i have never in my life been attracted to a girl

[otal_duu]

im just often told i dont accept other poins of view and that i can be hard to work with because when i lead the project im overly strict etc etc

Are you aware of this issue when it happens, and are you actively trying to improve yourself?
And does it only happen in uni settings or outside of it, like in parties or when you're hanging out w friends?
Sorry if I'm asking a lot of questions, I'm just curious as to how your mind works

 

[valentine]

So you'd suck your own cock is what you're saying

have you got your T levels checked

its less of a sexuality issue but more about me not wanting to deal with relationships and not being able to connect to them because i find everyone but myself disgusting, the human body is disgusting

 

[valentine]

Are you aware of this issue when it happens, and are you actively trying to improve yourself?
And does it only happen in uni settings or outside of it, like in parties or when you're hanging out w friends?
Sorry if I'm asking a lot of questions, I'm just curious as to how your mind works

i disrespect people on purpose then act like i dont know what theyre talking about when im called out for it, its more of a defense mechanism. if i disrespect them first then i wont look like a fool when they do it to me. i have a fear of being nice to people and them switching up on me later. thats why i cut everyone off and block them everywhere at every slight inconveniece

 

[Sayonara]

all the dark triad shit is so cringe to me and doesnt come off the way theyre intending.
im one of the most disliked people at my uni honestly, and im often told i lack empathy and could be more open minded. is ts dark triad

Introverted much?

 

[zemult]

its less of a sexuality issue but more about me not wanting to deal with relationships and not being able to connect to them because i find everyone but myself disgusting, the human body is disgusting

I'm just shitposting but yeah you're probably asexual

 

[valentine]

Introverted much?

no, its honestly sad when i think about it. id like to fit in but i know i wont and thats why i choose to be rude to people, its all just to prevent them from disrespecting me in the future, i know how fake they are

 

[Sayonara]

no, its honestly sad when i think about it. id like to fit in but i know i wont and thats why i choose to be rude to people, its all just to prevent them from disrespecting me in the future, i know how fake they are

great, you're too nice don't be like that irl

 

[White_Bwoi]

Yo I se not a single high iq response, only fag accusations

- check your T levels + prolactin it might be the reason of LOW LIBIDO - you should be horny at this age ngl
- depression can also suppress desire, can't believe there is no 1 GL cute girl around you

 

[valentine]

Yo I se not a single high iq response, only fag accusations

- check your T levels + prolactin it might be the reason of LOW LIBIDO - you should be horny at this age ngl
- depression can also suppress desire, can't believe there is no 1 GL cute girl around you

you get it
its not about sexual attraction, i know the possibility of me ever being in a relationship is so unrealistic i automatically block those thoughts, i feel like im not human and dont deserve or understand it

 

[otal_duu]

i disrespect people on purpose then act like i dont know what theyre talking about when im called out for it, its more of a defense mechanism. if i disrespect them first then i wont look like a fool when they do it to me. i have a fear of being nice to people and them switching up on me later. thats why i cut everyone off and block them everywhere at every slight inconveniece

Sounds like a trauma response if I'm being honest
I had the same thing, but instead of disrespecting people first I would ghost them out of fear of them ghosting or leaving me first.
I was also on survival mode 24/7 and my therapist told me I had avoidant attachment problems (fawn and flight)
It's hard improving sometimes, I still find myself going back to these habits unintentionally, I hope it gets better for you man.

Feel free to pm me if you need somebody to talk to, and I think you might just be asexual, maybe aromantic if you can't envision yourself in a relationship

 

[White_Bwoi]

Sounds like a trauma response if I'm being honest
I had the same thing, but instead of disrespecting people first I would ghost them out of fear of them ghosting or leaving me first.
I was also on survival mode 24/7 and my therapist told me I had avoidant attachment problems (fawn and flight)
It's hard improving sometimes, I still find myself going back to these habits unintentionally, I hope it gets better for you man.

Feel free to pm me if you need somebody to talk to, and I think you might just be asexual, maybe aromantic if you can't envision yourself in a relationship

Survival mode 24/7 was couple years of my life, not fun..
I suspect "complex ptsd" even, how do you even cure that
random FALIOS:
I for example must build intimacy slowly, if a chick would out of the blue start kissing and wants to fuck me and I'm not "ready", I can't "SLAY"/ do ONS because of it xD

WORST TRAIT for me: I tend to get into romantic relationships that are not FULLY OPTIMAL for me, and later find out that I'm REALLY attracted to someone completely different but it's too late

Lured by two different MTBs while I could get a literal Stacy_lite and wasted some years

 

[valentine]

Sounds like a trauma response if I'm being honest
I had the same thing, but instead of disrespecting people first I would ghost them out of fear of them ghosting or leaving me first.
I was also on survival mode 24/7 and my therapist told me I had avoidant attachment problems (fawn and flight)
It's hard improving sometimes, I still find myself going back to these habits unintentionally, I hope it gets better for you man.

Feel free to pm me if you need somebody to talk to, and I think you might just be asexual, maybe aromantic if you can't envision yourself in a relationship

appreciate it, ive recently been trying to improve but it doesnt seem to be working out for me, i will most likely be alone forever and thats ok, connection isnt for me

 

[R1PPer]

Wish i could like myself like you

 

[R1PPer]

Also love how mfs will just assume youre gay if you just dont like girls

 

[valentine]

Wish i could like myself like you

ts sounds like youre calling me a narcissist
i dont like the way i look, i love myself for being a good person and im the only person that fully understands myself

 

[valentine]

Also love how mfs will just assume youre gay if you just dont like girls

low iq

 

[R1PPer]

ts sounds like youre calling me a narcissist

No no no i didnt mean that in any way

 

[valentine]

No no no i didnt mean that in any way

its ok... i guess i deserve ts... heh

 

[faustianspirit]

aside from a sexual standpoint i can agree with you. i cant see myself sharing my life with a girl

 

[valentine]

i cant see myself sharing my life with a girl

this

 

[faustianspirit]

this

they wouldnt understand it tbh

 

[Sonneillon]

i disrespect people on purpose then act like i dont know what theyre talking about when im called out for it, its more of a defense mechanism. if i disrespect them first then i wont look like a fool when they do it to me. i have a fear of being nice to people and them switching up on me later. thats why i cut everyone off and block them everywhere at every slight inconveniece

me too it's funny af baiting people like that. sometimes i act stupid too so they become pissed

 

[cumer69.]

It's completely normal to want to connect with someone before you experience attraction to them lol, you don't have to be gay or autistic

 

[Sonneillon]

That's being a faggot

 

[Sonneillon]

Maybe you lack what is socially accepted as empathy or care for other human beings because you have autism

 

[gymcel64]

Have you checked your testosterone levels?