing the same patterns repeat again and again, I’ve made peace with it. And honestly? I feel pretty good and confident now.
My life is going pretty well outside of dating. I have just started a business I am passionate about, I work out regularly and my physique is not that bad. I also have a good social circle with friends I regularly meet including female friends.
