i have met an attractive girl through social circles once

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it was back in 2017 at a festival. i had gone out with some people i met off facebook and there was a cute girl with them.

she sat by herself, not saying a word and wouldnt even look at me or anyone else for that matter.

muh social circles, muh proximity, if you are a sub4 nothing matters and nothing will ever matter.
 
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That’s not social circles or proximity, that’s just an awkward meet up group.

Real social circles form through school, work, events, sports teams, etc.
 
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whats the difference?


"real social circles" lmao, anything is a social circle

People you know and trust, have lived life with, versus random people in some Facebook group. Big difference.
 
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it was back in 2017 at a festival. i had gone out with some people i met off facebook and there was a cute girl with them.

she sat by herself, not saying a word and wouldnt even look at me or anyone else for that matter.

muh social circles, muh proximity, if you are a sub4 nothing matters and nothing will ever matter.
what
 
warm the ice bro

i agree true
 
Height is the only social circle u need
 
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People you know and trust, have lived life with, versus random people in some Facebook group.
some social circles are like that, some arent. some social circles have fuckable girls in them, some dont. you are just fixated on an idealized version of a social circle in your head that you think would solve your problems.
 
some social circles are like that, some arent. some social circles have fuckable girls in them, some dont. you are just fixated on an idealized version of a social circle in your head that you think would solve your problems.

Most of my posts about social circles come from the ones I was in college, which yes had fuckable girls in them, and yes it helped me and just about all the other guys in it. And it’s not about “my problems”, I’m sharing my experiences to try to help people.

Something like it probably would’ve helped you too because clearly that you think a Facebook group is comparable to a college social circle - you’re comparing meeting one girl 9 years ago to guys who go to parties a lot and meet dozens every weekend - means you have almost no social experience, you’ve never known, you’re just not qualified to speak about this.

“Solve your problems” That’s you projecting your own poverty mindset onto everyone. It’s not really about solving problems, it’s about what’s better and what’s natural. Social circle is not the only way to get laid, never said it was, but it is by far the most natural and healthy way to meet girls.
 
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I was in college, which yes had fuckable girls in them, and yes it helped me and just about all the other guys in it
sounds very idealized. real life isnt like that

Something like it probably would’ve helped you too
nah im too ugly for anything to be of help

to guys who go to parties a lot and meet dozens every weekend
do these girls want to meet them though?

it’s about what’s better and what’s natural. Social circle is not the only way to get laid, never said it was, but it is by far the most natural and healthy way to meet girls.
see, you are doing this again, you are idealizing situations
 

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