I have never seen a cold approach in my life

[Deleted member 22918]

On the street, the gym, in college

 

[Deleted member 22918]

Cold approaching easily puts u ahead of 99.99% of men

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Cold approaching strangers is retarded anyway

 

[BitchBoy]

I’ve tried it, didn’t work

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Cold approaching easily puts u ahead of 99.99% of men

easily puts you behind 99.99% of men. cold approaching is for autists

u should go out with me tbh, I cold-approach all the time and those evenings are the worst. I rack up 4-5 rejections in a short amount of time, get depressed and the evening is ruined.

 

[Deleted member 21628]

I’ve tried it, didn’t work

5’3 and not ashamed​

 

[BitchBoy]

5’3 and not ashamed​

Kill yourself you pathetic cum nigger faggot

 

[Deleted member 51576]

Unless you are a 7/10, you are going to embarrass yourself. Even as a 7/10+, you’re handing over power to the female and degrading yourself. The most successful and easiest relationships will come from a female who is crazy enough about you to approach you.

 

[AspiringMogger]

easily puts you behind 99.99% of men. cold approaching is for autists

u should go out with me tbh, I cold-approach all the time and those evenings are the worst. I rack up 4-5 rejections in a short amount of time, get depressed and the evening is ruined.

What do you say when you cold approach?

 

[Enfant terrible]

 

[wsada]

What do you say when you cold approach?

Are you from Tennessee? Bc u r the only ten I see

 

[AspiringMogger]

mentalmaxxing before cold approaching is key. If you’ve had pussy semi-recently rejection won’t bother as much. Cold approaching in a drought is worse than anything

 

[anthony111553]

easily puts you behind 99.99% of men. cold approaching is for autists

u should go out with me tbh, I cold-approach all the time and those evenings are the worst. I rack up 4-5 rejections in a short amount of time, get depressed and the evening is ruined.

i've never cold approached but i imagine going for an ugly girl and being treated like a subhuman would be ropefuel

 

[Deleted member 17578]

What do you say when you cold approach?

I don't have an opening line jfl, that's even more autistic.

You just start a conversation about the vibe, something you see, the music, something someone is wearing, etc

u make something up as you go along

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Are you from Tennessee? Bc u r the only ten I see

Every drunk night out where I cold approach 5 women and get rejected, I end up sending an incel friend of mine 10 minutes worth of voice messages where I cry about how subhuman I am and how over it is at 5AM in the morning.

It's embarrassing. I am trying to avoid this behavior in 2024 by never talking to women again, saving my sanity.

 

[Deleted member 16203]

On the street, the gym, in college

I did see it plenty of times, but only from low-inhib ghetto guys, and this also only sometimes worked on other ghetto women.

 

[Deleted member 57464]

i havent seen it either but i have done it lol

 

[Deleted member 22918]

easily puts you behind 99.99% of men. cold approaching is for autists

u should go out with me tbh, I cold-approach all the time and those evenings are the worst. I rack up 4-5 rejections in a short amount of time, get depressed and the evening is ruined.

One day i am gonna come to the netherlands and we're gonna pick up some dutch queens

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I did see it plenty of times, but only from low-inhib ghetto guys, and this also only sometimes worked on other ghetto women.

I am the only one of my friend group who cold approaches at clubs/parties. It's why most friends I have think I am a slayer/player/fuckboy with good self-esteem and confidence. (couldnt be further from the truth)

Success-rates of cold-approaching are so incredibly low though, that it's almost irrelevant unless you want to fuck girls that you brutally mog.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

One day i am gonna come to the netherlands and we're gonna pick up some dutch queens

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Legit.

 

[Deleted member 16203]

I am the only one of my friend group who cold approaches at clubs/parties. It's why most friends I have think I am a slayer/player/fuckboy with good self-esteem and confidence. (couldnt be further from the truth)

clubs and parties are different though. you're both there to have fun and once a girl smiled at you it is basically an invitation to chat them up.

I thought OP meant autistic PUA cold-approaching random women on the street who are going about their days.

Success-rates of cold-approaching are so incredibly low though, that it's almost irrelevant unless you want to fuck girls that you brutally mog.

 

[Deleted member 39692]

Cold approaching strangers is retarded anyway

how are u supposed to meet then?

 

[Deleted member 16203]

how are u supposed to meet then?

naturally through friends, at events, social gatherings, work or shared hobbies.

 

[Deleted member 39692]

naturally through friends, at events, social gatherings, work or shared hobbies.

well shared hobbies and events are still going to be strangers such as gym or campuses or concerts, clubs etc

 

[Deleted member 16203]

well shared hobbies and events are still going to be strangers such as gym or campuses or concerts, clubs etc

Well you should always wait for IOIs if you aren't a top notch chad anyway.

They will be more likely to send out these signals if they are at a certain spot with the specific intent to have a good time and meet new people.

 

[Deleted member 39692]

Well you should always wait for IOIs if you aren't a top notch chad.

Im Chad and i still prefer waiting for a clear ioi. Although i cant tell what an ioi is anymore i feel like every woman is giving me ioi’s

 

[Nick.Harte]

I saw foids approaching guys in college

 

[Deleted member 22918]

I saw foids approaching guys in college

True this actually happens

 

[Deleted member 16203]

i feel like every woman is giving me ioi’s

you're probably not wrong if you're actually a chad. sub-chads should wait for IOIs to be sure the girl is into them to not make a total clown of themselves. Chad doesn't have to bother with that.

 

[Deleted member 39692]

probably not wrong if you're actually a chad.

True this actually happens

depends on environment and how active you are

 

[fuxkdakikez]

i saw this fat mutt try to cold approach this eastern euro mtb in a alleyway and she just ignored his existence so brutal i let out a chuckle when i walked past him

 

[Deleted member 16203]

depends on environment and how active you are

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Cold approaching strangers is retarded anyway

No it's not.

 

[Deleted member 39692]

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key part: both approached. The second one gets nothing if he does nothing with his life

 

[Deleted member 16203]

The second one gets nothing if he does nothing with his life

na, wrong that's only regarding really long-term dating or even marriage. Chad still gets short-term fun if he's a bum.

 

[Deleted member 39692]

na, wrong that's only regarding really long-term dating or even marriage. Chad still gets short-term fun if he's a bum.

yeah if he is a bum. Not if he is a basement dweller. Women still need to know you exist

 

[Deleted member 16203]

yeah if he is a bum. Not if he is a basement dweller. Women still need to know you exist

autism doesn't count. if you're a chad and choose to rot at head instead of putting yourself out there its your fault

 

[Deleted member 39692]

autism doesn't count. if you're a chad and choose to rot at head instead of putting yourself out there its your fault

Yeah just saying. If you look solid you at least gotta be active outside so people see you.

 

[Seth Walsh]

Im Chad and i still prefer waiting for a clear ioi. Although i cant tell what an ioi is anymore i feel like every woman is giving me ioi’s

 

[Deleted member 39692]

?

 

[AspiringMogger]

I don't have an opening line jfl, that's even more autistic.

You just start a conversation about the vibe, something you see, the music, something someone is wearing, etc

u make something up as you go along

Incels often ask me how to approach women

I get asked this question a lot when I tell people I’ve spam approached a lot irl so I’ll give a step by step guide of what to say: - Hi my name is [blank] I came up to you cause I thought you were pretty. What’s your name? > She tells you her name - Wyd here? > She tells you some bullshit...

looksmax.org

This is all you need.