I have become ND to an awful point.

[piercemylips2]

I have become so socially inapt that a girl approached me at the library and somehow I managed to fuck it up. I have confidence until its time to step up. We exchanged eye contact a couple of times and threw eachother a smile and then she approached me, but im so socially awkard in situations like this that I fuck it up. Its like I forget how to talk or to move, I overanalyze every single gesture that I make and I didnt have the balls to keep eyecontact. I would really appreciate some geniune advice.
As background: i never got girls attention until I got in 10th grade, it got better as the years past Im 2nd year in college now, also had a year and a half relationship at some point, but I think my mind is still stuck at the way I was percieved in middle school and early highschool.

 

[KajosLosos]

I have become so socially inapt that a girl approached me at the library and somehow I managed to fuck it up. I have confidence until its time to step up. We exchanged eye contact a couple of times and threw eachother a smile and then she approached me, but im so socially awkard in situations like this that I fuck it up. Its like I forget how to talk or to move, I overanalyze every single gesture that I make and I didnt have the balls to keep eyecontact. I would really appreciate some geniune advice.
As background: i never got girls attention until I got in 10th grade, it got better as the years past Im 2nd year in college now, also had a year and a half relationship at some point, but I think my mind is still stuck at the way I was percieved in middle school and early highschool.

Well there isn't that much u can do but put yourself in those type of situations more and more and eventually u will get use to it

 

[copester2]

I have become so socially inapt that a girl approached me at the library and somehow I managed to fuck it up. I have confidence until its time to step up. We exchanged eye contact a couple of times and threw eachother a smile and then she approached me, but im so socially awkard in situations like this that I fuck it up. Its like I forget how to talk or to move, I overanalyze every single gesture that I make and I didnt have the balls to keep eyecontact. I would really appreciate some geniune advice.
As background: i never got girls attention until I got in 10th grade, it got better as the years past Im 2nd year in college now, also had a year and a half relationship at some point, but I think my mind is still stuck at the way I was percieved in middle school and early highschool.

you cant become neurodivergent, your born with it ex autism

 

[killyourselfASAP]

I have become so socially inapt that a girl approached me at the library and somehow I managed to fuck it up. I have confidence until its time to step up. We exchanged eye contact a couple of times and threw eachother a smile and then she approached me, but im so socially awkard in situations like this that I fuck it up. Its like I forget how to talk or to move, I overanalyze every single gesture that I make and I didnt have the balls to keep eyecontact. I would really appreciate some geniune advice.
As background: i never got girls attention until I got in 10th grade, it got better as the years past Im 2nd year in college now, also had a year and a half relationship at some point, but I think my mind is still stuck at the way I was percieved in middle school and early highschool.

giga relate, it feels like my face has paralysed, cant even move my lips to smile. once i get the hint that my autism has been spotted, its game over, my nd levels increase exponentially after that

 

[fixmyasymmetry]

I can understand this. I suffer from smthn similar but the way ive helped myself is by changing my mindset. U need to remember that this girl isnt perfect and she's got just as many flaws as u. Remember that this girl needs to earn u. By doing this, u put less emphasis in ur mind into this conversation and detach yourself from it which allows u to relax and be yourself.

 

[fixmyasymmetry]

giga relate, it feels like my face has paralysed, cant even move my lips to smile. once i get the hint that my autism has been spotted, its game over, my nd levels increase exponentially after that

yeah I do that some people are so nt I just cba

 

[Centurion_Hunter]

I have become so socially inapt that a girl approached me at the library and somehow I managed to fuck it up. I have confidence until its time to step up. We exchanged eye contact a couple of times and threw eachother a smile and then she approached me, but im so socially awkard in situations like this that I fuck it up. Its like I forget how to talk or to move, I overanalyze every single gesture that I make and I didnt have the balls to keep eyecontact. I would really appreciate some geniune advice.
As background: i never got girls attention until I got in 10th grade, it got better as the years past Im 2nd year in college now, also had a year and a half relationship at some point, but I think my mind is still stuck at the way I was percieved in middle school and early highschool.

sorry to hear that kind . my advice is to just put on a mask

 

[Francisco_Bs]

I have become so socially inapt that a girl approached me at the library and somehow I managed to fuck it up. I have confidence until its time to step up. We exchanged eye contact a couple of times and threw eachother a smile and then she approached me, but im so socially awkard in situations like this that I fuck it up. Its like I forget how to talk or to move, I overanalyze every single gesture that I make and I didnt have the balls to keep eyecontact. I would really appreciate some geniune advice.
As background: i never got girls attention until I got in 10th grade, it got better as the years past Im 2nd year in college now, also had a year and a half relationship at some point, but I think my mind is still stuck at the way I was percieved in middle school and early highschool.

Jfl you retarded, if a girl approached me i would forget what nd or nt or even looksmaxxing is.

 

[Cralxa]

Well there isn't that much u can do but put yourself in those type of situations more and more and eventually u will get use to it

Stfu that makes it worse i litteraly shake if i interact with someone so idk how to start

 

[KajosLosos]

Stfu that makes it worse i litteraly shake if i interact with someone so idk how to start

Exactly u don't start u keep shaking u start it will get better eventually there isn't any other way to do this sober or without any tablets

 

[archef]

pussy ah nigga

 

[Cralxa]

Exactly u don't start u keep shaking u start it will get better eventually there isn't any other way to do this sober or without any tablets

Idfk how bro idk how to start idk if youve ever been in my shoes but its so crazy

 

[KajosLosos]

Idfk how bro idk how to start idk if youve ever been in my shoes but its so crazy

Yes bro i know it well that feeling i was and partially i still am but what i found out is u have to start little u can't just go on and have a full conversation it is imposible start small dor example asking what time it is ect it's hard but there isn't really any other way i hope the best for you bhaii