I have an extremely serious thing to discuss with you guys in this thread. (Very NSFW)

[Deleted member 26197]

I have a group of three friends in highschool that we are always talking to each other and hanging around. But there is a huge problem: in my school in the last year we used to have classes always in the morning and in the afternoon so we always had to stay late in school except in the fridays, but one day we decided to stay in school in the morning of a friday so we could finish a work we had to do.

But instead of finishing the work we ended up throwing hygienic paper balls in the ceilling of the bathroom and two guys that worked in school found us and we went to the principal and they called our parents and told they about what happened but we had to stay in school until a certain time before going home.

Here's the big deal when we were in school before getting home we started talking about how bad our fathers would react to the situation, and my friends started talking about bad things our parents did:

Spoiler

One of my friends (whose father has a farm and sometimes work there) said that his father used to rape the rural animals

 

[Deleted member 23558]

 

[FaceandBBC]

Nigga

 

[Unhuman]

I have a group of three friends in highschool that we are always talking to each other and hanging around. But there is a huge problem: in my school in the last year we used to have classes always in the morning and in the afternoon so we always had to stay late in school except in the fridays, but one day we decided to stay in school in the morning of a fryday so we could finish a work we had to do.

But instead of finishing the work we ended up throwing hygienic paper balls in the ceilling of the bathroom and two guys that worked in school found us and we went to the principal and they called our parents and told they about what happened but we had to stay in school until a certain time before going home.

Here's the big deal when we were in school before getting home we started talking about how bad our fathers would react to the situation, and my friends started talking about bad things our parents did:

Spoiler

One of my friends (whose father has a farm and sometimes work there) said that his father used to rape the rural animals

damn man that’s pretty fucked up.

 

[WayneBraaaah]

Just an average day in glorious India.
Sheep shagging FC

 

[pig_face]

 

[Deleted member 26197]

damn man that’s pretty fucked up.

iirc at the momemt one of my other friends said that his father also used to do it and the other said that he has a whatsapp sticker of a guy fucking a chicken

This all happened last year, but I still talk to them normally, I think they don't even remember that day it's weird as shit because the two guys talk about their fathers as if they still considered them normal people and as if nothing bad ever happened

I never was brave enough to talk to anyone about it, didn't even montion this theme to anyone.

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Join him

 

[Deleted member 26197]

Just an average day in glorious India.
Sheep shagging FC

I live in Brazil, the creepiest part is that my friend still loves his father and lives with him and talks about him normally as if he was a normal person

 

[aesthetic beauty]

I live in Brazil, the creepiest part is that my friend still loves his father and lives with him and talks about him normally as if he was a normal person

cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing.

 

[Deleted member 26197]

cognitive dissonance is a powerful thing.

We kept talking normally as if nothing unusual ever happened and lived our lives in a completely normal way.

I never had the balls to talk to anyone about it, it was almost one year ago and today is the first time I am talking about it.

I don't know what to do about my friends now, but I know another friend of mine whose father is a police officer, and now I wonder if someday I should tell him about what happened.

 

[whiteislandpill]

I have a group of three friends in highschool that we are always talking to each other and hanging around. But there is a huge problem: in my school in the last year we used to have classes always in the morning and in the afternoon so we always had to stay late in school except in the fridays, but one day we decided to stay in school in the morning of a friday so we could finish a work we had to do.

But instead of finishing the work we ended up throwing hygienic paper balls in the ceilling of the bathroom and two guys that worked in school found us and we went to the principal and they called our parents and told they about what happened but we had to stay in school until a certain time before going home.

Here's the big deal when we were in school before getting home we started talking about how bad our fathers would react to the situation, and my friends started talking about bad things our parents did:

Spoiler

One of my friends (whose father has a farm and sometimes work there) said that his father used to rape the rural animals

Good one, fake story. How do you even come up with this shit?

 

[Deleted member 26197]

Good one, fake story. How do you even come up with this shit?

Not a fake story, plus there are some things that I know because I still talk to him: he said it in a way as if his father told it to him and not as if he saw his father doing it so there is a chance that one of them are lying, his father is married and works as a teacher, my friend also has a sister which makes me wonder how fucked that family must be

Also that friend of mine does some fucked up shit sometimes: like taking pics of girls without them knowing, drinks with his father and once he spanked a guy from school and got suspended for a week for it, plus now (in the last year of highschool) we only have classes in the morning and in the afternoon he goes to some pub (the word we use here in Brazil is "bar") and he drinks almost everyday.

This shit I am saying today isn't fake I swear, I never told anyone because I never was strong enough to talk about it or even mention it I just wanted to forget it and live like a normal person, today is the first time in my life that I decided to talk about it.

 

[Deleted member 31155]

Not a fake story, plus there are some things that I know because I still talk to him: he said it in a way as if his father told it to him and not as if he saw his father doing it so there is a chance that one of them are lying, his father is married and works as a teacher, my friend also has a sister which makes me wonder how fucked that family must be

Also that friend of mine does some fucked up shit sometimes: like taking pics of girls without them knowing, drinks with his father and once he spanked a guy from school and got suspended for a week for it, plus now (in the last year of highschool) we only have classes in the morning and in the afternoon he goes to some pub (the word we use here in Brazil is "bar") and he drinks almost everyday.

This shit I am saying today isn't fake I swear, I never told anyone because I never was strong enough to talk about it or even mention it I just wanted to forget it and live like a normal person, today is the first time in my life that I decided to talk about it.

Cant you anonymously contact animal protection services?

 

[iam good boy]

I have a group of three friends in highschool that we are always talking to each other and hanging around. But there is a huge problem: in my school in the last year we used to have classes always in the morning and in the afternoon so we always had to stay late in school except in the fridays, but one day we decided to stay in school in the morning of a friday so we could finish a work we had to do.

But instead of finishing the work we ended up throwing hygienic paper balls in the ceilling of the bathroom and two guys that worked in school found us and we went to the principal and they called our parents and told they about what happened but we had to stay in school until a certain time before going home.

Here's the big deal when we were in school before getting home we started talking about how bad our fathers would react to the situation, and my friends started talking about bad things our parents did:

Spoiler

One of my friends (whose father has a farm and sometimes work there) said that his father used to rape the rural animals

That is literally nothing just go to north part of india they rape bulls and goat

 

[Deleted member 26197]

Cant you anonymously contact animal protection services?

I will talk to some guy I know whose father is a police officer so we can disscuss and analyse the situation, the problem is that I am afraid of doing something because I have zero proof and there is a high risk of either the father or the guy being lyers (considering both of them drink alchool) and I don't want to make an extremely serious accusation without having proofs.

 

[Splinter901]

Wtf are those wrinkles it's ovER

 

[dreamcake1mo]

Stop. Your doing too much.

Like you said, it could be some joke. Your best option is to get new friends. You have no conclusive evidence that such things happened so the only thing you will end up doing is alerting the police and letting your friends know that you reported them. Your literally putting yourself at risk for multiple sources of hate for no real reason at all. They are more things to worry about considering the people you are close with have been showing signs of strange behavior since forever.

I mean, it seems the issue is deeper than just your friends dad. Are you scared of your friends? Your fear for their lack of mental and moral precision growing to be dangerous to you? It seems this way, because to me its like your typing a amalgamous amount of information aside from the main trigger point. like you observing your friends behavior to also be strange. And in this case, your better off putting aside the ghost reasonings, and getting to the source.

For your information, yes its weird as fuck for their parents to fuck farm animals. But its not so strange that the son wouldnt report it. Kids as kids rarely see fault into their parents behavior due to their state of being. Also, kids are like sponges, if you practice certain behaviors around them they will adopt at least some of them. So to him, maybe such things are normal. MAYBE. The problem is when adulthood comes, the person has to make the decisions of mental and moral precision. And that situation wont pass him. And this process gets very painful/weird for the person and does not always happen overnight. (Maybe thats why your friend may have a drinking problem, for example). Theres also a chance the person may take on the fathers mental and moral outlook, or still be close with their dad even after judging the situation to be morally or mentally imprecise.

But either way your best option in such a situation would be to slowly pull out of the friend group or option 2. You can try to get shit sorted, but the police wont help. Its a risk you will have to take. Option 2 is doing things like pulling your friend to the side and telling him in a serious tone that "if you ever have any family issues you can talk to me about it." and that you compared your experiences with his family experiences, and realized they are not the same, and make sure to assure him your not judging him or anything, and that you know it was said as a joke, but just incase your hurting over it or whatever.""" This is the virtuous option, but like i said, its the involved way. The other option is to simply slowly calculate your leave of the friend group. Because in a lot of ways the person may still be close to the parent regardless of mentally and morally imprecise actions, making you a stranger against them the moment you deem those behaviors, including the persons behavior of still being close to such a person, mentally and morally imprecise.

 

[garoupilled_]

Extremamente normal pessoal do interior fazer isso

 

[Deleted member 29786]

his father used to rape the rural animals

average brazilian

 

[RichardSpencel]

My honest reaction to this bombshell

 

[StrangerDanger]

Why so judgemental? why even care, just think of it its a fun fact and move on dude

 

[RAMU KAKA]

Am only human after all

 

[Musclecel]

BBC only

 

[Deleted member 26197]

Stop. Your doing too much.

Like you said, it could be some joke. Your best option is to get new friends. You have no conclusive evidence that such things happened so the only thing you will end up doing is alerting the police and letting your friends know that you reported them. Your literally putting yourself at risk for multiple sources of hate for no real reason at all. They are more things to worry about considering the people you are close with have been showing signs of strange behavior since forever.

I mean, it seems the issue is deeper than just your friends dad. Are you scared of your friends? Your fear for their lack of mental and moral precision growing to be dangerous to you? It seems this way, because to me its like your typing a amalgamous amount of information aside from the main trigger point. like you observing your friends behavior to also be strange. And in this case, your better off putting aside the ghost reasonings, and getting to the source.

For your information, yes its weird as fuck for their parents to fuck farm animals. But its not so strange that the son wouldnt report it. Kids as kids rarely see fault into their parents behavior due to their state of being. Also, kids are like sponges, if you practice certain behaviors around them they will adopt at least some of them. So to him, maybe such things are normal. MAYBE. The problem is when adulthood comes, the person has to make the decisions of mental and moral precision. And that situation wont pass him. And this process gets very painful/weird for the person and does not always happen overnight. (Maybe thats why your friend may have a drinking problem, for example). Theres also a chance the person may take on the fathers mental and moral outlook, or still be close with their dad even after judging the situation to be morally or mentally imprecise.

But either way your best option in such a situation would be to slowly pull out of the friend group or option 2. You can try to get shit sorted, but the police wont help. Its a risk you will have to take. Option 2 is doing things like pulling your friend to the side and telling him in a serious tone that "if you ever have any family issues you can talk to me about it." and that you compared your experiences with his family experiences, and realized they are not the same, and make sure to assure him your not judging him or anything, and that you know it was said as a joke, but just incase your hurting over it or whatever.""" This is the virtuous option, but like i said, its the involved way. The other option is to simply slowly calculate your leave of the friend group. Because in a lot of ways the person may still be close to the parent regardless of mentally and morally imprecise actions, making you a stranger against them the moment you deem those behaviors, including the persons behavior of still being close to such a person, mentally and morally imprecise.

By far the best comment here.

In fact the morals my friends in school have are extremely weird they're like the polar opposite of mine. I still walk with them because they're the only guys of my class who are friends with me and I don't want to be alone in school.

It's a very strange situation because my friends often look like are the happiest people I know, but one of them was sometimes sad and crying because his girlfriend left him (this friend I'm talking about has a normal family not an awful one), but I have never seen the guy who has an awful father cry in school

 

[Deleted member 26197]

Why so judgemental? why even care, just think of it its a fun fact and move on dude

My friend's entire family needs help but I never told anyone about it.